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Renaming Persecutors
Persecutors get a bad rap...
Yes, they are often violent and hurt the system, but that’s not the reason they exist.
Protectors exist for those times when the system is in danger to protect the rest of the system from the trauma.
Persecutors exist to keep the system out of the danger in the first place.
There are two ways to change someone else’s behaviour (which the persecutor is doing. They can try to bribe them, which works sometimes if the bribe is good enough, or they can threaten to hurt them if they don’t change their ways. Carrot and stick motivation. Because persecutors live in the same headspace and often don’t have access to external rewards for the system, they often have to resort to threats for motivation. It’s something they actually can follow through on.
But for this reason, I think we should rename Persecutors as Motivators. Their goal is to motivate a change in behaviour and that should be acknowledged.
Does this mean attacking the system is a good thing to do? Absolutely not. But it’s understandable in the context of their role.
🍭🍼 Types of Littles! 🍼🍭
🐑 Lamb 🍼🌛 ☆ Always sleepy ☆ If given the chance will nap all day ☆ Bedtime bottles w/ warm milk ☆ Comfy clothes and pajamas only!!! ☆ Many many many stuffies ☆ Is always up for cuddles ☆ White, blue, yellow, and purple ☆
🦉 Owl ☕📚 ☆"Sleeping’s for babies!!!“ + loves learning ☆ Documentaries are often watched (How it’s Made, Unwrapped, ect.) ☆ wears oversized sweaters to have sweater paws at all times ☆ Storytime is the best time! ☆ Cute mugs w/ yummy drinks ☆ Earth tones, very warm ☆
🐥 Duckie 🛀🎉 ☆ Smol but can be full of ANGER ☆ Squeaky voice! ☆ Bathtime with TONS of bubbles ☆ Bites? (no bites) BITE ☆ Lots of hopping around ☆ Non-spill sippy cups are great for tantrums ☆ Pastels everywhere ☆
🐶 Puppy 🔴🎠 ☆ Full of energy + excitement ☆ Eager to please, tries their best to listen ☆ Loves the classics: blocks, playdoh, coloring ☆ Bite proof sippy cups ☆ Cartoon bandaids ☆ Primary colors ☆
🦇 Bat 🍵🎶 ☆ Can be very independent but sometimes needs to be babied ☆ Watches Nightmare Before Christmas year round ☆ Choker necklaces ☆ Made an entire Little Space playlist on Spotify and sings along to every lyric ☆ Puts all drinks in travel coffee cups ☆ Black, greys, purple, and red ☆
🐰 Bunny 👑🍰 ☆ The Royal littles: Princess, Prince, Princex ☆ Totally spoiled ☆ Loves tea parties and playing dress up ☆ Only wants to eat cute or colorful foods ☆ Has an abundance of sippy cups and bottles ☆ Pink, blue, purple, and glitter ☆
🐢 Turtle 📺🖍 ☆ Shy and quiet ☆ Often goes nonverbal ☆ Lives in pillowforts ☆ Loves watching cartoons and coloring ☆ Apple juice in straw cups ☆ Green, yellow, and red ☆
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Sounds like something a cat would do
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“Cooperating with various parts of yourself is sometimes more easily said than done because there is so much avoidance and conflict that keeps dissociative parts separated.”
- Coping With Trauma-Related Dissociation (pg.69)
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"Persecutors"
Okay I've mentioned how I disagree with how Tumblr (and really every online DID community I've been a part of) views persecutors. For starters hi, this is Izabella, I am an alter that would usually be considered a persecutor. I lash out, I don't think before I speak, I've hurt people (including myself), I'm mean sometimes, all in all sometimes I do terrible things. And sure I've grown a lot and I regret a lot of the hurtful things I've done, I try to apologize for these things when I can.
Every part/alter acts a certain way for a reason. Using the term persecutor I found tends to diminish the reason that persecutors do what they do. Parts that lash out exist for a reason. They don't do it because they like to, everybody has a motive. I lash out because I was trying to escalate things before anyone else had the chance to.
Ignoring your persecutor alters is incredibly harmful. So many systems demonize their alters and lock them away. You cannot lock away your parts, it is harmful. No matter how awful it is you have to accept them because they're a part of you. Dismissing or endorsing their actions helps nobody and will only hurt you in the long run.
