Obedience Is Pleasure

Am I dreaming? It seems as though the life I have dreamt about since I was young , is starting to become a reality for me. I am an owned bitch pet. I exist only to serve. My intelligent and experienced Owner can be found here: realexperienceddominant.tumblr.com. My interest in BDSM developed at a very early age and has never not been a part of my sex life. Being an owned slave has always intrigued me and now, with the help of my patient Owner, I am on my way to becoming the proper bitch pet and bondage slut I have always wanted to be. Pleasing my Owner has become my passion. I am absolutely committed to proving my worth and showing my Owner the devotion and respect that he deserves. I exist to serve and obey Him and I will proudly do as he says.

[myskinnygirls]

[devotedbitchpet]

Whoa - my new favorite inspirational picture. So perfect.

[devotedbitchpet]

My Task: A Trip to the Pet Store

Last week, my Owner and I discussed a task that required me to go to the pet store and try on collars. If anyone was to pass by or look I was to act completely normal. I was to act as if I was doing nothing unusual and continue with my business, because after all, I am an inferior female animal, a bitch pet - doing this is just be me expressing my true self. Anyway, my gracious and reasonable Owner, gave me the option to complete this task last week or, if I thought I was going to be too busy with the holiday and everything, I could do it this week - which is obviously the option I chose.

Now, I don’t have a car, or a license for that matter, so I found a pet store that was close enough for me to walk to, about 2 miles - which isn’t bad. I picked today because the weather was supposed to be bearable and it actually was - besides trucking through some melting snow, it was very sunny and nice outside.

I began my walk, blasting music through my headphones as usual, and I just could not stop smiling. Like I just had this giant grin on my face. I could not believe I was actually going to go through with this. A few years ago, I would have never, ever, in a million years have done a task like this. A mix of emotions radiated through me the entire walk - I was nervous, excited, aroused, and happy. I was being an obedient little bitch pet for my Owner, of course that brought me pleasure.

A funny, well I guess, maybe ironic, thing happened to me during my walk. I was getting pretty close to the store, like more than halfway there I would say, and I was about to pass a house where some woman brought her dog outside - the dog was not on a leash. Obviously a some-what well-trained dog, I thought to myself. The dog saw me and pretty much just ran straight to me - it was pretty damn cute. I love dogs. It was super nice too, it just wanted to play. The woman kept apologizing to me and I just said it was okay and tried to help get her dog to go back with her into the house because it just kept jumping around and following me. I assured her that everything was okay, I really didn’t mind at all. It was a cute experience to have. All I could think though was, oh my god, if only she knew what I was about to be doing. And again, I just smiled at the thought and continued towards my destination.

So I get to the store - I wanna say it took me 35-45 minutes to get there. It felt good to get inside, as I was a little cold. I let out a giant breath of relief as I walked past the check out area. The employees greeted me and I greeted them back and continued on my way. I looked around for a bit for the collars - it took me a little bit to find any. Turns out the first ones I saw were these like training collars, which would be perfect, I thought. But there was no way for me to take them apart and try them on, but here’s one that I found that I liked:

I really liked the chain collars, but as I said, I could not find any that I was able to try on. and they wouldn’t fit around my head - I tried, I promise. Anyway, I continued my search for metal or leather collars, because this is what my Owner had instructed. He told me to avoid the cloth ones. Finally, I came across this display:

Now, I was a little bit pissed off because first this isn’t a huge selection or anything, and it was all the leather collars that I saw! They had an entire fucking aisle of cloth ones - but this was it for the leather ones - what the fuck?! I turned around and there were some as well, but all of the leather ones seem to have that cardboard thing on the top. It made it very difficult to try on. It was pretty annoying, so I ended up getting trying on the ones at the bottom left. This one was my favorite, but like I said it was difficult to try on.

The gray one was the first one that I grabbed to try on. I was a little bit intimidated - not going to lie. I mean it is fucking crazy! Just fucking do it, just fucking do it. Those words just kept cycling through my mind. Finally, after what felt like hours, but was probably only a few seconds, I wrapped the collar around my neck and admired myself in my camera. My heart was pounding and I just felt such a high - a natural high, it was fantastic. I got nervous and quickly put that one back because I really liked the red one - it definitely caught my eye and was a little bit smaller than the grey one, which I liked also.

