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diverx

Now that is a good way to tease me...

feminismisstillahatemovement

amysubmits

The balls on the Wall Street bull are discolored from being touched, too. It ain't just humans. It's funny to a lot of people to touch fake genitals. 🤷‍♀️

devildaddys-world-deactivated20

i love making people horny. it's not necessarily because i want to fuck or do anything with them. i just like feeling my words, my actions have caused that arousal, the almost uncontrollable need to please themselves. it's a game that brings pleasure to me.

diverx

She said it first but , i feel the same!

lilylilium

Reblog to give the person you reblogged this from a Croissant (🥐).

the-lushs-one-always

Now Go Misbehave.

explore4release

Take Note 🗒️

Some Things To Consider 🙏

a-decadent-hope-deactivated2026

👁D+F👁

amysubmits

When people say things like

“My dom(me) can do anything they want to me.”

or

“My dom(me) has total control over everything in our relationship.”

Or

“I never question my dominant, I just obey.”

Or

“I always submit fully.”

Or most other statements that include words like always, never, completely, totally, other “absolute” words etc…

They usually are said within a context that includes mutual understanding that actually does put limitations on the scenario. They aren’t literal statements. Using the “Id do anything my dominant told me to” example…it’s really something more like…

“My partner knows my limits and has my consent to initiate different types of sex or play. I know they wouldn’t ask me to do anything that was against a known limit. I also know they are a moral, ethical person who has a lot of respect for me and for our relationship. I know they wouldn’t ask me to do something harmful to others or to myself. Plus, if they ever try to initiate a type of play that I am randomly triggered by or otherwise can’t do in that moment, I have a safeword that they would immediately and fully respect. So within this framework we’ve built together, it feels like they can pretty much ask me to do anything, and we find it hot to say they can do anything to me. But we both know if they asked me to do something that is a hard limit, asked me to harm another person, do something against my core beliefs, among lots of other things - that there are lots of things I wouldn’t be willing to do.”

I am sure most people in the BDSM and D/s communities know this, but I know sometimes people who are newer to the community may not. Some harmful people try to convince subs that they should strive to do literally anything asked of them for their dom(me). So I thought it was worth saying more explicitly. Literally everyone has limits, all subs maintain some degree of autonomy. There aren’t really any absolutes in kink or power exchange. People like using absolutes, but they aren’t literal.

diverx

This is perfect

You better get used to it babygirl.

I want what i want , when i want it , how i want it!!!

So bend over that sofa , pull your panties down and i am going to lick , kiss , and tingue fuck your ass until you cant think !

Make the room spin on you and make you come moaning my name you delicious little whore!

I can kiss you good bye before i go to work or ...

i can cum on your face before i go to work

Both are beautiful to me...

Both make you feel special

texasness-deactivated20180817

bratschool

diverx

This is basic and easy to follow.

cnc-pet

Being into degradation and cnc makes it so hard to find blogs that are actually devoted to healthy and consensual experiences and not thinly veiled misogyny, homophobia, or transphobia

So, uh... please reblog this if you’re a cnc or degradation blog that also respects consent, aftercare, and people of all orientations and identities

diverx

One thing does not need to cancel the other one.

CNC , Humiliation play, degradation , devotion ...this are thing that you can achive and still be respectful and appreciative of the one who give the freedom to express those interests

consensualdomination

A genuine interaction I had with a sub last week:

Sub (S): I think I'd be okay sharing some photos eventually, just not right now and nothing too revealing

Me (M): Okay, that's completely fair. You never have to show more than you want to!

*Ten minutes later, mid-session*

S: FUck, I'm so melted daddy

M: It's adorable how broken you've become so quickly

S: Fuck yes I'm so broken I'll do anything for you

M: Oh? Then beg to let me see what my new pet looks like

S: (Anxious) ...please, Daddy

M: Please, what?

S: Please let me show you, Daddy

M: Much better. Permission denied.

S: (Startled) Wait what?

M: You did very well. Permission denied.

S: (Now desperate) Please, daddy!

M: Please what?

S: Please let me show you, I need to

M: Aww how cute! Permission denied.

S: FUck I'm so broken, please please I need to show you how desperate I am how much I need you

M: Hahahah

S: Pleaseeeee

M: Well let's see...

*Fully wakes up the sub, makes sure they are awake, aware, not being affected, fully able to consent without pressure*

M: Now then, you certainly don't have to, but do you still want to?

S: Yes yes please Daddy I consent I consent I consent please let me show you

M: Much better. Permission granted.

Please note: The important piece here is I would not let them show me anything until they were awake, aware, & cognizant. While no limits were ever crossed during this play, even once the sub sent me pictures, it's important to make sure at all times that consent is respected. The sub did not consent to being coerced into sending anything while under, so it was only once awake and aware that I let them. Since then, they have on another separate occasion begged me to let them show me themselves, without prompting. While the manipulation aspect is incredibly hot, it stops being hot the moment it becomes genuine non-consensual manipulation. To any doms reading this, please keep that in mind.