demi lovato (they/them/she/her) is a thirty-three year old musician, songwriter and actress. she currently lives in los angeles, california and identifies as pansexual. after a called off engagement, demi has been single. open to all connections & plots.
—— WANTED PLOTS. ❜
blind date set up by mutual friends but ended up being connecting better as friends.
tinder match - tbd on how things went
the one that got away - someone who she dated when they were younger and he messed up but can't help but think ‘what if’
messy situationship
anything with angst
—— ROMANTIC CONNECTIONS. ❜
partner.
flirtationship.
one night stand. callum turner
one sided romance.
friends with benefits. rachel brosnahan
blind date.
forbidden romance.
ex-fiancé. jutes
exes. joe jonas, wilmer valderrama, lauren abedini, henri levy, noah cyrus
first love.
love / hate.
unrequited crush.
celebrity crush.
previously friendzoned.
summer romance.
friends with benefits.
enemies with benefits.
one night stand or fling that was regretted later.
—— PLATONIC CONNECTIONS. ❜
best friends. miley cyrus
confidants.
role model.
ride or die. zoe kravitz
enemies to friends.
wing(wo)men.
squad.
sibling like friends. selena gomez
platonic soulmates.
unlikely friends.
positive influence.
seem like a married couple.
former lovers to friends.
new friends, aka friends who just met.
—— NEGATIVE CONNECTIONS. ❜
fell for the same person & fought over them.
life long enemies, aka two people who have been enemies ever since they remember but have forgotten the reason for their dislike.
congratulations on the success of your tour, lovato. though the real question is whether or not i'll be seeing more of you now that you're not running from state to state every other day. [ @dlcvatos ]
thank you and thank you for coming. i expect you've been wearing your exclusive merch 24/7. i have a show at the end of the month and then nothing until august sooo if you want to see me, just let me know where you are and maybe i'll come for a visit.
i think people would believe it's part of your charm, but if i said the exact same thing, they'd just call me stupid instead of charming. tell me about it, though, i think i spent years and years focusing on negativity instead of trying to think positively about things, and maybe that's part of why my mental health hasn't always been the best. but it's okay, i'm getting better with time. okay, i'm starting to see the same thing you do now... in another life, jojo and i are probably dating, both of us are singers, and maybe we're even working on a new album together. are you seeing anyone right now? i'm curious, demi. i need to know what's going on in my friends' lives. i still can't believe your tour ended and i never even had time to go to a show, i'm sad about that. how did the people in texas treat you? i bet it was one of the best feelings in the world. hey… are you telling me to go back to work? i'll think about it.
noo, they'll hit you with the charm, too. i know people have to know you've got ton of that. trust me, i've been guilty of that too for much longer than i'd like to admit. i'm glad you're getting better. it's a steady process but as long as it keeps on towards the positive each day. yes, that's exactly what's going on. but i also hope that somehow, some way in this life we could get you two doing something together. i don't think the world would be ready for that to actually happen but i am. might even need it now. i wish i had something more exciting for you but no one currently. maybe now that tour's over, i'll try my hand at dating again but we'll see. i'm so upset about that honestly. i do have some more shows coming and you're more than welcome at any of them. texas was everything and more. it was the perfect homecoming. i wish i had a few more shows there but really in general. things went way too fast. maaaaybe. no pressure but i do miss hearing you.
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Exactly! That is the absolute worst thing you can ask someone because in that moment, the awkwardness sets in and is just not a good time. This way, you're in control and you have time to think about your answer and make that first impression - not that you need it because you're Demi Lovato but still, it neverhurts to ask the meaningful questions right away. Oh those are pretty closely matched to what I would have said so good call on changing the questions up, except I have cats and not dogs. Hmm, let me think - 1) that's hard to narrow down because I watch so many but they're not shows - I am a sucker for a cheesy Hallmark film so whenever I've had a bad day, I put one of them on with some popcorn and Cleo. 2) Definitely a texter, I'm far to busy to talk to someone directly. 3) Its raining and I'm at home, curled up with my cats and a good book or two
no one likes an awkward first impression so this is the perfect way to avoid that completely. plus you might be able to feel out the vibes enough and see if there might be any red flags right away. trust me, i definitely still need it sometimes. i can think of a few first meetings that i'd love to have a do over for. good taste then and promise i'm not one of those people who do the whole dogs verses cats thing. never judge anyone who has any kind of pets even if they aren't dogs. you completely exceeded expectations with those answers, especially with the hallmark response. aren't those just so bad that they're good? and nothing hits better than a new one around the holidays. texter here, too, so you're in good company. i can say besides the set ups in general you've completely nailed this first impression.
exactly! slumber party vibe was exactly what i was going for! that's the freaking one! like, i have a ton of guy friends and i never once have slept with any of them, or even really thought about it either. that's gross, they're more like brothers to me than anything else. seriously, that's what it feels like, like we're just supposed to trudge through life all on our own and have zero friends whatsoever. i mean, i'm all for the independent woman vibe but it's always nice to have someone to talk to when you're goin' through stuff. it was really nice to just have those moments of privacy while we could. but it has been nice to be able to be happy out in public together too. we can do a lot more things now like hold hands and go out to dinner. they always have something to say about relationships regardless, especially ones like ours that has been so back and forth. so i'm not super surprised y'know? we've been back together for a little over two months. it's definitely been a lot of questions about how long we think it's gonna last this time. but we just kinda try to laugh those off and just go on with the conversations and avoiding those questions altogether. it was pretty fun. oh, by all means, i'm sure the tour takes up so much of your time but i am so glad to know that you're havin' a good time on tour too! hey! always leave yourself open to findin' love again. it's out there for everyone. you just gotta be willin' to let it find yo sometimes instead of lookin' for it.
it's been way too long since i've had one of those and can't think of a more perfect way to change that. same here and it's ridiculous how that mindset is still a thing. the independence definitely is needed for certain things but at the end of the day, we still need our people and can't just be isolated. two months?? wow, i actually love that though. it means you got good time with just the two of you to explore things again. i'm really, really happy for you, kels. don't listen to a single thing anyone might say. just stay doing what makes you happy. i can't believe tour's over already. i might be crazy but slowly adding more shows in because i know i can't handle turning things off completely after that run. it's impossible. of course, i will. i promise that but you're right. sometimes it's better when it finds you. i'll keep an eye out either way and fill you in on all the updates if there are any.
I can't imagine how everything would feel after being on tour for a little bit - I'll never be a singer. Just a supporter. I think that I'm good at that. I'm glad that we've both got the offer. I'll have to talk with her about when we can come out to a show. Planning to go see one of Zayns, too. Maybe we can make a trip out to Texas, though. Haven't been there in forever.
you traveled around with kelsea, right? got a little taste of the tour experience that way, too. i'm sure. funny because it looks like i might be planning the same. not sure when just yet but hoping sooner than later. i hadn't been there in forever, too, and just how long it had been really hit the second i got back.
what do you mean it's your last show of the tour? i didn't even have time to come see you! i feel like the tour just started five minutes ago, and now suddenly it's over? no, i refuse to accept this. you can't finish the entire thing before i get the chance to stand in the crowd and scream every lyric like my life depends on it. unless you give me a private show. @dlcvatos
trust me, i'm still coming to terms with it, too. where the hell did the time go? i'm slowly adding more shows in but there all over the place date and time wise. how about this? i come see you perform and scream every lyric enough to make up for things and then i can give you a private show after.
first tour in 4 years and it was everything i could have hoped for and more. still processing everything and the fact that it’s over but i’m so grateful and so beyond excited already to get back out there again. intd forever. ❤️