Thoughts of a dominant/submissive switch

Please note, I am not looking for a Domme or sub.

[attractivewomen60]

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[dominantwife51]

It's been a while since I last posted on here. Today, I'd like to talk about housework. It has been said that in a female led relationship, the housework is the man's job. I won't argue with that. It's a fact. Housework is a man's job. That doesn't mean a woman can't do housework if she wants. For me, I love cooking and baking and gardening. These could be considered hobbies. I spend a considerable amount of time doing these things. Nobody has ever listed cleaning the bathroom as a hobby. My husband does all the cleaning. This is non-negotiable in my house. And being the horny woman that I am, I expect him to do it naked if possible. I do appreciate him cooking for me, of course. Most days, when I get home from a long day at work, I have him do the cooking. But I still do more than half of the cooking and all of the garden work. He is expected to always clean up after me in the kitchen, of course.

Some would say this isn't fair. I always joke about it, saying, "we have equality in my house, I do what I want, and he does what I want."

[dominantwife51]

Clothing.

I know there is alot of talk, and pictures depicting men wearing women's clothes. That's fine if that's your kink. But for me, I like to keep my husband naked. Absolutely naked. Not even a watch. When we are alone, he never wears clothes at all.

As soon as we are alone, I look at him and say "clothes off " and that's that. He strips, puts his clothes in the laundry, and remains that way until he needs clothes again. Of course, I can wear what I want. Its fun to walk around clothed while he has to remain naked.

Access all areas. I can walk up to him while he is doing the dishes. Stick a finger into his butt. Or I can cup his (my) balls. Give him a little tease. Giving him multiple erections every day. But mostly, I can see him. As I've said before, i like men. I am attracted to men, so having a naked one around is hot.

He doesn't complain anymore, he used to. He would tell me it was cold, so I learned to turn up the heating. He would be embarrassed, but he got used to it. Sometimes, I keep him naked for days or even weeks. It depends on how long we are alone and whether we have other important things to be doing (that require clothes).

I can take photos of him and film him naked. I've got quite a lot of photos and videos of him cleaning the house naked. Sometimes, I have him pose for me.

A good husband, in my opinion, is naked unless clothes are absolutely essential.

[thegildedrage]

The Duke.  John Wayne.

[misctony]

[keepingitcountryon]

[attractivewomen60]

[lustfull-legs]

[blueandbusted]

"You know what tomorrow is, right babe?...... That's right. Tomorrow is your release day. You'll finally get to cum. Won't that be amazing? After all this time that I've been denying you? Come here. Get on your knees. Use that magical tongue to thank me for all this teasing."

As you pulled her panties to the side and started pleasing her, she leaned back and started rocking her hips.

"Mmm. Yes. Just like that."

Her pleasure built and built. But as she got closer and closer to cumming, you started to see a mischievous sparkle in her eye any time you looked up.

Right at the moment she came undone, she threw back her head and said, "I'm cancelling your release day!" Her words, that rush of power, seemed to throw her over the edge into one of the most powerful orgasms you had ever seen her have. So not only had your release been cancelled, but she just showed you how much she was enjoying having this power over you.

[sweetsock]

[kinkheaven2]

Femdom Academy

It was Jenna's first day at the Femdom Academy, a notorious finishing school focused on teaching girls like her the fine art of dominating, controlling and ultimately enslaving men. She'd been in her dorm going over the syllabus (featuring intro to chastity and responsible keyholding, CBT 101, AP edging, bondage workshops, lectures on the uses of corporal punishment, and bullwhip practice) when suddenly she was interrupted by a knock at the door.

Kneeling outside was a boy her own age, naked but for an armbinder keeping him restrained, as well as gagged, blindfolded and locked in chastity with the key dangling from his collar. A note explained that he would be her personal slave for the coming year; like all the boys being at the academy he'd been sent there completely unknowing of what he'd been condemned to, and his training would serve as her course project and final exam. He would also be hers to keep after graduation if she wished, else he would be donated to the pool of slaves used for demonstrations.

The whimpering slave tried to resist as Jenna clipped a leash to his chastity cage and pulled him inside, but quickly relented after a swat to his balls with a riding crop and his cry of pain joined a chorus of others as throughout the dormitory other girls began playing with their new toys. A sadistic smile was the first thing he saw of his new Mistress as the blindfold was pulled off.