I put the gray one back, and let out another breath. I was actually fucking doing this! I could not even handle myself, haha. As I was about to put on the red one, a guy started to walk down the aisle. Honestly, I didn’t even look at him, I was too scared, but I continued what I was doing - as my Owner had instructed. I mean, the feeling of humiliation was pretty intense, but I loved it. LOVED IT! I was being an obedient little bitch pet for my Master, and that was all that mattered to me.

I took the collar off, put it back, and turned around to find that, even if the guy did see me, he was too interested in these fucking harness things for dogs or something. It was funny. I let out a huge breath, again, my heart was just pounding, I could not believe what I had just done. I was very proud of myself. Obedience is pleasure - that is for sure.

I headed out of the store feeling proud, but thought about everything that had happened. Those leather collars with the cardboard really pissed me off, and I really wanted to try on some chain ones. I HAVE to do this again, I thought, I NEED TO DO THIS AGAIN. I looked up some other pet stores in the area and I found one that is about equal distance from my place, just in the other direction. Next time the weather is warm, expect another post about my second trip to the pet store. Hopefully this store will have more of a selection and I’m sure I will be a bit more confident and daring, now that I have done it once already. I cannot wait! Thank you so much for assigning me this task to complete, my most honorable Owner. This task was fantastic and I very much hope that I made you proud, Sir. 

[secretfetishgirlfiend]

[realexperienceddominant]

This is how I’d like to take you out bitch pet.  This kind of dress that shows off your body and makes it clear that you’re just a stripper whore, and a hood with your senses cut off, so you have no idea who is seeing you and what will come next.

[devotedbitchpet]

Mmmm - thank you for thinking of me, Sir. Your bitch pet feels very special that you would think to take her out like this, Sir. The dress is gorgeous and I would love to wear something like that. The hood is another fantasy of mine. I would love to be brought somewhere in public with zero senses available to me. It is such a thrilling thought. Having strangers touching me, punishing me - anything could happen. Ah! I long for this experience, Sir.

[subjamie68]

[devotedbitchpet]

So gorgeous! I love the armbinder and all of the leather! I want to be in this position for you, Sir.

[makemehum]

Without question.

[devotedbitchpet]

Intelligence and confidence - the sexiest personality traits fer sure.

[wifemaster-deactivated20181218]

[devotedbitchpet]

Obedience is Pleasure. I will do anything for you @realexperienceddominant. Thank you for everything you have taught me, Sir. I will continue to work my hardest to prove my worth to you, Sir.

[training-true-sluts]

102 reasons female orgasm denial is the best

Feminists have promoted orgasms as a liberation for women but it’s the exact opposite. Orgasms make women slave to their desires, always craving for immediate reward. Freeing them from this burden opens their mind to the fulfilling role of anal only sluts. 

Found this here and could not agree more : 

I like to be denied and I’m proud of it 🙂 I’m also a woman and a feminist so I find it a bit disappointing that looking around one only finds smut and information on denial and chastity for men. So here are my reasons for denial rights :

1. I have no moral right to enjoy the same pleasures as a Dominant man. 2. I have no right to refuse pain, discomfort or frustration from my Master. 3. Permanent Orgasm Denial is safe and sane and is therefore fully within the rights of the Master. 4. Slaves have no automatic entitlement to pleasure. 5. Whether I orgasm or not should never be my decision. 6. Dominants should have the right to orgasm whenever and however they choose. 7. I have no physical need to orgasm and therefore no right to.

Service 8. Orgasms make me unwilling to serve and obey and are therefore counterproductive. 9. Denial makes me more subservient and willing to do domestic work. 10. Denial helps me to see all forms of service as being of equal importance. 11. Denial helps me prioritize service to others above pleasure for myself. 12. Denial makes me easier to train and control. 13. Denial makes me more willing and able to quickly get up and continue serving after being used sexually. 14. Denial makes me more eager to find a Dominant to serve and submit to. 15. Denial allows me to serve fully without expectations of my own pleasure.