My suggestion is just, talk to them. Understand their motives, give them a say in the system and make them feel like they belong there. If you shun them away and say that they're horrible they'll keep lashing out. They lash out the same way a depressed teenager does. The longer you wait the worse it gets. These are alters that need help.
Tumblr has a way of demonizing them as well. Making them seem awful and horrible and also just labeling them as an alter you don't like. One of my biggest regrets is labeling one of us a persecutor. We let our persecutors decide they want to go by that term (I did not decide to as I felt constraint by that role but that's a different topic). One alter we chose the term for, he felt so awful and that he had to stay within the bounds of his role that he couldn't accept his actions or why he did them and eventually went dormant instead.
Don't demonize persecutors. They are not bad. They are not awful. They are hurting. They are doing what they think is right. Talk to them, learn from them, odds are they have something important to contribute to the system.
Every alter or part or whatever you want to call it has a reason to exist. Find out theirs.
Is there a term you would prefer?
Me personally I like to use protector. There’s a whole other thing about the focus in the DID community of knowing your alters roles too. Honestly the problem here is not the role persecutor it is the demonization of the role.
- Izabella
I understand that. And, honestly, some of the most amazing people I know are “persecutors”. But the term itself has a negative connotation. I do agree that they’re a form of protector. I also agree that “roles” are highly suspicious in general. For instance, I’m a caregiver/s*xual protector/trauma bearer. None of those are what define me though. Nobody should be defined by a single label.
"Persecutors"
Okay I've mentioned how I disagree with how Tumblr (and really every online DID community I've been a part of) views persecutors. For starters hi, this is Izabella, I am an alter that would usually be considered a persecutor. I lash out, I don't think before I speak, I've hurt people (including myself), I'm mean sometimes, all in all sometimes I do terrible things. And sure I've grown a lot and I regret a lot of the hurtful things I've done, I try to apologize for these things when I can.
Every part/alter acts a certain way for a reason. Using the term persecutor I found tends to diminish the reason that persecutors do what they do. Parts that lash out exist for a reason. They don't do it because they like to, everybody has a motive. I lash out because I was trying to escalate things before anyone else had the chance to.
Ignoring your persecutor alters is incredibly harmful. So many systems demonize their alters and lock them away. You cannot lock away your parts, it is harmful. No matter how awful it is you have to accept them because they're a part of you. Dismissing or endorsing their actions helps nobody and will only hurt you in the long run.
My suggestion is just, talk to them. Understand their motives, give them a say in the system and make them feel like they belong there. If you shun them away and say that they're horrible they'll keep lashing out. They lash out the same way a depressed teenager does. The longer you wait the worse it gets. These are alters that need help.
Tumblr has a way of demonizing them as well. Making them seem awful and horrible and also just labeling them as an alter you don't like. One of my biggest regrets is labeling one of us a persecutor. We let our persecutors decide they want to go by that term (I did not decide to as I felt constraint by that role but that's a different topic). One alter we chose the term for, he felt so awful and that he had to stay within the bounds of his role that he couldn't accept his actions or why he did them and eventually went dormant instead.
Don't demonize persecutors. They are not bad. They are not awful. They are hurting. They are doing what they think is right. Talk to them, learn from them, odds are they have something important to contribute to the system.
Every alter or part or whatever you want to call it has a reason to exist. Find out theirs.
Is there a term you would prefer?
It’s mental health awareness month! How to support someone with Dissociative Identity Disorder.
If they disclose to you that they have DID:
DO:
• Accept them. Tell them that you still respect and care for them.
• Tell them that you are there if they need your help.
• Tell them to let you know if there are any triggers that are important for you to know. If they choose to tell you any, be patient and understanding. Listen attentively.
Helpful things to say or ask:
• “Is there anything you need me to do to make sure you feel safe in our relationship?
• “If you want to tell me more about it, I am here to listen.”
• “If there are any triggers you think I should be aware of, please let me know.”
• “I’m here if you need help with anything.”
• “I still love you and you are still my friend/family/partner.”
DON’T:
• Ask if they are dangerous or if they are going to harm you.
• Ask them what their trauma is.
• Call them crazy.
