24/7 DL in Western NC

37 M in Western NC 24/7 Diaper Loving Daddy Looking for padded friends 18+, ABDL, NMIK

[dl-samurai]

A Black Megamax goes well with a fancy tank top.

[pandadabs]

NO pants household

In this house we don't wear pants. Ever.

[a-campbell14two]

everything you need is on amazon...

this post is a bit different. hope you enjoy.

a while back i was instructed to do what is shown in the video. this instruction was a bit of the relationship dynamic, but also a part of the path to acceptance.

anyway, i get asked about this from time to time so i finally just made a video. i suspect some of you might enjoy if your brain hasn't already wandered to this sort of predicament on its own. ;)

(note that my timer goes up to 99 hours though I believe they make some that can go well beyond that)

enjoy responsibly. ok!?

PS: understanding how water valves work on toilets (and for sinks, same concept!) is also really useful in case there is ever a flood situation. so, this video is instructional and handy. how about that!

[littled-22]

Couple's life I

[googoocharlie]

A precious journey.

[sissybabychrissa]

I just want to be just like that girl

[diapersarefun]

Diaper Discipline ain’t no joke around here 🤣

[diaperedunicornlaura]

Moooooo <3

[sunnywittledays]

Good girls can’t run away

(More restraints)

[squishydolly]

Wanna make pushies with me? 🥰👇

My fanpage!

*new* my manyvids!

[babypudge]

Sissy was sure he'd found the most important of all the eggs! The one with the keys to the cage that's locked between his legs. Listen to how it rattles when you shake it about. Can there really be any doubt? He thought it was another one of the grown-up's lies - but here it is, right before his very eyes. Silly little Sissy is sure today's the fabled day - the one when his impervious pink prison is unlocked and maybe thrown away! Imagine his surprise when he sees - that this special egg has two sets of keys! Can you hear the diapered lil' dolly whimper and holler? Yes, oh yes, the other keys are for a new cage, one that's much smaller! Mommy and Daddy smile from ear to ear, knowing that this Easter tradition will continue year after year!

[babybobbysstories]

Many, many years ago (c. 2010? 2011?), you posted a "recipe" for how you create your memorable and thick diapers on two other sites. I was also honored to be asked to help you edit/proofread the directions that were posted. My question, in the spirit of Christmas and the UK's Boxing Day: would you share the same directions here for the fans? Or a link? Blessings in advance!

My diapers are homemade. They're actually pretty simple: Two lengths of cheesecloth, one about 45' and the other 25'. The long one is wrapped lengthwise around a single piece of memory foam that I shaped with a razor blade to make it more narrow in the center.

Then I stuff the shorter length of cloth inside to give it even bigger bulk.

Here's the link to my (somewhat outdated) other page at Fetlife that shows the whole process;

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Welcome back, we've missed you!

[littleprincessbug3]

Have you ever thought about doing a car seat photo shoot and post it here?

Let's go for a ride! 🚗 are we going somewhere fun?

[links here] 🧸

[prettyprettypaci2-deactivated20]

Build a Better Baby - Through Boredom!

Let's face it -- your diapered kiddo is going to do whatever you say. Whether it's because they're your sweet, submissive angel (😇) or your freshly spanked brat (😭), your Little will be watching the baby cartoons you tell them to watch. They will play with whatever tinker toys you set in front of them. They will waddle off to bed at the early hour you choose.

But that's not regression. That's compliance.

If you want your pamper packer bouncing up and down at the idea of playing with their shape sorter and bead maze, you need to prime their brains with boredom.

30 minutes.

Every day.

Put them in a fresh diaper, plug in their paci, and lay them down for Tummy Time. Take their phone away. No screens, no books, no music, no conversation, no distractions. Your little one is just going to suckle and stare at the floor. They shouldn't be uncomfortable, but they shouldn't be cozy enough to nap, either.

Do you know how long 30 minutes feels when you have nothing to keep your mind occupied? They are going to be bored out of their mind.

Then, after a couple of weeks of this strange torture, you hand them a toy. Maybe a dolly or a stack of blocks. A spinny wheel that makes animal noises. A box of crayons and some paper.