Downsides of Orgasms 16. Orgasms make me bossy, manipulative and self-serving. 17. Orgasms make me bratty, disobedient and demanding. 18. Orgasms make me spoiled, greedy and needful. 19. Orgasms make me selfish, lethargic and unsubmissive. 20. Denial prevents mood swings caused by fluctuating sexual arousal and the highs and lows of orgasms.

Better in Bed 21. Being aroused makes me more fun to play with. 22. Most Dominant men prefer to fuck a very aroused submissive. 23. Being very aroused makes me more eager for and responsive to sex. 24. Denial makes me a better sex slave as I am not distracted by the hope of my own orgasm. 25. Denial allows the Dominant to focus on his own pleasure during sex. 26. Denial allows the Dominant to enjoy sexual relief without the pressure of being required to perform. 27. Denial gives Dominant an additional way in which to pause and enjoy my suffering. 28. Denial makes me equally happy to be used in my arse or mouth or to be cum on. 29. Denial makes it easier to accept being used by others when a Dominant requires it. 30. Being denied ensures that I have less self-imposed limitations and expectations about play and sex. 31. Denial helps me give complete sexual control and obedience to those who Dominate me. 32. Denial ensures that I am physically ready whenever and however a Dominant wishes to use me. 33. Lack of submissive expectations about pleasure ensures that the Dominant does not feel judged, compared or rejected sexually. 34. Denial makes me see sex as a privilege and not a right. 35. Denial allows the Dominant’s sexual preferences to take full priority. 36. Denial helps me focus on the pleasure of the Dominant instead of my own physical sensations. 37. A lack of concern for my pleasure and satisfaction gives more options to those who use me. 38. Denial reminds me that my preferences are not the limit of how I can be used, sexually. 38b. Denial makes my pussy tighter, giving more pleasure to my Owner.

Benefits to the Relationship 39. Denial will help me bond with my Master by establishing a constant feeling of connection, submission and control. 40. Denial ensures my faithfulness and commitment as casual partners are unlikely or unable to offer the orgasm denial that I need. 41. Permanent Orgasm Denial is an intense, rare and unique experience which will ensure a deep and powerful bond between me and those who enforce it. 42. Denial ensures a contented submissive who is not anxious about her own pleasure. 43. A happy Master is essential for a happy relationship.

Objectification 44. My sexual organs, including the clitoris, should be at the service of Dominant men at all possible times. 45. Sex is for the Dominant’s pleasure, not the slave’s. 46. It is not appropriate for a slave to lose self-control whilst serving a Dominant. 47. A slave’s body belongs to her Master and He decides how it is used. 48. My holes belong to those who use them and are for their pleasure only. 49. Serving anally and orally will help me focus on the pleasure of those who are using me. 50. My body can be used to give pleasure, enjoyment, and satisfaction to others, even when I dislike what is being done with it. 51. Denial helps me appreciate the utility, femininity, and submissiveness of my body.

Better at Taking Pain 52. Denial makes me more willing and able to take pain to please others. 53. Denial accustoms me to the reality of slavery that is physically painful or difficult. 54. Denial makes me desire pain to deal with the sexual frustration.

Altruism 55. My orgasms do not benefit anyone else and are therefore unnecessary. 56. My own pleasure is irrelevant to how much pleasure and satisfaction I can give to others. 57. Slaves are inferior to Dominants and do not deserve to orgasm. 58. Denial of orgasm is a small price to pay for the privilege of being Owned and enslaved. 59. Denial helps me to enjoy service and submission in their own right, and not just as payback for sexual pleasure. 60. Both parties working towards the Dominant’s pleasure creates harmony of purpose and avoids conflict of interest. 61. Denial helps me to appreciate the beauty, dominance, and eroticism of the male orgasm. 62. My denial pleases and arouses Dominants who enjoy this fetish. 63. Denial prevents me from favoring only the sexual and s&m activities which are likely to cause me pleasure. 64. Denial makes me more willing to try things that may not be pleasurable or desirable for me. 65. I am more useful as a slave when my enjoyment is of no concern to myself or others. 66. Denial makes me less judgmental about serving and pleasuring others. 67. Physical arousal caused by denial enables me to pleasure more men, making me more useful as a slave.

