I don't even know anymore

Well, this started as just a dump page, and now it's evolved into this mess. Yo, I'm a twenty-something college kid, falling somewhere in the asexual spectrum.

[bubblxgumbitch-deactivated20171]

Reblog this if your blog is a safe haven for ALL non-white, disabled, trans, queer, and/or women, and your ask box is open to anyone who needs it tonight, or anytime, for the next few years.

[a-mortal-mess-deactivated201708]

I never not post calming cat

[driftingthroughtheskies-deactiv]

Bringing Calming Cat back, because we need it so bad.

[outropeace]

positive things…

[smhgerard-blog]

just a friendly reminder that you do NOT have to stand for the pledge of allegiance at school. and if a teacher lectures you for not standing, direct them to the case of West Virginia Board of Education vs. Barnette

[kristakittyfish]

so apparently “asexual reproduction” is no longer the preferred scientific term, so if anyone makes a sponge joke or whatever just scream “IT’S AGAMETIC KNOW YOUR SCIENCE” and throw a textbook at them

[coldafternoon-deactivated202102]

wow, would you look at the time, i need attention

[djurito-deactivated20200624]

i’m so here for bi and pan kids who use “gay” as a casual descriptor for themselves, especially when expressing their same-gender attraction. i’m here for you if you’re afraid to or uncomfortable with using “queer,” i’m here if you don’t have the energy to explain your sexuality every time you mention it, i’m here if you just like the sound and the way it rolls off the tongue. you’re great; keep doing what you’re doing.

[sergle]

hey! ducks are adorable and everybody likes feeding them, but bread causes a number of environmental and health problems that could easily be avoided. instead of bread, consider feeding duckies:

frozen peas or corn that’s been defrosted!

romaine lettuce (torn into small pieces)

bird feed of any kind

rice (cooked or uncooked!)

uncooked oats

grapes cut in half

earthworms

[darksprawn-deactivated20150427]

i know dwayne ‘the rock’ johnson doesn’t know me but i consider him a friend

[1los]

[10knotes]

omfg that is just too adorable

[thefingerfuckingfemalefury]

This kitteh having a little halloween adventure is one of my favourite posts of all time :)

[wonderhawk]

Every fall like clockwork this photo set pops up and we all must reblog it

[thefingerfuckingfemalefury]

You know it’s getting close to Halloween when you see it appear :D

This will always be one of my favorite comics ever. It gives me warm fuzzies~

[waffl3jones101-blog]

my heart….

[st-pam]

[chickenhuggit]

REBLOG IF UR FRIEND IS WORTH AT LEAST SIX POTATOE

[mjwatson]

halloween is appropaching so make sure you keep your black kitties and all other animals tbh indoors to keep them safe!

[dolennin]

me everyday: I should get a tattoo.

[misscherrylikesthediscourse]

Men dropping women because they have sex “too soon” is a complete myth. They drop you because all they ever wanted is sex, they reached their goal, and now they’re moving on. You can tell by the fact that they obviously pursued having sex with you. 

It has nothing to do with “self-respect” or “ladylike” behaviour. Have sex whenever you feel comfortable, on the first date or after you’re married, but don’t let anyone tell you that you being sexual is the reason you’re undesirable or you’re not in a relationship. If you feel safe and comfortable engaging in sex, there’s no reason you need to hold back and if you get dumped afterwards, it’s because you’ve been pursued by a manipulative piece of shit. 

[kathereal]

hit em with the facts

if a teenager is at your door and they are wearing a costume!! please give them candy!! they are still in it for the halloween spirit and it honestly no different from a little kid in a costume. they are just as excited and happy as all the other lil tykes and dont you dare tell them they are “too old for trick-or-treating” because that will literally break their hearts and that’s not cool.

[seananmcguire]

Also…when I went trick-or-treating with my teenage friends, we made the streets safer for the little kids.  The teens who were out to do mischief, who were generally not in costume or toting their own pillow cases, did not mess with the littles who were near us, because they knew we’d get involved.  Make kids safer by encouraging Hallowteens!

[mockiato-deactivated20200315]

I’d also like to add that a lot of kids–especially kids of color–get mistaken for being a lot older than they really are.

[bhujangan]

I’d also like to add that Jehovah’s Witness children aren’t allowed to celebrate Halloween or go trick or treating, so many of us go trick or treating after leaving the cult, and most newly freed ex JWs are around 18-25. And some of us, including me, have anxiety about going door to door.

[stimmysuggestion]

Please keep in mind that some of the older people trick-or-treating might be autistic or otherwise neurodivergent and not understand why people think they shouldn’t be trick-or-treating! And, really, there’s no reason we shouldn’t be. Trick-or-treating is good, inclusive fun that everyone can enjoy, so please be nice if a bigger kid or even an adult comes to your door! Besides, it’s only one piece of candy and you probably have hundreds.

[polar-solstice]

A Note About “Witch Face”

So I’m seeing confusion about what is and isn’t offensive, so here it is:

Wearing black: No, its fine, its a color, calm down.

Wearing flowing garb: No, its fine, unless its impractical for what you’re doing.

Wearing a pointy hat: No, its fine. It has origins that are offensive, but at this point, its honestly the least of your worries. Go for it.

Painting your face green: I mean its silly, nobody is green, its fine.

Wearing a large crooked nose: NO, DO NOT. This is the part that’s offensive, because it was started literally from a stereotype about Jewish people, and its anti-Semitic, and don’t do it, ever, at all. And if you can’t see it, remember when Macklemore got in hot water over a “witch nose” costume? Its pretty obvious, and its in poor taste. Do not do the thing.

[polar-solstice]

We’re rolling up on October very quickly and I’m getting asked again (and I love it, because you remember from last year, because you care), so I’m bringing this post back again. The pointy hat has origins that are debated, and it may be a reference to old Scottish women, or to Jewish people, but my reasoning is that its so separate in time that it has lost its meaning. The green face does have racist connotations, meant to refer to “olive skinned” people, and specifically Jewish people. I give it a pass, though, because people do not (generally) know this, and they don’t associate it with us, they associate it with the Wicked Witch of the West and the Wizard of Oz. It has been stripped of its meaning. I still stand firm on the nose issue. 

DO NOT USE THE WITCH NOSE THIS HALLOWEEN, ITS ANTISEMITIC. DO NOT DO THAT THING.

[captainlordauditor]

i cannot emphasize how much you should never ever wear a prosthetic nose dont fucking do it

[songspinner9]

I’d be okay with it if the person is playing Cyrano de Bergerac, though, but I’m a theater nerd. :)