• Suggest that their mental illness is caused by supernatural or pseudoscientific means. (AKA, NEVER suggest that someone is possessed or haunted.)
• Bombard them with questions.
• Demand proof.
• Force then to switch as evidence.
• React in an unkind or rude way.
• Minimize or invalidate them.
• Tell them DID isn’t real.
• Deny their existence or refuse to call their alters by their names.
• Demand any answers from them.
Unhelpful things to say or ask:
• “I’ve known you for [span of time]. I would have noticed if you had it.”
• “It’s fine as long as you aren’t going to murder me.”
• “What’s your trauma? Did [traumatic event] happen to you?”
• “Isn’t that really rare? How could you have it?”
• “You had an easy childhood so there’s no way.”
• “You don’t know what ‘hard’ is.” “You were lucky to have the childhood you had.”
• “I just don’t get why you’re doing this to me.”
• “Can you imagine how hard this is for me?”
• “Tell me your triggers.”
If they’re switching or dissociating:
DO:
• Be patient with them.
• Tell them that it’s okay, and to take their time.
• Politely ask who’s fronting.
• Reintroduce yourself, as if a new person just walked into the room.
• Fill them in if they are unaware of what is going on.
DON’T:
• Snap or clap in their face.
• Express that you only want to interact with the previously fronting alter.
• Raise your voice, or try to force them to “snap out of” their dissociation.
• Ask if they are going to harm you, or if they are “evil”.
• Tell them “they should know what’s happening”, or refuse to fill them in on what is happening.
• Accuse or blame them for not being a good friend, not listening, or dissociating. 
DID is a highly stigmatized disorder. People fear disclosing this disorder to their loved ones, because their safety could be compromised. They trusted you enough to tell you. It is your job to create a space of love, acceptance, and respect for them.
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@yoonbum-in-drag please debunk. I will wait
There are not actual fucking laws claiming this, and what laws this asshat is talking about are called “Obscenity Laws” aka the government gets to decide what it okay and not okay for a society to consume when it comes to FICTIONAL CONTENT.
Before touching other countries laws regarding fictional pornography and laws, let’s talk about Obscenity Laws, and why it’s important to recognize not only how pro-censorship these laws are, but also what Antis inherently support when they bring up any laws that are considered Obscenity Laws.
“Obscenity law is the law that regulates what images, speech and other expressions individuals can lawfully communicate. Obscenity law concerns itself with banning or suppressing speech that violates standards of good taste and decency. The area of law balances legitimate communication in a free society with the purposes of public censorship.” [x]
Why do obscenity laws exist?
“Obscenity laws protect a sense of morality in society. Where obscenity laws exist, it’s because lawmakers believe that some types of speech and expression are so offensive that they ought to be prohibited. Obscenity laws attempt to maintain and promote standards of integrity and decency in society.” [x]
Now you’d think these laws would be a great thing, right? Wanting to protect the morals and decency of our modernizing and progressing societies is a rather good idea to do… but, we humans are not perfect, an these laws are created and enforced by humans who have different ideas and feelings to what is obscene and what isn’t– which can be easily corrupted and misused.
Obscenity laws remain controversial
“As one judge said, what one man believes is vulgar, another man sees as just a song lyric. Obscenity laws are controversial because standards of decency and morality vary greatly from person to person and community to community. In addition, standards of morality can change. Prohibitions that seem justifiable to some at the time, such as a ban on sending contraceptives through the mail, might seem offensive only a few years later.” [x]
While the federal government is not interested in obscenity laws, states are typically the one’s to create them and enforce them in any way they’d like; of course, majority of cases have been struck down by the Supreme Court as unconstitutional when it came to these obscenity laws [PROTECT Act is an Obscenity Law]
What is Child Porn?
“Child pornography is considered to be any depiction of a minor or an individual who appears to be a minor who is engaged in sexual or sexually related conduct. This includes pictures, videos, and computer-generated content. Even altering an image or video so that it appears to be a minor can be considered child pornography. One important exception to the category of illegal child pornography is artistic renderings or depictions that have serious literary, artistic, political, or scientific value.” [x]
Simulated child pornography is child pornography depicting what appear to be minors but which is produced without the direct involvement of children in the production process itself.
