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“You can fool people. You can fool anybody anytime of the day, but you can’t fool yourself. At night, when you go home, you’ve got to be straight up with you.”
— Whitney Houston
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“Ideas—written ideas—are special. They are the way we transmit our stories and our thoughts from one generation to the next. If we lose them, we lose our shared history. We lose much of what makes us human.” ~ R. Bradbury
“We should first define what progress means to us. If it means increase in happiness its case is lost almost at first sight. … No matter how many difficulties we surmount, how many ideals we realize, we shall always find an excuse for being magnificently miserable;” ~ W. Durant
There are places I want to be in this world, completely at your mercy
My hands tied with your love, I'd like to be busy,
I'd like to rain,
Emptied out and then filled again
Sheets can be curtains a bed can be a home,
You could paint me again with your fingers
And I could be a painting hanging on your wall.
I am a Pluviophile.
I am a crazy Pluviophile. I love rain but I love it even more when streets are empty and sky is dark. I close my eyes and sit quietly to listen the secrets of rain. I love the sound of heavy rain on a dark intense night. I find it peaceful, graceful and fearless. The smell of rain, cold breeze and those little droplets on my window glass are my favourite. And, whenever it rains I feel nostalgic for my childhood. I remember, playing with colorful paper boats on a rainy day and dancing in rain with my friends.
PS : I still love dancing in rain.
@scribblersobia , a Pluviophile.
Those with social anxiety tend to be shyer and more reserved compared to their counterparts. But new research indicates that this general trend has a notable exception. The study, published in PLOS One, suggests there may be a significant number of “anxious extraverts.”
“Social anxiety disorder is a common, but also a heterogeneous, condition. Social anxiety can come in many different forms and it can be described in a myriad of ways. For example, it is intertwined with shyness, but some individuals with the disorder may be highly anxious without being particularly shy,” said Tomas Furmark, a psychology professor at Uppsala University and the corresponding author of the study.
“This may perhaps reflect differences in underlying personality traits. Personality can be described with five basic dimensions: Neuroticism, Extraversion, Openness, Conscientiousness and Agreeableness. It has not been widely studied if these basic personality traits differ between persons diagnosed with social anxiety disorder and the general population, or non-anxious control individuals.”
In the study, 265 individuals diagnosed with social anxiety disorder and 164 individuals without the disorder completed assessments of personality and assessments of anxiety. The researchers found that, overall, those with social anxiety disorder tended to have higher scores on neuroticism and significantly lower scores on extraversion, openness, and conscientiousness.
“But there are also considerable individual differences within the social anxiety disorder group. Only one third showed the ‘prototypical’ shy profile being both highly anxious and introverted. In fact the largest subgroup were socially anxious while having nearly normal levels of extraversion, and high levels of openness,” Furmark told PsyPost.
“Thus, we identified different subgroups of social anxiety disorder, that differed in personality traits. These differences could reflect different causes of social anxiety, for example genetic contributions, and could be important for treatment planning.”
The researchers found three specific socially anxious subgroups, which they dubbed Prototypical, Introvert-Conscientious, and Instable-Open. The Prototypical subgroup was characterized by high levels of neuroticism and low levels of conscientiousness, extraversion, and openness. The Introvert-Conscientious subgroup had lower levels of extraversion but had levels of conscientiousness that were indistinguishable from those without social anxiety.
The Instable-Open subgroup, which was the largest, had high levels of neuroticism but had levels of openness that were the same as or greater than those without social anxiety. “They also emerged as a stand-out group with regard to extraversion. In a way, these individuals could be described as ‘anxious extraverts’ although their level of extraversion was not quite on par with the healthy controls,” the researchers said.
But the study — like all research — includes some limitations.
“We used media advertisements and selected individuals that volunteered for our research project – thus, we don’t know for sure if they are representative for clinical patients with social anxiety disorder. Also we don’t know if the relationships between social anxiety disorder and personality traits are the same across different cultures. We used statistical cluster analysis to identify subgroups of social anxiety disorder but other methods exist,” Furmark explained.
The study, “Higher- and lower-order personality traits and cluster subtypes in social anxiety disorder“, was authored by Mădălina Elena Costache, Andreas Frick, Kristoffer Månsson, Jonas Engman, Vanda Faria, Olof Hjorth, Johanna M. Hoppe, Malin Gingnell, Örjan Frans, Johannes Björkstrand, Jörgen Rosén, Iman Alaie, Fredrik Åhs, Clas Linnman, Kurt Wahlstedt, Maria Tillfors, Ina Marteinsdottir, Mats Fredrikson, and Tomas Furmark.
via PsyPost
“There is no environment so unfavorable, so discouraging, no situation so disheartening that a youth who is made of the right kind of material cannot change it.” ~ O.S. Marden
“Disciplined and calm, to await the appearance of disorder and hubbub amongst the enemy: — this is the art of retaining self-possession.” ~ S. Tzu
Here are the things I want for you -
I want you to be happy. I want someone else to know the warmth of your smile, to feel the way I did when I was in your presence.
I want you to know how happy you once made me and though you really did hurt me, in the end, I was better for it. I don’t know if what we had was love, but if it wasn’t, I hope to never fall in love. Because of you, I know I am too fragile to bear it.
I want you to remember my lips beneath your fingers and how you told me things you never told another soul. I want you to know that I have kept sacred, everything you had entrusted in me and I always will.
Finally, I want you to know how sorry I am for pushing you away when I had only meant to bring you closer. And if I ever felt like home to you, it was because you were safe with me. - I want you to know that most of all.
Lang Leav
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“Life went on without you. Of course, it did. Of course, it does. It was just an ending, not the end.”
— Lang Leav
From the pages of VAUGHT’S PRACTICAL CHARACTER READER (1902).
Anyone in possession of honest ears?
I was the type of person,
That held onto things too tight,
Unable to release my grip,
When it no longer felt right,
And although it gave me blisters,
And my fingers would all ache
I always thought that holding on,
Was worth the pain it takes,
I used to think in losing things,
I'd lose part of me too,
That slowly I'd become someone,
My heart no longer knew,
Then one day something happened,
I dropped what I had once held dear,
But my soul become much lighter
Instead of filled with fear,
And it taught my heart that some things,
Aren't meant to last for long,
They arrive to teach you lessons,
And then continue on,
You don't have to cling to people
Who no longer make you smile,
Or do something you've come to hate,
If it isn't worth your while,
That sometimes the thing you're fighting for,
Isn't worth the cost
And not everything you ever love,
Is bound to be a loss
-e.h
Why are you making me feel less these days?
April 2020 -kdmsm
“If flowers can handle the rain, so can I.”
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““If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. If they don’t, they never were.””
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