this sometime garden

Canada. 1991. INTJ. Fannibal, Marvel girl, football/soccer fanatic. Books, linguistics, comics and fandom. Publishing or SLP.

[melonatures]

[theshyawkwardnervouswreck]

the feminism leaving my body when choi ung held yeon su’s backpack for her

[leekangdoo]

It felt as if I saw what a human being was, for the first time.

[aboutdoramas]

Let’s be happy..

[taejoon]

Whenever you’re sad, just remember that Namjoon travelled five hours by train to jeongdongjin beach because he wanted to watch the sunrise. He’s such a beautiful, pure, human being.

[housedemarr]

Godfrey Gao with some pups （*’∀’人）♥

[myeonsjun]

191028 VLIVE x 선물 (The Present) Unboxing Live ♡ Suho

[anki-tao]

EXO logos throughout the years (2012- 2019)

[adoring-suggestion]

When your dad tries to guilt trip you into visiting him: “well I guess I’ll just spend the weekend all by myself...”

You say “glad to know we’re on the same page.” Slowly, he will have to adapt to just outright telling you what he thinks instead of playing mind games.

When your friend tries to hint that they’re mad at you without saying anything: “Oh, I’m fine, clearly you don’t need to worry about me,”

You say: “I’m glad you’re doing well. Call me if you want to talk, though!” Soon enough, they will accept that they can’t be passive aggressive with you.

When your boyfriend says: “All your friends are great, I really love *insert male friend* especially.”

You say: “I’m so glad you like my friends! I should invite them back soon.” He needs to understand that if he has a problem with your friends, he needs to just voice his concerns instead of being sarcastic and accusatory.

As someone who has lived through several toxic relationships and has an abusive father, I think one of the most important manipulation tools a toxic person has is excessive subtext and hidden meanings in their conversation. It hides all of the actual fighting from the eyes of onlookers while still hurting you, which is scary and makes you feel like you’re making it all up. Don’t put up with this bs. Make them stop hiding.

Make. Them. Say. What. They. Mean.

[immortalxhusbands-deactivated20]

Teen Wolf Challenge : 8/10 dynamics -

→ Scott McCall x Stiles Stilinski

“Scott, just listen to me, okay? You’re not no one. You’re someone, you’re… Scott, you’re my best friend. And I need you. Scott, you’re my brother. So if you’re gonna do this, I think you’re just gonna have to take me with you.”

(credits to the owners)

[lronbear]

the Purest Scene™

[hannibalsbattlebot]

Thanks to Mads Mikkelsen, Hannibal has sexual chemistry with literally everyone on the show, and even some of the furniture.

“14 Reasons TV Will Be Boring Without Hannibal” (via hannibalsbattlebot)

😂 fuck

(via messy-scandinoodle)

[jemaine]

When I won the great ovarian egg search of 1975, I never thought I’d amount to much. But in a piddly four decades, I’ve achieved some pretty incredible things. Par exemple..

[laureljupiter]

Wes Anderson: Who are you???

Taika Waititi: I’m you but stronger

[halorvic]

- “Why are you saying my first name?”

- “Well, Rosa, I read an article in a medical journal that said one destabilising aspect of incarceration is the constant dehumanisation, Rosa. You need to be reminded that you’re more than just a number, Rosa. You are Rosa… Rosa.”

[doforarhyme]

some door-to-door scammer when my parents aren't home: are you 18?

me, turning 24 in two weeks: no sorry

[perksofbeingafanboy]

But you didn’t slaughter every one of the Starks. No, no, that was your mistake. You should have ripped them all out, root and stem. Leave one wolf alive and the sheep are never safe. When people ask you what happened here, tell them the North remembers.

[probablyasocialecologist]

Rich people force poor people to work for them for wages. The poor do not get to negotiate these wages. Wages are what the market dictates is a fair price for one hour of their labor. Though a cashier at McDonald’s handles easily hundreds of dollars in an hour, she will be paid $7.25 an hour regardless of what her employer earns from her labor and they will insist this is fair. She may hate her job and cry every night on her mother’s pullout couch wishing she could find a better, higher-paying job, but all of this suffering is her choice, obviously. Oh, that’s right — a lot of people think that if you’re not being coerced to work by top-heavy goons by gunpoint, you’re somehow not being coerced to work. They like to spin these weird pretzels of logic where those without money or resources are actually free to live in a world where the rich have now privatized the commons and kicked out the ladder. When confronted with the reality that single moms work because if they don’t their kids are taken away, they shrug and insist those moms shouldn’t have had kids. When confronted with the bleak dilemma that many millions of chronically ill people face staying in horrible jobs every day to keep their health insurance, they shrug and insist it’s their own fault for getting sick in a country where medical care is prohibitively expensive. So on and so forth. Capitalist shitbag science means the rationalizations for injustice never end. No, unless you’re literally being held down by gunpoint, none of this will ever qualify as coercion. They always win because you’re always free to choose something else — apparently.

Holly Wood, Why Capitalism is Just Shitbag Science (via probablyasocialecologist)