You won't even have to tell them to play with it. Their starved, shriveling little brains won't be able to resist making their stuffies dance, or soaking in the primary colors of their 9-piece puzzle.

The fun part will come the next time they earn a punishment. Nothing devious or creative. Just say:

No toys for Tummy Time.

And they'll realize what all those blocks and shapes and dolls and crayons have come to mean for them. They might even start crying. They're back to staring at the floor, counting out an eternity of seconds, when all they want in the universe is their spinny wheel that reminds them that the cow says "Moo."

Use boredom.

[prettyprettypaci2-deactivated20]

🪙 Baby Jar 🪙

No, not a jar of baby food.

A Baby Jar.

It's like a swear jar. Only instead of having to add a quarter every time you swear, you have to add a quarter every time you talk like an adult.

Did you just say you were leaving work instead of checking out of daycare? Put a quarter in the Baby Jar.

Did you just pour yourself a glass of water instead of a ba ba of wa wa? 50 cents in the Baby Jar!

You're not going out with friends, you're going on a playdate. And she's not your girlfriend anymore, she's your babysitter.

Did you say dinner instead of num nums? Toilet instead of potty chair? Did you go for a walk instead of a waddle?

Clink! Clink! Clink! The jar is filling up fast. Just remember: when all this money is spent buying you some fun pacifier gags, locking onesies, and restraining mittens...you're the one who earned them, sweetie. 😘

[diaperdiscipline-deactivated202]

Help, I’m the partner of an ABDL 🫣

To celebrate hitting 4,500 followers I’ve created this mega post to link to our best articles for partners of ABDL’s (like me).

These are the resources and knowledge I wish I had when starting on the journey as a vanilla girlfriend of an ABDL and I love hearing from so many of you who have found it useful.

Essential reading:

As a non-ABDL person, trying to understand why my successful, grown-up male partner would want to wear and use diapers 24/7 wasn’t immediate

The biggest mental health issue we see when speaking with ABDL’s and littles is the shame/desire cycle with regard to wearing & using diaper

Part 2, with some extra tips:

This post has resonated so well with many partners of ABDL’s that I wanted to provide some extra information and guidance based on the quest

A theme of questions I’ve been getting from partners is how can they can get more involved. Specifically, being that taking on the role of t

Recommended Reading:

Two things I’ll highlight straight away are: 1. Most people who like to wear or be forced to wear diapers have a desire to incorporate othe

We’ve talked quite extensively about the benefits in having your partner wear diapers 24/7 (or as close as possible) for their mental health

Alongside making my baby wear diapers 24/7 the other big step we took which proved to be highly beneficial was me taking control of all his

How chastity helped my partner

A very common theme we’re hearing from partners on both sides of the relationship is the challenge of going 24/7 or even just trying to make

The best how to guides for implementing diaper discipline into your relationship & trusted by 4,500 people. ABDL / MDLB / DDLG. 18+ ONLY. NS

Finally, a few top tips from me:

You’re not alone, feel free to DM me here anytime to talk through any challenges you have. This community is also very welcoming and most will try give any advice they can 💙

ABDL may be considered a weird desire by many but there is absolutely nothing wrong, bad, evil, worrying about it. Millions of people around the world enjoy this and it’s growing rapidly!

Your partner will likely be very scared to talk about what they actually desire. Make an effort to talk openly about ABDL with them to boost their confidence to share more openly, it will help you both.

You can have a HUGE impact on their life by accepting this part of them, encouraging / forcing them (with consent) to embrace it more and actively getting involved yourself (from diaper pats to changes to babying them).

These desires won’t go away and will likely only grow, if you’re hoping this is temporary unfortunately it will leave you both disappointed.

ABDL might feel like something you can’t see how you’ll enjoy but I’m testament to entering with an open mind and wanting the best for my partner and actually finding lots of enjoyment for myself along the way.

There are many ways to ABDL, I’m a huge advocate for normalizing diapers in their and your life by pushing for as close to 24/7 as you can manage. We’ve found this to help countless other couples too but don’t feel you have to take any of these articles as gospel.

