Simmered

Submissive guy into orgasm denial. Over 21. Owned. Happily married. aka PeterRabbit

[simmered2020]

I’ve been kept denied orgasm for 31 days today. I’m feeling full and good. When should I cum next?

Today, one month is good

July 1, only be emptied after your first “full” calendar month in a while.

September 1, after three full months. You’ve done this before. You can do it.

September 23, stay full for the summer. Count seasons from now on. Not months.

November 1st, not until after Locktober of course!

December 1st, after a full six months

New Year’s Day 2027, stay full and denied for the rest of 2026!

Next? Just be kept full and brimming.

Remaining time: 4 days 23 hours

I’m having fun being kept full and brimming after 31 days orgasm free. This is a fun poll. I appreciate your votes. Reblogs help. I appreciate your words and advice the most.

[herstrokevictim]

Bottom lining it for me. I respect that.

[peter-rabbit-simmered]

She said I would need to find another woman. She relented. She left me alone. I’m happy to be back in her arms, and my cage.

[lady-peyton]

It's true. Even when Robyn took his break, he couldn't get back to where he was, and eventually wanted to go back into chastity

[simmered2020]

You know you haven’t climaxed when you get even harder after you suddenly spilled out a little cream. My entire lower body is writhing and dancing, tangled in bedsheets.

Fuck.

It hasn’t even been 31 days yet.

[simmered2020]

I’ve been kept denied orgasm for 31 days today. I’m feeling full and good. When should I cum next?

Today, one month is good

July 1, only be emptied after your first “full” calendar month in a while.

September 1, after three full months. You’ve done this before. You can do it.

September 23, stay full for the summer. Count seasons from now on. Not months.

November 1st, not until after Locktober of course!

December 1st, after a full six months

New Year’s Day 2027, stay full and denied for the rest of 2026!

Next? Just be kept full and brimming.

Remaining time: 4 days 23 hours

I’m having fun being kept full and brimming after 31 days orgasm free. This is a fun poll. I appreciate your votes. Reblogs help. I appreciate your words and advice the most.

[simmered2020]

I’m a silly boy who can’t count. I haven’t had an orgasm since May 14th. That’s only 26 days ago today, not 31 days.

I spilled a little cream today. My underwear is wet. It wasn’t a lot. But I’m definitely brimming. In years past I’d pour out suddenly every 2-3 weeks when kept denied. My wife loved it. I’d flow out quietly from my cage in her arms, and she felt magical.

There’s 5 more days in the poll. Plenty of time for you folks to vote for a reasonable plan on when I should have my next orgasm.

[lovemydominatewife]

[magikook-originals]

[magikook-originals]

[msliminal2]

Back massages that turn into butt massages that turns into eating my pussy from behind~

[simmered2020]

What a dream to give.

[msliminal2]

I love when men are obedient. You’re twice my size, and you know I can’t really *make* you do anything… but you’ll still do whatever I tell you to do because it makes you happy to be a good boy. Amazing. ☺️💗

[msliminal2]

Subby boys with praise kinks are so adorable. Like awwww you’re already half hard and blushing just because I complimented you? How precious~ 🤭❤️

[chastity-slaves-obey]

[simmered2020]

It’s all I wanted. Truly.

[simmered2020]

No. That’s dishonest. I argued with her. I whined that I deserved to cum after my first 100 days of chastity after giving up my emergency key, enforced by a vow. I wouldn’t stop babbling that it had been 2.5 years since she let me cum by my own hand, and that I gave her six years with a perfect streak of masturbation and orgasm control. I was a good boy and I deserved to cum.

But today I understand. It’s a gift to get to grip and stroke my cock.

[chastity-slaves-obey]

[simmered2020]

It’s all I wanted. Truly.

[askagni]

She does “traffic jam” chastity

Help! My husband asked me to try chastity play but it’s not going well. Usually, right after I’ve let him out, things are fine. He can be a little cool toward me but that’s fine. But then over the next two days he grows steadily whinier until his begging to be unlocked is intolerable. Not much fun for me or him. I never tell him exactly when I’ll do it, but I almost always take pity on him in the evening on the third or fourth day and let him out to take care of himself. The whole thing has been a bit of a letdown. Is this what everyone is raving about? Surely not.

- Ms. M

No, Ms. M, it’s not and I dare say it’s because…

YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG

Okay, there’s no such thing as right and wrong with intimacy, just different tactics that will yield different results. The tactics you’re using are not aligned with the very achievable results you seek.

Traffic Jam Chastity

Don’t you hate idling in a traffic jam? The worst isn’t standstill traffic. The worst is traffic that is moving just slow enough so that you can’t leave your foot on the gas because you have to keep braking every five seconds. Starting and stopping in crowded traffic is enough to send any driver to road rage court. But that is exactly what you’re doing to your husband.

