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I love this image.

In dream psychology, houses often represent both the mind, & the foundation. Whilst fire represents transformation. This image screams to be both the destruction & creation of the mind & the foundation. Along with the pensive look on their faces.

I call this, ‘a conversation of extremes’.

And I find that in relationships (successful ones anyway), this is done a thousand times over.

Recreation. Destruction. Creation again. Foundations that fall & kingdoms that rise. And everything that is lost & found inbetween.

It’s not a journey for the faint hearted.

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This week’s divine lovers reading also focuses on individual perception in a relationship. It’s important not to compare your stories with how those around you are conducting their relationships, because no 2 relationships are the same. No 2 people are the same.

Different rhymes, rules & rhythms apply & truthfully? You never know exactly what is going on in anybody’s relationship.

This particularly is a message for women who like to gossip w/ their friends about their relationship ins & outs. Not only does it remove privacy from your union, but also removes harmony. Remember, nobody is telling you the full truth, so do not take it to be your own.

People tell you what they would like you to know/perceive, so do not let naysayers shape your reality.

There’s a reason in divine love unions, it is often said not to discuss your union with anybody else unless they too are in a divine union.

Because divine unions specifically come with their own set of lessons as the union tends to benefit the collective & therefore is dependent on a more intense, fast track set of lessons/healing.

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My new moon in Aquarius, (w/ solar eclipse), playlist coming to fruition now approaching the Aquarius full moon w/ lunar eclipse…

16/2 - 28/7

Bunny finally admitted he loved me and my life without him almost instantly fell to pieces. I fled North to his bed and cried my tears while he waited patiently. 

I cleaned his mess and found my houseplant was all he’d looked after - we drank coffee and smoked cigarettes and slept together like innocents.

In Brixton, he calls me while I’m in the bath and admits he’ll marry me.

He pushes away, then comes over and plays me our song. He looks at me with the most pain I’ve ever seen in his eyes as he reveals how much it hurts him to keep up this facade. We make love ‘til the sun comes out.

I move North. So much unfolds. I still remember him rushing up to see me after Easter holidays and slipping into my bed greedily… Breathing one breathe between us and seeing only humidity; pale, pink hues and body heat.  

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The solar eclipse brought the truth of the situation to light - his 2nd house and my 8th - his personal values and my depth of shared resource - (as emotion, connection, spiritual knowledge, intimacy, chemistry…), in terms of our shared dream. He finally admitted he saw our children somewhere in a future vision, and confessed that he couldn’t bear the thought of my marrying someone else.

The new moon manifestation was set in motion, and now, 6 months later, we’re here in the thick of it. More affectionate than ever and on solid ground.

What comes next?

An emotional release - of any unnecessary / residual gunk in his 2nd and 8th houses - I’ve had an exceedingly emotional day and I am finding much of my maternal wound being triggered… (My moon is in the 8th / Aquarius, and also the 8th has much to do with female inheritances). We are separated while he is vacationing in Croatia with his family - his 2nd house POF activated and family tradition of group gathering in Vis cycling through… I am feeling very isolated and uncertain. Daydreaming to find meaning and hoping to belong someday.

Release: 

> Maternal wound in the form of belittling other women or allow myself to be belittled / victimised. Seeing emotions as weak or being overly harsh. Needing to control / be controlled in relationship with other women - needing to play out a mother / child dynamic within female relationships.

 > Old dreams and visions which have already completed or fallen away; the lives I could have lived in past niches, past romantic potentials, past selves.

> Dreams of absolute ideals in relationships - allowing the Leo / human ego force to balance in work & play… Engaging my visions but allowing others’ theirs - not shattering from divergence - selective sharing w/o alienation.

> Embracing the beauty of my Aquarius stellium coming through into my 2nd house Chiron in Leo… Knowing that healing that wound is allowing my ego to exist as this incredibly spiritual, self-aware, and systemic force of nature - having fun turning that into a piece of art and act of play and releasing the need to obsessively self-perfect according to a highest ideal… Still taking care of my soul but allowing the journey of ego to be one of joy!