Finally we can’t help partners of ABDL’s if they don’t see this so please repost and of course share with your partner if you know they struggle with your ABDL side. 🙏

[desires-of-a-dominant-man-deact]

BDSM Links And Resources

I thought I would update the list of BDSM links and resources I posted a while ago, as some links were no longer working and I had several new ones to add, including a list of books. These should be particularly helpful to those who are new to BDSM and looking to explore D/s relationships, as the best way to go about that is to first read everything you can and then read even more! Not only will this allow you to educate yourself, help keep you safe and avoid any potential mistakes or regrets, but also the more you understand something, the less intimidating it will seem.

If you have anything to add, please don’t hesitate to let me know and I will update this list, in particular if there any books that a submissive might find helpful or informative, as most of the books I have read or included are intended for Dominants.

Note: For the sake of consistency and readability, I have used capitals throughout this document and have not used lower case when referring to submissives or slaves.

Websites:

Babygirls ‘n’ Daddy Doms: Website dedicated to littles, babygirls and Daddy Doms, with a lot of useful information on the subject.

Collarme: A free BDSM dating website and community, that is probably the most popular and a better option than the commercial alternatives.

DS Arts: Academy of DS Arts, fairly self explanatory.

Evil Monk: Ambrosio’s BDSM Website, featuring many useful articles.

Fetlife: An online BDSM community that I would highly recommend and which is perhaps best described as Facebook for the kinky, allowing users to create a profile, publish photos or writing and join interest groups where you can ask questions.

Kink Academy: An online resource with many educational and instructional videos on various aspects of BDSM, although users must pay a small fee to access all of the content.

Submissive Guide: As the name suggests, this is an online resource for submissives.

The Iron Gate: A general BDSM online resource, with many aticles, essays and even stories on the subject.

Dating and Relationships:

10 Principles For Healthy 24/7 D/s And M/s (Source: sexgeek.wordpress.com)

Difference of Dynamics in BDSM (Source: the-little-kitten.tumblr.com)

Finding Your Dominant (Source: asubmissivesjourney.com)

How To Find A Partner (Source: Jack Rinella / leathernews.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 1 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 2 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 3 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

So You Want Your Boyfriend To Dominate You (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate Her (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

The Unfortunate But Common Misconceptions About DD/lg Relationships (Source: a-lolitas-life.tumblr.com)

Play:

Consent Is Mandatory And Non-Negotiable (Source: fortheloveofasub.tumblr.com)

Food Play (Source: bdsmsadomasochism.tumblr.com)

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

Initial Steps Into Orgasm on Command Training (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Rules and Tasks for Building Confidence (Source: themostdangerousplaything.tumblr.com)

Tools of Consent in BDSM (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Training in D/s - Why? (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Training in D/s - How? (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Training in D/s - Thoughts And Concerns (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Wax Play (Source: bdsmsadomasochism.tumblr.com)

Safety:

Basics Of Safe, Sane And Consensual Power Exchange (Source: Molly Devon / the-iron-gate.com)

Common Sense (Source: Sean R. Powell / the-iron-gate.com)

Emotional Safety (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Offline/Online BDSM Safety Rules (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Ouch Is Not A Safe Word: Safe Words, Limits, and Scene Protocol (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Rules For Meeting Strangers (Source: Jack Rinella / leathernews.com)

Safewords and Safesigns 101 (Source: kinkology.tumblr.com)

S.S.C. VS R.A.C.K. (Source: Justin Medlin / the-iron-gate.com)

Checklists, Communication and Negotiation:

BDSM Play Partner Check List (Source: Sovereign House / the-iron-gate.com)

BDSM Scene Negotiations (Source: daddyvinnie.tumblr.com)

Can I Get That In Writing: Basics of Negotiations (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Communication (Source: submissivesupportgroup.tumblr.com)

If I Ever See Another Checklist I Will Scream: An Extremely Thorough Play Checklist (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Negotiation Forms (Source: Jay Wiseman, SM 101: A Realistic Introduction / greenerypress.com)

What Are Negotiations Good For? (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Sub Drop and Aftercare:

