#lifepost

[astralightning]

Me walking out of Across the Spider-verse like

[ahidell]

YES YES YES YES YESSSSS

i❤️slug

[rishachanxx]

[rus.] мя немного забавляет,, что в начале года все говорили о том,, что 2026 это новый 2016,, а теперь спустя два месяца мы вынуждены сидеть в вк и тамблере,, как в те годы

[eng.] it amuses me a little that at the beginning of the year everyone was talking about 2026 being the new 2016,,and now two months later we are forced to use vk and tumblr like in those years

[aglayannar]

ON HOMOPHOBIA

There's this one puke-inducing discourse about bi men going around on Twitter rn, this time not in ladstwt but among normies. The premise is that some straight women don't want to date bi men for, well, being bi men, and fail to give reasons that aren't rooted in internalized misogyny.

Honestly, I don't really care about people's preferences. As a bi woman myself, I think it's only logical to avoid homophobic straights like the plague. There's no reason to force yourself on anyone, especially when that person doesn't respect you.

What baffled me more was that it sparked a discussion of the old idea that sex is inherently degrading, especially for the receiving party.

I initially wrote a long-ass heated draft here, citing Beauvoir on the connection between misogyny, the degrading role of sex, and homophobia, but I decided I can't be bothered and will just curate my tl better.

Also, about the LADS in particular: this fandom is known to be incredibly homophobic, because, for some reason, many fans feel obligated to protect sexuality of their pixel man. Which is why I'm putting this disclaimer out there.

My blog is an LGBT+ friendly space, and will always be. I ship LIxLI, WLW, and polyships. If you don't like it, block me - I don't care. Just don't come here and yap about what I should or shouldn't do. Tamagotchi husbands are my personal playthings, and rest assured, I plan to exercise my free will to the fullest.

I also respect all kinds of kink as long as they're safe and consensual, BUT. This blog is femdom-leaning. If you come at me whining about your dom daddy being mischaracterised / pegged / twinkified etc., I'll block. I know the LADS fandom is huge, and I want to choose which part of it I engage with.

Thank you for coming to my TED talk 💋

[strangeasf]

I didn't stop engaging in 911 fandom to now see stupid ass shipping wars in the pitt fandom and no less because of STRAIGHT pairings

[cetstellar]

*surfaces from the deep hiatus*

<⎛ ミ - 〰 - ⎞wauhg

hi!! i am so fucking tired! !!! oh mgy stars it's been too long ;w; still have heaps to focus on irl, but hopefully early next year, i can just be around because i miss it dearly!!

will probably try to set up a queue and be as active as i can be again in the near future. maybe moreso on weekends, life still sucks.

for other socials, as of like a week ago you can now find me on FA and bsky (and discord, but longer than that). i'm also not very active on those, but if you'd like to add me on anything for some reason, and i don't recognise you, then send me a message here. would still like tumblr to be my "main" platform, so i'll be back soon :3

the well wishes are very much appreciated [whapping my tail super hard]

take care, everyone ⊹ ࣪ ﹏﹏𓂁﹏⊹ ࣪ ˖

[vthetease]

Hey, how are you doing?

I have 65 days until commencement, accepted my third new job offer in the last 4 months, made my first car payment last week, and having been going to physical therapy twice a week.

Technically I am "girl bossing"

The only way I'm pushing through this mentally is knowing I'm so close to the finish line, but it's been a lot of keeping my head down and blocking out what I can to stay focused, which is quite emotionally draining. I'm very extroverted so while the isolation has been soothing, it's quite lonely. I'm quite touch starved romantically bc I don't have energy or time to pursue something deeper than one night stands.

Overall, I'm getting stronger and I know it. It will be worth it. I'm just trying to finish strong.

Thank you for checking on me, it means the world to me I have people who genuinely care and want to know how I am. I can not express enough how much I appreciate each and every one of you. You are truly special to me ❤️💋

[curiosityandcode]

My classmate from uni asked to meet for coffee and I was not in the mood today but I went anyway. It ended up being a good chat and it was nice talk about our experience with software development so far. I left thinking: see you shouldn't isolate yourself so much and go out more.

Now I'm back home and trying not to second guess every single thing I said. 😞