[kinkheaven2]

This wedding has been so romantic baby, it's got me really in the mood to actually have sex with you tonight. As you've been such a good boy for me these long months in chastity, I'll let you decide how it happens.

I can unlock your cock, get it nice and hard and then slip on a condom smothered in numbing cream so we fuck all night long with you inside me while your balls stay blue. I can fuck you with my double ended strap-on so you feel my nails dig into your skin as I cum hard and you dribble your pent up load through the bars onto the sheets.

Or... we can have real sex, no numbing or toys just you and me until we collapse exhausted in each other's arms. If you choose that however you'll be caged again tomorrow morning and won't be released again until our own wedding.

I'll go freshen up while you decide your fate.

[ladyfiresarchives]

This is not the first time she's done this, he was not the first boy she did this to. They all choose the same, one night of exquisite pleasure, and then going right into the cage for the next couple of months as they plan their wedding.

It was such a cruel pleasure to have, to have them so desperate for months, just to be left hanging at the altar, never to hear from her again. She knew she was cruel to do that, but the thought of all those boys with their broken hearts, locked forever in chastity for her...

She comes back into the bedroom, seeing you laying in bed, fully naked, with this pleased with itself smile on your face, she knew... just like everyone else, you've made the right choice.

[lady-peyton]

Chastity, teasing and orgasm denial work like a charm

[shadesoflions]

It works!

But you DO need to work it.

Just leaving him locked and hoping that does it without offering feminine energy and joy and wicked play doesn't work. At least for me. (Having said that, we are currently in a no play zone due to life being busy). But I still find ways to shake a hip, or give him a wicked glance, along the way. Keeps him on his toes and delights me to no end!

[ladyfiresarchives]

It's not that I like to make you suffer, it's just that hearing you whimper, and feeling you quiver with every touch, is just so exhilarating.

You understand that, don't you baby? Then you understand why I can never let you cum... Because that way, I can make you quiver and whimper with my love, and I don't need to cause you pain... You don't want pain, do you?

No, of course not. You want love. You want kisses, and strokes, and cuddles... So... don't cum. And you'll get so much of just what you want...

[ladyfiresarchives]

Amongst Many Games, Volume II

One of the games I enjoy most of all, is to keep a boy in chastity without ever locking his cock up. The routine is always the same, we spend a month or two or three with him locked up, only to come out on rare occasions for a tiny bit of teasing and hygiene and the likes, and after that, I pose the question - "Do you want to spend the next month in the cage or out of it?" Without fail, they all do the same mistake, and ask to be let out.

Then, after they make their decision and seal their fate, I inform them of the gravity of their mistake. For the next month, their cocks are going to be completely free, and if they ever cum during that month, that would be the last time any part of me would ever touch any part of them.

It's very simple, in earnest, to tell if a boy had an orgasm without permission or not, you have no idea how distinct testicles are when they are full to the brim after months of denial in a cage, and after they had even a single orgasm, even a ruined one.

Obviously I spend as much time as I possibly can to make this month as... hard... as I possibly can for them, this is my ultimate test, after all. How well can you handle desperation, and how good of a boy can you be for me...? So far, they all failed, and they were all dumped unceremoniously once they did.

I do find myself sometimes daydream about all the things I would do to the boy who would ever make it the whole month...

[cygnusx5captions]

Sure, I’ll show you to the Chastity Section.

[kink-heaven3]

*1 Week later*

So, how was your week? Painful, frustrating? I can only imagine- I’ll bet you got plenty of reading done though, learning all about chastity while you lived it for yourself!

What can I help you find today then? Oh, you’ve been a good boy and want to be unlocked? Well that’s where there’s something of a catch-22. You see real good boys know that the cage is where they belong and only deserve to cum when their keyholder decides, so by asking for your release you must actually be a bad boy, which means the cage is where you belong!

Tell you what, instead of just stories and fantasies, I want you to go away and read this:

‘Chastity, Denial, and You: A practical guide to accepting caged life’

It’s a thousand pages, and you’ll probably need to read it a few times to fully absorb the message, but come back with a full report on what you think the 5 most important lessons are from it, and if I’m impressed I’ll take you into the back, put the cuffs on and let you out for an orgasm. Just the one though, can’t have you getting spoiled.

[touchn2btouched]

😃

[daisysanddune]

Tonight looks dangerously playful.