Aftercare for submissives (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Aftercare for Dominants (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Aftercare for Switches (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Emergency Self-Administered Aftercare (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Sub Drop (Source: David Williams / subshelpingsubs.tripod.com)

Sub Drop and Aftercare (Source: desires-of-a-domimant-man.tumblr.com)

Dominance and Dominants:

A Dominant is NOT… (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Advice to a Novice Dom (Source: Washington Sexuality University / the-iron-gate.com)

Advice to a Novice Dominant (Source: cherhatton.tumblr.com)

An Open Letter To A Novice Dom (Source: evilmonk.org)

Qualities of A Successful Dominant (Source: Polly Peachum / the-iron-gate.com)

Daddy Doms: They’re Not What You Think (Source: edenfantasys.com)

Domination for Nice Guys (Source: Franklin Veaux / the-iron-gate.com)

How To Spot A Non Dominant (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Learning To Be A Dom (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Run Don’t Walk: Warning Signs of A Predator Dom/me Part 1 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Run Don’t Walk: Warning Signs of A Predator Dom/me Part 2 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts - Part One: Dominants (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

The Dominant (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

What Is A Daddy Dom? (Source: babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com)

What Makes A Good Dominant (Source: Kim Debron / kimdebron.tripod.com)

What Should A Dominant Be (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Submission and Submissives:

10 Considerations For Inexperienced Subs (Source: fortheloveofasub.tumblr.com)

A Submissive Bill of Rights (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

A Submissive’s Creed (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

A Submissive’s Ethics (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Introduction To Submission (Source: Kim Debron / kimdebron.tripod.com)

Learning to Trust Your Instincts (Source: bewildbetruebekinkybeyou.tumblr.com)

Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts- Part 2: Submissives/Slaves (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Some Rules For The Submissive (Source: daddylookingforhisbaby.tumblr.com)

Submissive Owner’s Manual (Source: youmadememe.tumblr.com)

Ten Tips For The Novice, Heterosexual submissive Woman (Source: Jay Wiseman / the-iron-gate.com)

Warning Signs for Submissives (Source: RC Bauer / the-iron-gate.com)

What Is A Babygirl? (Source: babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com)

Books:

BDSM: The Naked Truth by Dr Charley Ferrer

Dear Raven and Joshua: Questions and Answers About Master/Slave Relationships by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera

Devil in the Details I: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - The Master, The Slave, The Power by LT Morrison

Devil in the Details II: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - Mastery Refine: The Issues, The Skills by LT Morrison

Devil in the Details III: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - Sustainable Structure and Traning by LT Morrison

Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame, Gloria Brame and Jon Jacobs

Living M/s: A Book for Masters, slaves and Their Relationships by Dan and Dawn Williams

Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice by Robert Rubel

Master/slave Relations: Communications 401 by Robert Rubel

Master/slave Relations: Solutions 402, Living in Harmony by Robert Rubel

Protocols: A Variety of Views by Robert Rubel

Real Service by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Phillp Miller and Molly Devon

SM101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman

The Control Book by Peter Masters

The Loving Dominant by John and Libby Warren

The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.

The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.

The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

This Curious Human Phenomenon: An Exploration of Some Uncommonly Explored Aspects of BDSM by Peter Masters

Where I Am Led: A Service Exploration Workbook by Christina Parker

[ab-kbear]

If you’re a little, you must follow the rules!

[baby-rebecca]

My diapers !

How I make my diapers so thick ?

1 medium rearz incontrol nighttime

1 XL rear incontrol nighttime

1 overnight booster pad

1 medium cloth diaper

1 cloth diaper liner

4 Bamboo cloth boosters

I will also most often add another layer like a Large disposable or put larger cloth diapers overtop my first layer for thick cloth diapers! But the pattern for layering boosters is usually what I do, if I want more leg spreading bulk I'll lay the boosters sideways and fold over a liner or cloth diaper being used as a stuffer.

Also I re-use the outer disposable diaper layers cause usually they don't ever get wet or messy but if they do I'll throw them away, thankfully I've only experienced a few blowouts

[paddedlittleparadise]

Hmm… interesting ideas… 🧐😁🤤