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wow I haven't even looked at this platform in over 3 yrs but my spicy posts are still pissing people off. loves it
Make Some Pocket Extenders for Your Pants
So I donât know about you, but Iâm often frustrated by the ridiculous smallness of girlsâ pockets. At a bare minimum, I need to be able to shove my cellphone in there - come on, pants companies! So what I started doing was making myself pocket extenders. Iâve done this several times, for pants and shorts. Itâs great.
I just got this pair of jeans, so I thought Iâd show you how to do it. I kind of feel like it just hasnât occurred to some of you that this is an option, so maybe now it will. All you need is your pants, some fabric (I just took a random piece from a scrap bin), a needle, and some thread (thread doesnât even need to match the fabric since literally no one will see it).
See? Ridiculous. Like, half a cellphone, or only 2.5âł. Useless.
 So turn those inside out to expose the pockets.
Figure out how big you want your pockets to actually be. I kinda go by whatever looks like might be right. I didnât really measure them. Fold the fabric in half, so you have a pocket, and then fold it in half again so you can have two equal ones.
Try to get the edges to line up enough, pin it in place, then sew up the sides! Are your stitches crazy uneven and wonky looking? Doesnât matter; nobodyâs going to see it. These are in the inside of your pants. The only thing that matters is that it holds up. So I double-did the corners, since those tend to get the most stress.
Cut open the bottom of the existing pockets.
Pin it in place, then sew around, joining the new pocket to the old pocket. I did this by keeping my hand on the inside, so I wouldnât accidentally sew through the other side. Again, I reinforced the corners, and didnât worry about what it actually looks like. Then I turned it in side out to make sure the inside was all joined properly.
Yay all done! And the pockets are so much bigger now!
Whaaaat I can fit my entire phone and entire hand and probably something else now, are girlsâ pockets even allowed to do that?! Heck yeah they are.
You are a goddamn hero.
The fashion industry just needs to catch the fuck up!
The fashion industry wants to sell you pants AND a purse. Theyâve made a conscious decision not to catch up.
Reblogging for the truth in the last comment. That is, in a nutshell, the way everything works in this world.
b*tch I'm about to DO this
here, i memeâd
this is the content im here for
hi guys Iâm antigender (a gender that leads u to understand that gender is an oppressive social construct) & disagreeing w me is officially violence
thereâs nothing violent about: -being a lesbian -talking about female anatomy -talking about reproductive rights -discussing and naming male violence -not trusting male people EtcâŚ.
"choke and die!!!!!" be honest w me. are you 15 years old
30 yrs ago: little boy: i want to play with dolls everyone: no, youâre a boy. you canât play with dolls. what are you, gay? god damn misfit. 2017: little boy: i want to play with dolls everyone: boys donât play with dolls, so you must be a girl. thank god ur actually a just girl, and not gay or anything. lol. letâs start you on puberty blockers and change your pronouns.
When has this ever happened lmaoâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚ
This post is transphobic garbage holy shit like are you seriously implying that trans children are forced into their identities by their parents you fucking freak?
hey did you know that Cher did this exact thing w her child?
Hey did you know youâre a disgusting transphobe and Chaz Bono came out as trans as an adult in 2008?
uhh... is there a point there or? do you have any more random facts from like wikipedia? cher rejected her child as a lesbian woman, & accepted him as a straight trans man. believe it or not a lot of people don't want a gnc gay child. they'd rather have children that conform to gender roles than just be who they are in peace. which is what my entire point is. that gender is oppressive and socially enforced. by adults onto their children etc also hurrdurr how can i be a transphobe if i don't even identify w the ~gender I was assigned @ birth~ đ¤
me: homophobia is alive and well someone on this website who thinks "stupid" is a slur: omg lmfao you are sooo fuckin ignorant
i think that people, especially children, should just be allowed to live the way they want without gender being forced upon them by everyone and everything around them... because gender is inherently oppressive... like idk how i can make this any more clear
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i wish i was still naive and sheltered enough to believe that people don't uphold gender roles by any means necessary lmfao
30 yrs ago: little boy: i want to play with dolls everyone: no, youâre a boy. you canât play with dolls. what are you, gay? god damn misfit. 2017: little boy: i want to play with dolls everyone: boys donât play with dolls, so you must be a girl. thank god ur actually a just girl, and not gay or anything. lol. letâs start you on puberty blockers and change your pronouns.
