taylor

'A person should not believe in an -ism, he should believe in himself.' -Ferris Bueller

[suspend]

You make lists in your head about what you want in a lover, like brown hair and a sweet voice. A sharp mind and a soft heart, a sense of humor that actually makes you laugh like you mean it. This and that. And it’s all bullshit. Because people aren’t lists. And I’ve always wanted to be the person who made someone realize that. I want to come across someone with a list in their head that is nothing like the person I am, and I want to show them what they didn’t even know they were looking for. People who think they know what they want are fooling themselves. Nobody really knows what they want. Not until it’s right in front of them.

Anonymous (via suspend)

[thequotejournals]

One of the cruelest things you can do to another person is pretend you care about them more than you really do.

Douglas Coupland (via thequotejournals)

[approvers]

[hijerking]

me, lying to myself: i’m never drinking again

[softest-archive-deactivated2023]

I’m ok. I’m gonna be ok. I’m gonna live a beautiful life and I’ll get to know beautiful people. I will create things of beauty and be surrounded by flowers. And I’ll love myself, and I’ll be soft, I’ll be kind. And I’ll be ok.

[samisoffthewall]

[ldolised]

Hugs are actually so underrated especially those hugs that are so tight u can literally feel the other person’s heartbeat n for a moment everything feels so calm and safe like nothing can hurt you

[locallyloved]

i love when people say they “had a thing” with someone. were u in love? did u have sex? got slushies one time?

[astound]

i wonder how many times we forgive someone just because we don’t want to lose them even if they don’t deserve our forgiveness.

[psychodaddyy]

triple text me when i’m not replying so i know ur feelin’ me

[inspiring-pictures]

[healingsuggestions]

you deserve the love you keep trying to give everyone else

[extramadness]

[kushandwizdom]

you dead ass wack if you fronting on someone who’s really down for you

[iglovequotes]

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

The thing that hurts the most is the fact that I lied to myself. I wanted things to be good so badly that I made up things to gloss over the bad parts. I know that sounds stupid, but that’s exactly what I did. I actually believed it too. To want is a bad thing sometimes. It gets people hurt. It got me hurt. The world is a lonely place and people will go to great lengths to find someone whom they can be with. Someone who doesn’t think that they’re a creep. Just wanting to be able to talk to someone, that want will make you do some nasty things to yourself.

[thelovewhisperer]

Date a boy who makes you happy, but marry him only if he makes you laugh deep-belly rumbles that hurt your ribs as they expand outwards. Date him when he sees that you’re hurting and he gives you a moment to feel that pain like a handprint spreading across your consciousness, marry him only if he can make you smile even while you’re gross sobbing. The world is not a kind place. You will feel a lot of pain. Make sure you are with someone who makes it all bearable. Humor is an excellent gauge of intelligence. Life gets boring. Find someone who makes the banal interesting.