Anna's Domestic Woman Blog

A submissive wife's little blog about her journey and life with domestic discipline

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Something you learned the hard way?

it is easier to do things my man tells me to do the first time and with a good attitude than later with a red bottom

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A Question

Men who spank, how do you view spanking?

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when was the last time you where spanked and why

Thursday the 13th of May. I got my regular maintenance spanking

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how often do you take it in the butt?

depends on when my man wants it. Sometimes it's daily for a few days. At a minimum it is about once a month

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What makes for a good spanking?

In my opinion, a good effective spanking needs 5 aspects

Why. A woman should know why she is being spanked. The reason can be many things, but knowing why makes the spanking more impactful. It could be disobedience, attitude, and so on. My man usually scolds me before and during a spanking.

Submission. Being spanked is very submissive but there should be some rules for the woman being spanked. I am naked. I don't speak unless told too. I answer with yes sir no sir. I am to remain still and in position during the whole spanking.

Pain. A spanking should obviously be a painful experience. My man spanks hard.

Length. A punishment spanking should last a while. When I am being punished, my man doesn't hesitate to go over 100 strokes. Probably the most important part of a good spanking is that it only really starts when the person wishes it would end.

Ending. When a spanking ends I am in tears, complete submission and closer to my man. Depending on my state he will give me corner time to regain my composure. Then to show his authority, he will give me a task to complete before I can get dressed. These range from giving him a blowjob to cleaning something around the house to writing him a thank-you letter. These tasks help me entrench my submission to him.

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Do you fear getting spanked when you decide to do (or not do) something and does this influence your decision? If yes, does this fear make you a better woman?

I definitely have a healthy fear of getting spanked. My man decides when I will be spanked, depending on whether he believes I need a punishment or our weekly maintenance spanking. I wouldn't say I enjoy being spanked, but I have gotten used to the lighter maintenance spanking. I believe it is definitely a good thing for women to have a fear of spanking.

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I feel the most love after being put in my place

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Recently, I needed a paddling. the morning after

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His 🍑 to use when he wants

Anal was something I decided wasn't for me early on in my sexual life. Now that I belong to my man, anal is something that I have to doubtfully fulfill. Every so often, my man has a craving to stick it there, and it is my job to take it for him. He mercifully uses a desensitizing lube for me, and we slowly work our way with toys to him pushing himself inside me. At this point, I can manage and let him have his fun for as long as he wants, even when it hurts. I want him to be able to go as hard and fast as he wants and is able to finish. For me personally, it's not worth it if he doesn't finish inside me. Anal is not pleasant for me and is usually uncomfortable and painful, but it is something he enjoys, and it helps me be more submissive to him.

The second way he may take me there is for punishment's sake. This has happened twice. Using restraints, he ties me to the bed with my ass in the air. While he does use lube, it is just normal lube and there is no adjustment period allowing me to work myself up to him. He lubes himself up and pushes in. This causes lots of tears. From there he gives me a long and hard pounding. This is an abnormal punishment and is used for more severe infractions, such as challenging his dominance and lying. When he believes I have had enough, he stays as deep as he can inside me and gives me a good scolding on our roles in the relationship. After his lecture, I am untied and to show my submission to him I finish him off orally. The humiliation of the anal pounding and sucking him afterwards is to show me my place.

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Definitely needed a sore bottom after this week. I'd like to thank my man for correcting me.

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does your hoh know about the blog?

yes. every post, comment, and answer is preapproved by him.

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how often do you believe women should be spanked?

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