When has this ever happened lmaoâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚ
This post is transphobic garbage holy shit like are you seriously implying that trans children are forced into their identities by their parents you fucking freak?
hey did you know that Cher did this exact thing w her child?
i had to sit with two people (a married couple) at a wedding over the weekend who voted for trump & the husband was like, "oh after I voted for him I just stopped paying attention to politics altogether, I don't know anything that's going on lol" like oh how nice that must be for you to be a straight white christian male in America
@twerkcircus why are u so obsessed with me
I commented twiceâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚ.. once was in response to a mutualâŚâŚâŚâŚ
what about.......... the other two posts of mine you commented on........... u obviously want attn so here it is......................
thanks...........
not the reason radfems want to destigmatize and appreciate periods: because theyâre cute and fun and not gross at all. the actual reason: girls are shamed for their periods, to the point where girls literally die in menstrual huts. periods are given as a reason women should not be leaders. tampons are taxed as a luxury. girls are taught to hide the fact that they get periods (hide pads/tampons, for example)
like even right now in Britain girls from low-income families are missing school because of their periods:
One pupil, who started her period aged 11, told BBC Radio Leeds that she had taped toilet roll to her underwear and missed school every month because she couldnât access sanitary protection.
âI wrapped a sock around my underwear just to stop the bleeding, because I didnât want to get shouted at,â she said. âI once Sellotaped tissue to my underwear. I didnât know what else to do.
âI didnât get any money because my mum was a single parent and she had five mouths to feed, so there wasnât much leftover money in the pot to be giving to us.â
Women in poverty here are using newspaper and old socks. Tina Leslie, who founded Freedom4Girls (a charity that provides sanitary protection in Kenya) said:
âI knew it was happening to homeless women and women accessing food banks, but not in schools. Itâs something you donât think about until somebody tells you.
âIt is linked to poverty. In developing and third world countries itâs well-known that 60 per cent of women and girls donât have access and they win five days of education, but itâs not widely known that itâs also an issue here in the UK. We knew it was happening, but not on what scale.
âThere were 25,000 visits to food banks in Leeds alone last year. So if youâre at crisis point you go to a food bank and, like in Kenya, if you canât afford food you canât afford sanitary protection.
(fwiw the population of Leeds is 750,000.)
In America a model was fired from Hyundai last month for having her period. She wasnât allowed to use the bathroom and consequently soiled her clothes, then was asked to go home âbecause of her âperiod situation,â according to her US Equal Employment Opportunity Commission complaint.â
As she was being paid by the hour, Rickert wanted to carry on working. She protested but was told to go home.
Two days later, Seifred called Rickert and told her she was being fired âbecause Hyundai heard about Ms. Rickert having her menstrual cycle and they didnât want Ms. Rickert representing the company anymore,â according to the EEOC complaint.
The situation is much, much worse in much of the world. In Nepal:
the practice of isolating women during their period [known as chhaupadi] exists across the country in differing formsâŚÂ In some places, women cannot be in their own homes during their period; in others women can be in the house, but not in the kitchen and worship room. They are also forbidden from touching other people (especially male members of the family or neighbours) or cattle and from growing fruit and vegetables. Women become untouchable.
[in some parts]Â menstruating women are literally banished to a shed while they bleed.
