"Escaping 2020 Shifttok" : GETTING YOUR OWN OPINION (And relying on yourself) ۶ৎ
As one was raised to do, people rely on other people. It's not every day that someone just trusts themselves enough to be fully independent, and I have seen that especially in shifting.
"2020 Shifttok" as people call it is apparently an era of TikTok where shifting had a lot of misinformation and ended up being watered down into unbelievable bits.
It ultimately became one of many reasons why a lot of shifters feel blockage.
"Dior, how to escape from my mind of 2020 Shifttok?" First: Understand you didn't follow 202 shifttok because you were dumb, you follow through with it because you are passionate. You did not follow the ideologies for no reason, but because you knew that to shift is what you wanted. It is still what you want, but you are believeing that 2020 shift tok ruined everything for you. It might not have.
1, the belief of "ruin" in shifting is already what holds back a lot of people. With a journey comes mistakes and redemption. If you fell into Shifttok so far you think you can't get out, make use of what you learned. Yes, staying hydrated and cleaning your room before you shift is useful. It helps with stress and helps with organization, it will ultimately help you declutter your space. Maybe it won't immediately make you shift, but it helps in the long run. This is what I mean. The information you took in, you took in for a reason. It will help with anything eventually, you just see it as a blockage which is why you don't think it will do you any good when it will.
Don't absorb any kind of information you find. If you look at a method and a lot of people have shifted with it, it doesn't mean you automatically will too. It is like clothes. If it fits other people, you have to look and see what differences other people's body have with yours in order to see if it will actually fit. If you are a size medium and they are a size extra small, then it won't fit you like it fits them, and you need to find a different size. With your own size, you can even measure yourself and sew your own clothes with the materials you already have. Your materials are your knowledge. You can use your own experience and preferences to begin making your own method.
Remember that you have time. You have time to improve, grow, and learn. Every day your goal is to shift, but make the most out of every lesson. Discover what methods work for you, discover what methods do not. Think about yourself, as no one will prioritize your shifting journey more than they prioritize their own. This can go for anything, but let's stay on the topic of shifting for now. You can only help yourself. Your mind and your heart know eachother, and if you think that anyone else can define you, you are wrong. Ultimately, you know yourself a lot more than you think. With some examination and experience, it'll take a lot less searching and a lot more of-- what do I think? Based on how I do this, how I feel about this, and what I know about this, should I do A or B?
Old advice you dedicate yourself to will always be there, so don't try to get rid of it-- change it up a little to go in your favor. Redecorate it nice and pretty, so it'll be a lot better to be around.