After a man orgasms his sexual response and interest drop precipitously to their lowest levels. We’ve all seen it. Interest in sex evaporates. Romance and flirting get shoved roughly in a drawer and the male brain hunkers down to git stuf dun.

But, as we know, those rascally males don’t stay heads-down for long. Within 24 hours the sexual response begins to slowly return as the prostate refills. He barely notices it at first but by the second and third days it has taken over his one-tracked mind and he’s getting pretty ready for some luvin’. Shouldn’t that mean you should give it to him? Give him some relief?

Days 2 and 3 are the most irritating for a man

No! Let me explain why not. Days 2 and 3 are the most irritating phase of chastity for a man. Why? For the same reason day 3 of any diet is the most temptation prone and why it eliminates so many dieters. He’s transitioning from getting exactly what his body demands to not. It’s an uncomfortable change and the body doesn’t like it. Every five minutes his body asks “Wait, wut? You mean I can’t have? Why can’t I have? I need! Give me now!” Frustration and irritation mount and, if you do let him orgasm, he will experience immediate relief.

The Goldilocks Phase

Relief is not pleasure. Relief is not useful. Relief, his relief, is not your friend. It lets him off the hook and unravels all that nice tension you just wound into his brain. If you want to experience the benefits of chastity and you want your husband to be floating on the fabled submissive cloud of chaste pleasure then you need to get him past the constant battle for relief and into the Goldilocks Phase.

Sometime after day 4, depending on the man, his body will slowly start to realize that an orgasm is not imminent and therefore it’s a waste of resources to keep expecting relief at any minute. This may take hours or days but he will eventually stabilize into acceptance. Not just mental, but physical acceptance. This is where you want his head.

In the Goldilocks Phase, his expectations have been lowered enough to stop fighting chastity but not so low that he gets depressed. In this phase he is free to simply experience chastity, to experience the sensation of ever growing arousal and ever intensifying desire. For men, desire is pleasure. This will be a sweet sensation that never stops, made just a little bittersweet by occasional waves of overwhelming need. (Don’t worry about those They pass quickly.)

Goldilocks is best for you too

It’s not just him that rides this wave. You benefit most in this period. Rather than spending time fighting chastity and pestering you, his only way out and only listening ear, he spends his time in quiet contemplation. It is this phase that he switches to the long game. Instead of busting out a couple of chores and expecting a tit-for-tat release, he begins to consider the keyholder’s point of view, her needs and her whims. He finds himself doing things that he knows she’ll appreciate and he hardly even notices that he’s doing them. He truly puts her first.

But you need to do it right

But for him to take that view you need to play above his level. Chastity must reinforce the dynamic you want. That means the following:

You never promise a date. You can hint at early release for good behavior or late release for bad, but he must never expect an actual date or time.

You must never cave to begging. He may ask politely once or twice during a stretch of chastity and, if you wish, you may give his request some consideration. But once your decision is made you must stick to it no matter what. I recommend that further begging result in a longer sentence.

Behavior should be tied to chastity. Don’t reward bad behavior. If you do you’re just teaching him he can do it and get the rewards.

How Long? Three-to-four weeks

The Goldilocks Period is about three to four weeks long. During this period he will slowly get more and more aroused, experience more and more submissive feelings toward you and become more and more malleable by you.

That long? I couldn’t possibly!

To some who are starting out, weeks of lockup might seem cruel. Believe me, it’s not as cruel as what you are doing to him by letting him out every three days, stop and go, hot and cold, up and down. If your doctor prescribed a 20-day course of antibiotics would you stop taking them after three days when you started feeling better? No. The same goes with the man. To get all those benefits you need to keep him locked for the full course. I would say that’s at least two weeks (in the case of some reward for extra good behavior) but usually three weeks. And up to four (in the case of bad behavior).

How will you know? He will thank you.

How will you know that you’re keeping him locked up long enough? He will thank you. That’s right, he will actually thank you for keeping him locked up. It might not happen right away. It might take several rounds, several months for his thinking to evolve but it surely will. I’ve done this to hundreds of men, some in person some online. Every single one of them proactively thanks me at some point. There are other signs as well. Aggressiveness toward you will disappear. Calm, quiet service to you will develop spontaneously. After the letdown of orgasm he will actually crave to go back in chastity. He’ll miss that glow so much he’ll want to skip past the next three days so he can get it. Eventually he’ll reach the point that he doesn’t want to be unlocked when the time rolls around. At that point you can have the magical discussion about… wait for it… permanent chastity. That, however, is a discussion for another day.

So man-up, ladies and lock him down and swear off traffic jam chastity forever.

[lovethoughtfulcollectionpainter]

I edge my husband because...