Some of them die. Women subjected to chhaupadi are at risk of health problems, including pneumonia, suffocation, and sexual assault, during their menstruation. It is also blamed for prolonged depression, young womenâs deaths and high infant mortality rates.Â
In urban India, 43% of girls use reusable cloth, yet they are often washed without soap or clean water.Â
Another study found that 88% of women in India use old fabric, rags or sand to manage their flow, because they cannot access or afford commercial sanitary padsÂ
A study in Mukuru, Nairobi found that girls ages 10- 19 reported having sex with older men to afford basic needs like sanitary pads.Â
In another study, 73 percent of interviewed Bangladeshi garment workers reported they miss work for an average of six days per month (resulting in unpaid work days) due to vaginal infections caused by unsanitary menstrual materials. This is a loss that few can afford, particularly those  who live on less than two dollars a day.
From the same link, according to UNICEF, 83 percent of girls in Burkina Faso and 77 percent in Niger have no place at school to change their sanitary menstrual materials.
1.25 billion women donât have access to a toilet during menstruation!!
We need to end period stigma and increase access to sanitary protection worldwide.Â
Dignity Period, Femme International, and Freedom4Girls all accept financial donations. Canât donate? Then keep talking about it!!Â
Some of you that are quite so quick to shout âSWERFâ sure are equally as quick to forget that fact that some of us are actually trafficking survivors, some of us are exited women, some of us are still âsex workersâ.Â
Iâm a trafficking survivor, Iâve âworkedâ (read: been raped and tortured) for longer than half of you have been alive, mostly because I was being sold from the age of four-five. Iâm not the only one. The reason why most of us are so strongly advocating for the dismantling of the pornography and prostitution âindustriesâ is because weâve been there and done that, because some of us are still there. Weâve seen and lived the violence and the rapes and the torture.
You can convince yourself all you like that your porn is ethical and that âsex workâ is empowering and amazing, you can carry on insisting that the precious white cam-girls you trust so much are the majority and that weâre the minority.Â
But 1 - I fucking assure you that weâre not the minority
and 2 - are you really going to fucking justify your porn on the basis that only a few women and children are being trafficked, raped and tortured, really?
Your porn isnât ethical, itâs still relying on the rape and torture of and the dehumanisation and objectification of women and children.
So come, come and tell me Iâm a âSWERFâ, because kiddo you got some shit to learn.
Although I agree and support this post 100% letâs not forget that there are still women who work in the sex industry at their own will and actually do enjoy it. Iâm not against sex work at all but I do understand that high risks this industry imposes especially because it is a black market industry in many countries. Children and underage girls are more prone to being victims of sex trafficking. So yes, letâs do all that we can to protect children, underage girls and every other victim of sex trafficking. However, let us not paint the entire sex industry as a manipulative, and exploitive industry because there are still some women who enjoy their work within this industry. Let us not assume that each and every sex worker has to be a victim in some way whether itâs âdaddy issuesâ or that theyâre simply lured and tricked into a âbetter lifeâ. Issues like these are frustrating because of how huge the issue is altogether. Itâs hard to know where to start in order to make some changes. Itâs also frustrating because majority of the consumer base is misogynistic men who just donât give a rats ass about the safety of these workers and are only concerned with their personal pleasure.
Frankly, no.
Youâre talking about a minority of 8%; youâre talking about equally prioritising the âempowermentâ, the âenjoymentâ and the âchoiceâ of 8% to the rape, trauma, pain and suffering of 92%. Which, yes, is admittedly better than the general view of silencing the 92% in favour of that 8% but itâs still not OK.
The entire sex (rape, abuse and trauma) âindustryâ is based on manipulation and exploitation. It is an âindustryâ built on a culture of objectifying, sexualising, fetishising and infantalising womenâs and childrenâs bodies. It is an âindustryâ that is built on the idea that consent can be bought; it is an âindustryâ where consent can be negotiated. This is manipulation and coercion; consent cannot be bought, consent cannot be negotiated. Consent can never be freely given when money is involved. This is rape. This is not a feminist âindustryâ. It is not empowering and it has serious consequences on all women as a class and specifically women of colour, working class and underclass women and other women who are incredibly vulnerable to the rape culture perpetuated and supported by prostitution, trafficking and pornography (i.e. childhood sexual abuse and incest survivors, domestic abuse survivors without the finances to survive after leaving their abusive partners, the mentally ill and those living with addiction.)