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[spiritualpoet]

If they meet a woman they are threatened by (who usually also holds mother issues -symbiotic call & response), & they perceive an innocence about her, they will assume the role of their mother & use manipulative tactics such as silent treatment or passive insults to destabilise her energy/power. If it is a woman, they are threatened by, who assumes the role of their mother, by throwing their weight around & belittling them, they will regress into a child like version of themselves & become nervous & unsettled, lacking confidence.

When the latter happens? And somebody drains upon their energetic resource in this way, they will go about searching for a source, a weaker link, the first description mentioned, in order to re-stock up what was lost, using vampiric methods.

- Seek Cindy. https://www.instagram.com/p/BlqkAGsgYFp/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=d4di6mjf2d8h

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Femininity is naturally fluid, open, vulnerable & accepting. The ONLY ways that femininity can become tainted as an energy, is when we are not allowed to express them in these ways. Toxic feminine energy can manifest in 1 of 2 ways. The 1st way is a HYPER feminine individual..

1 who is TOO feminine & too emotionally receptive to the point of being a doormat & suffering victimisation.

In this case, forgive your mother for poor boundaries. Forgive her for staying longer than she should have. Forgive her for causing you In this case, to equate feminine energy w/ weakness, over politeness, & oppression via structure/organisation & men..

Stop allowing people in your life to stay longer than they are supposed to because you feel obligated through some sense of duty to others.

Stop thinking that if you’re just a little bit nicer, or a little bit more patient, the toxic party in your life will change & adapt.

Stop thinking that in order to be strong, & happy & not taken advantage of, you need to suppress any & all emotions.

Stop seeking out women who are as emotionally traumatised as your mother was &then further traumatising them to make sense of your childhood.

The 2nd way feminine energy can be tainted takes a polarised turn. Instead of becoming HYPER feminine, an individual can become hyper masculine in order to prove that they are not as ‘weak’ as their mother.

A mother can be overtly harsh & void of maternal instincts because of the pain suffered in the past (this is quite common in black mothers - post colonial effects) therefore creating a narcissistic child who was not nurtured appropriately, especially within the vital years that a child is building their self esteem.

Stop expecting women to either be too soft (victims), or too harsh (emotionally closed). Accept the fluidity of womanhood.

Understand that a woman can be soft & loving & giving & forgiving, whilst also drawing boundaries where boundaries are needed.

STOP viewing women as victims of men. Understand we both hurt each other.

- Seek Cindy.

(To book a reading to discuss/heal this issue w/ me further, DM me here).

[spiritualpoet]

Submission is not a dirty word. The feminine submits naturally when she feels safe. This is the part they leave out of the tale. She doesn’t submit simply because she’s incapable of leading. She submits because it feels right to her to relinquish this desire to control.

Actually, this allocates her with more free time to make what exists in the Akasha (the realm of imagination), into 3rd dimensional existence. So the two can enjoy.

Submission does not mean ‘I will do everything that you tell me. Even against my own will’, submission means, 'what you tell me is for my highest good & I vow to take this into consideration, always’.

Submission is not a sign of weakness, as perceived & formulated by patriarchy.

As it goes, the man who submits to God, is deserving of the woman who submits to him, both under sacred order. The divine feminine is the goddess, god is the structure that brings creation into existence.

Both energies exist within us. This is not a sexist story. Read between the li(n)es.

- Seek Cindy.

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[spiritualpoet]

The rage shouldn’t be misplaced. Use it to heal. And the confusion shouldn’t be a setback. Use it to understand.

Many feminines are dealing with the feeling of being abandoned, oppressed, & powerless rising to the surface all at once, not understanding that the masculine mourns his losses too. His original fear/wound of losing the feminine.