Submissive Mindstate 68. Denial helps me to see myself as a total and permanent slave. 69. Sexual frustration is a constant reminder of my submission. 70. Denial causes me to remember and focus on the non-physical and non-pleasurable aspects of submission. 71. Denial trains me to give up control of my body, even when single. 72. Denial helps me appreciate the power and privileges of Dominant males. 73. Denial shows Dominants that I am willing to serve and be obedient. 74. Orgasms are unnatural and unsubmissive for slaves.

The Pleasures of Denial 75. Sexual frustration makes me emotionally happier and more subservient. 76. Extreme arousal is fun to play with! 77. Permanent Orgasm Denial is a great reward which I should seek and hope to experience. 78. Denial is an amazing gift of arousal and control from a Dominant and should always be treasured and appreciated. 79. Denial gives me freedom from my own sexual dictates.

Denial Improves Me as a Person 80. Being denied for long periods gives me discipline and self-control. 81. Learning not to obsess about my own orgasm makes me a better, more well-rounded person. 82. Denial saves time that would be wasted on masturbation. 83. Denial prevents me from prioritizing short-term satisfaction over long-term growth and development as a submissive. 84. Denial helps me choose Dominants on the basis of giving service rather than receiving sexual pleasure. 85. Realizing that I cannot and should not have everything I want is good for my humility.

Denial as a Natural State 86. Denial is not an irregular restriction but a natural and permanent state for a slave. 87. Women have no physical need to orgasm. 88. Female orgasms are unnecessary for impregnation. 89. My orgasm serves no biological purpose. 90. Intense sexual arousal is a preferable and healthy state for adult females. 91. Denial of orgasm has been a normal state for women throughout history. 92. Sexual arousal is designed to persuade women to accept penetration from an aroused adult male. 93. Orgasms not resulting directly from insemination are unnatural and require correction. 94. My orgasm is designed to take place only after a male has ejaculated deep inside my vagina. 95. Female orgasms are designed to prevent sex from occurring after successful impregnation. 96. Female orgasms triggered by sodomy are abnormal and should be avoided. 97. Female sexual arousal is necessary to ensure breeding, unlike female orgasms. 98. Lack of sexual arousal after orgasm is an undesirable and temporary state. 99. Anal sex is a natural alternative for those wishing to avoid impregnation. 100. It is not natural for a woman to touch her sexual organs except when cleaning herself. 101. Denial causes physical arousal and lubrication prior to sex and is, therefore, natural and to be encouraged for women. 102. My arousal serves no purpose if it does not lead to impregnation.

[devotedbitchpet]

I don’t agree with every single point on here, but I will definitely say that there are some fantastic ideas here.

My favorite is #69:

Sexual frustration is a constant reminder of my submission.

[happyendingscum]

[devotedbitchpet]

So hot.

[aestheticbdsmddlg]

[bdsmbooking]

[eithereality]

[devotedbitchpet]

I would love to be objectified. Please @realexperienceddominant, Sir?

[newlifeahead]

[devotedbitchpet]

Gorgeous chains.

[theropegeek]

rope and photo by me; model:  itty-kitty

[devotedbitchpet]

Gorgeous photo and bondage.

[littlefeistykitty]

[cryformeslut]

[realexperienceddominant]

Can you see yourself sleeping like this @devotedbitchpet?   Collared, chained and owned?   Of course sleeping in the bed will be a treat for you.

[devotedbitchpet]

Yes Sir of course I can see myself sleeping like this and I know it is a privilege to sleep in bed. I love the idea of being collared and chained while I sleep - the perfect reminder of my place as an owned pet.

[myskinnygirls]

[devotedbitchpet]

So gorgeous. Another inspiration - hope one day, if I keep up the hard work, I can achieve a similar body.

[subjamie68]

[devotedbitchpet]

Oooo fun, I like the idea of this. I would love to be holding soap and towels for my Owner and any guests He may have visiting. I think it would be quite exciting to be a good little servant and pet, being quiet and just sitting and doing as I am told - holding up the soap and towels for the guests.