Types of simulated child pornography include: modified photographs of real children, non-minor teenagers made to look younger (age regression), and fully computer-generated imagery[1] or adults made to look like children.[2](Drawings or animations that depict sexual acts involving children but are not intended to look like photographs may also be considered by some to be simulated child pornography.)
Now, Antis like to use this basic definition to claim that any depiction of a minor, especially in fiction, can be considered pedophilia/child porn. This is entirely false.
What Legally Makes It Child Pornography?
So, you know what, even though fiction falls under grey legality, the law is even more caring of real children since they don’t equate ships to CHILD PORN AND CHILD MOLESTATION.
Allow me to give you the real definition–from 18 U.S. Code § 2256–when we’re talking about artwork:
“The term “indistinguishable” used with respect to a depiction, means virtually indistinguishable, in that the depiction is such that an ordinary person viewing the depiction would conclude that the depiction is of an actual minor engaged in sexually explicit conduct. This definition does not apply to depictions that are drawings, cartoons, sculptures, or paintings depicting minors or adults.” [x]
Child porn is only considered that if the individual looks so realistic that they could be assumed as a real human being. Anime and cartoon characters don’t typically look like real depictions of real children.
And don’t bother citing the PROTECT Act, because that was deemed unconstitutional on a federal level as of United States vs Handley, which is the ONLY CASE THAT WE KNOW OF that was based completely on drawn material of fictional characters, without any discovery of other types of material in the possession of the accused:
“Last year, the Supreme Court declared unconstitutional a federal law that criminalized the possession of “virtual” child pornography, i.e., materials whose production may not have involved the use of real children.”
People have been sexualizing cartoons in general for nearly a century, and few people have had any issue with this, due to cartoons typically having proportions that don’t resemble those of actual human beings. Especially when we’re talking about anime or anime-influenced artwork, even art books on drawing manga talk about the interchangeability of faces between age, and even gender.
What you are referring to as “drawn child porn” is people making fan art of fictional characters that are usually at least in their teens. The overwhelming majority of the people creating this fan art are young women and teenage girlsthat are using fan works as a means to explore their sexuality in a way that they don’t feel physically pressured, threatened, or intimidated.
There is no fucking legality when it even comes to ships– because it doesn’t fall under anything illegal, UNLESS the artwork is so fucking realistic that you couldn’t make out if it’s a photo or not, or it’s realistic artwork of a child that does exist, then does it become illegal.
Sim CP in the United States
The legal treatment of simulated child pornography in the United States requires an understanding of the components of that phrase: pornography, child, and simulated. United States law treats these as separate concepts, each worthy of analysis.
In the United States, pornography is considered a form of personal expression, and thus governed by the First Amendment to the Constitution. Pornography is generally protected speech, unless it is obscene, as the Supreme Court of the United States held in 1973 in Miller v. California.
In 2002 the United States Supreme Court ruled in Ashcroft v. Free Speech Coalition that the Child Pornography Prevention Act of 1996 (CPPA) was facially invalid in prohibiting virtual or cartoon child pornography. The basis for the ruling was that the CPPA made unlawful some forms of protected First Amendment speech, banning depictions of sex between children even if not obscene and not involving real child victims. Under New York v. Ferber, if the depiction is of real child abuse or a real child victim, as a result of photographing a live performance, for instance, then it is not protected speech. Under Miller v. California, obscene speech is likewise excluded from First Amendment protection. The CPPA made all virtual child sex depictions illegal without regard to whether the speech was protected or not, so that part of the statute was struck down as facially invalid.
It serves no purpose to spread false information about the legality of the subjects. It serves no purpose to trivialize the subject or change the definition of terms specified by law according to personal opinion or bias.
Critique of banning and heavily censoring genres like anime, manga, sexual violence, lolicon/shotacon, and the issue with supporting governmental and large corporation censorship
Normalization and Desensitization regarding Fiction
The dangers and harm misusing serious terms like pedophilia/pedophile cause
Antis use of Slippery Slope and radical zealot/far-right conservative rhetoric
Why there is no real Moral Responsibility in fiction / Why Antis show an unhealthy amount of Moral Purity and Disgust Sensitivity, or Imaginative Resistance to fiction
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I got banned from a server because my host pointed this shit out