Didn’t look much like fear did it? No, it looked like abuse & rejection. Well that was the only way that patriarchy taught the masculine how to express it. Control. You cannot lose what you control. So they thought…

Control is being revealed as another tool of the matrix.. It doesn’t exist. We control nothing. And in that way? Nothing controls us. Empty yourself of programming to be you, unique you. Not you carrying the template of every human who has ever existed, you.

– Cindy Anneh-bu

[spiritualpoet]

The mother wound is probably the primary cause of women who find it difficult to make or sustain friendships with other women, but these friendships are actually vital to our survival. Unlike romantic relationships, platonic relationships generally should be for life.

The importance of having sisters or good female friendships around you is actually the difference between life & death. You may believe that I am exaggerating. But I am really not. All persecuted groups have a higher chance of survival if & when they unify.

Womanhood is under attack just as much as manhood is under attack. The only difference is? Manhood being under attack directly relates to womanhood being under father attack, as man, or the masculine is the protector - supposed to be.

Women are seers, spiritual portals, visionaries, & very energetically sensitive. The women who surround you, are either blessing you with God, or cursing you with the devil. Because of how OPEN we are as women, we become as the women around us are. This is why you’ll find our menstrual cycles will usually sync up with one another when we are within proximity. If you have women around you who are jealous, have low self esteem, & are highly critical, you are being cursed by them - intentionally, or unintentionally. Whatever battle they’re fighting, will become yours. Whatever you attempt to build? Will be destroyed. Our survival as sisters or sister witches has always been dependent upon our coven. Our ability to relate to, protect & if necessary HIDE, or shield one another.

Now a woman or women who are blessing with you GOD, have prophetic dreams about you, have prophetic dreams FOR you. If something is trying to harm you? Believe your sister will dream of it that night. Trust her intuition. Let her trust yours. Let her pray over you.

If your sisters are blessing you with God, they will experience a gut wrenching feeling in their stomach when you are in danger. They will be at your aid. And spirit will have already informed them of what you need. Sisterhood, IS our resistance. - Seek Cindy.

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Anytime these words are posted without the original vision I had for them, I will repost it, with my FULL original words attached. Continued below –

Femininity is naturally fluid, open, vulnerable & accepting. The ONLY ways that femininity can become tainted as an energy, is when we are not allowed to express them in these ways. Toxic feminine energy can manifest in 1 of 2 ways. The 1st way is a HYPER feminine individual..

1 who is TOO feminine & too emotionally receptive to the point of being a doormat & suffering victimisation.

In this case, forgive your mother for poor boundaries. Forgive her for staying longer than she should have. Forgive her for causing you to equate feminine energy w/ weakness, over politeness, & oppression via structure/organisation & men..

Stop allowing people in your life to stay longer than they are supposed to because you feel obligated through some sense of duty to others.

Stop thinking that if you’re just a little bit nicer, or a little bit more patient, the toxic party in your life will change & adapt.

Stop thinking that in order to be strong, & happy & not taken advantage of, you need to suppress any & all emotions.

Stop seeking out women who are as emotionally traumatised as your mother was &then further traumatising them to make sense of your childhood.

The 2nd way feminine energy can be tainted takes a polarised turn. Instead of becoming HYPER feminine, an individual can become hyper masculine in order to prove that they are not as ‘weak’ as their mother.

A mother can be overtly harsh & void of maternal instincts because of the pain suffered in the past (this is quite common in black mothers - post colonial effects) therefore creating a narcissistic child who was not nurtured appropriately, especially within the vital years that a child is building their self esteem.

Stop expecting women to either be too soft (victims), or too harsh (emotionally closed). Accept the fluidity of womanhood.

Understand that a woman can be soft & loving & giving & forgiving, whilst also drawing boundaries where boundaries are needed.

STOP viewing women as victims of men. Understand we both hurt each other.

- Cindy Anneh-bu

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