Youâre also forgetting the role that cognitive dissonance plays. Not that long ago, I would have counted myself as part of that 8%, despite the fact that I was trafficked. Surviving the sex âindustryâ, whether youâre trafficked or not, requires severe dissociation, a severe disconnect to the violent and humiliating traumas we have to live through on a daily basis. It eventually reaches a point where, yes, you will say that you love it, that you want it, that itâs the best job youâve ever had, that it makes you feel âsexyâ, that itâs âempoweringâ, that itâs something you chose and you enjoy. Because the reality is the pain and the trauma and the only way you can survive, in the moment, without your brain completely breaking is to convince yourself and everyone around you that itâs what you want; it gives you some semblance of power and control over what is happening to you and your body. This, of course, doesnât take into account trafficking survivors or those working for violent pimps who donât have the freedom or the safety to freely admit the pain and trauma and their lack of âchoiceâ and also the increased need for cognitive dissonance to survive that sense of being trapped and feeling unable to ever escape. For the majority of us, that all comes crashing down eventually, but I would very freely wager that thereâs a good number within that 8% who do have a severe cognitive dissonance and thus their being counted in that 8% may not be completely accurate.
Even, even, if 100% of the people involved in the sex âindustryâ were empowered, happy and had made that âchoiceâ, then there would still be issues that we should be very concerned about. Once again, I repeat the fact that consent cannot be bought. Once again, I repeat the fact that it is an industry based on the objectification, the sexualisation, the fetishising and the initialising of womenâs and childrenâs bodes. It is an industry run for and by misogynistic and violent men who are commodifying the female body, who are profiting off of the rape and abuse of women.
And the consequences of the sex âindustryâ are not directly limited to the women and children involved. It is a cornerstone of rape culture. When our young men consume pornography; they consistently take those views and perceptions of sex, womanhood and consent into their lives. Young women are coercively raped and manipulated by their peers (and older men) so as to âperformâ as the women in pornography do. Young women (and older women) feel the need to shave their pubic hair, to get vaginoplasty (to tighten the vaginal canal and improve sensitivity) and labiaplasty (to change the size and shape of either the labia minora or labia majoria to get that âperfect porn p*ssyâ), to get breast augmentation, to lose weight, to make their bodies more child like. Young women (and older women) are âencouragedâ and manipulated into consenting to increasingly dangerous and harmful sex acts (i.e. anal sex and BDSM), which lead to injury, some of which is long-lasting, and a âconsensualâ way of beating, abusing and harming women and there is nothing, nothing, that any pro-kink, sex-pozi person can say to me that will make me believe that the beating of women under the guise of kink is acceptable and not based on the violent and misogynist urges of men. Young women are able to buy clothes that deem them pornstars, s*uts, sexy; they are able to buy clothes and fancy dress costumes that are designed purely to sexualise them. Young women are coerced into sending nudes and videos to men, which are then often used in revenge pornography or shared with other men. Men are left believing that with just the right persuasion, women will do anything for them, especially if they are women of colour, mentally ill or addicts. With the increase in BDSM pornography, pornography where the woman is sleeping or intoxicated, pornography where the woman is in a school uniform and severely infantalised, pornography where consent is negotiated, pornography where two lesbians suddenly decide that they want to sleep with a man, pornography where⌠do I really need to go on? This affects all of us, every single woman is impacted by the sex âindustryâ, every single woman and girl, no exceptions.
It is not the majority of the consumer base that is misogynistic, it is every single man that pays to rape women and children, that consumes pornography where women and children are being raped. There is not an exception. The entire industry is based on the sexualisation of womenâs bodies, based on the profiting and consumption and violence perpetuated on womenâs bodies and that is inherently misogynistic.
I go back to my last point -
âYour porn isnât ethical, itâs still relying on the rape and torture of and the dehumanisation and objectification of women and children.â