It’s what his body wants, whether his mind knows it or not

It’s more pleasurable for him to be edged and denied than for him to cum – simple biology

I can do this every day, and he’ll stay aroused and excited every time

He makes the sexiest noises when I edge him

I love watching his mind go numb with pleasure

He gets so stiff and hard for me, I can’t resist touching it, and I want him to stay that way as long as possible

He stays in a hypersexual state, always eager to pleasure me any way I want

It arouses me to see him lost in bliss

Edging him is so easy, and it gets easier every day I do it

I want him to be happy, and he’s obviously happy when he’s on the edge

I love that he trusts me with his most intimate, natural reflex, so I trigger it as often as possible (or almost-trigger it!)

He fucks me so hard after I edge him for a few days – he’s like an animal, I fucking love it!

He thinks of me all day and texts me the sweetest things

He works hard, doesn’t get enough respect, and deserves to “zone out” for a while in my hands or mouth

It makes him dream about me, so I’m part of literally every moment of his life

[ladylocksluv]

Intimacy Through Male Chastity

One of my main goals when I took charge of the relationship was to find ways to increase the intimacy between my husband and I, and surprisingly, one of the largest contributors has been male chastity. When men think of intimacy, they naturally think of sex. For most guys, it's the same thing.

We've all been there, right ladies? When you're not in the mood for sex but you know he wants it. A cuddle, a few kisses and some loving touches would be nice, but you don't go there because it will encourage him to pester you for sex and at that moment you just want to be held.

So you keep him at arms length, and you both lose out on intimacy just so you can avoid having unwanted sex. You end up feeling a bit guilty for holding him off and he feels rejected. It just sucks for both of you.

Enter male chastity. Why lock up his cock? Well, while he's wearing it, it removes the pressure on you to have sex when you not in the mood for it yourself. By keeping him on a fairly rigid release schedule, he knows it isn't going to happen for him that day.

One of the amazing things about male chastity is it teaches him that while sex and intimacy can be intricately linked, they aren't necessarily the same thing. He learns that, most of the time, he doesn't need to put his penis into you to feel loved and wanted.

While he can't have penetrative sex, he will still crave other types of intimacy, and he learns that most of the time, cuddling, kissing, and touching can be enough for him to feel desired and validated, even though he remains horny.

For me persomally, once the pressure to have sex is removed, I find myself being intimate with him more often than ever before, as the reason to hold him off is eliminated. Funny thing is, random loving kisses and caresses will often put me in playful mood, while knowing things won't escalate any further than I want them to at the time.

Feeling his lust for me, tends to fuel my own desire, and I find myself teasing him to distraction while he is so helplessly locked up. Even though he is still locked in chastity and will remain so, he can't help but want to touch and caress me back, and I begin to welcome his advances.. In his lust fueled state, sexual attention in any form is better than none at all, and he concentrates on my pleasure, giving me a wonderful orgasm that I didn't think I even wanted initially.

Maybe that's why a lot of males who are locked in chastity in their relationships get addicted to it, never wanting to give it up. Even though they get less sexual relief, they get more of what they really need, intimacy, leaving them feeling more loved and content overall.

[curioulsy]

Bingo!

[eroticshortstories4women]

Break Him Carefully

Halfway there!  A month and a half ago, my amazing 36 year old sexy husband agreed to three months of - routine and habitual - tease and denial, without sexual release (Orgasm)…  Since then, almost every night, 7 nights a week (and sometimes in the morning, too!), we cuddle, snuggle and leisurely fondle each other - he makes me cum - by going down on me as much as I want - Then as I recover, I’ll continue to slowly and meticulously “edge” him, over and over again, to my sadistic heart’s content..  Sometimes however we’re quick – half an hour of play and off to sleep… Sometimes we linger – time flies when you’re having fun. {Grin} - But the key is that we make time to do it every night, with only a few (very few!) missed nights.  I’ve never slept better in my life…  

After 5 years of carefully easing my doting stud muffin into the mindset of a female led marriage, I find that we BOTH sleep best NOW…, if I HOLD his healthy virile erection in my gentle hand, as we lovingly fall asleep together (hugging)… His Pulsing, Fully Erect Manhood has become - a sort of - security blanket for me… As I fall asleep and wake up each morning Now - With his strong (rock hard) erection in my hand… Security COCK …

Yup, I Adore My Precious Healthy Man…  He’s trusting his most intimate, primal, involuntary sexual reflex - To My Personal Care and “Governance” – knowing, full well, that I intended to break him…  I promised to ultimately reduce him to a sweaty, leaky, quivering, begging “mess of a man”… I warned him that I planned to make it difficult – that I was going to truly challenge him over the weeks, just to see how much he could handle – to prove, once and for all, that his powerful virile healthy muscular (athletic body) could physically endure so much more for me -  than his mind ever imagined…  

When we started eight weeks ago, I had an honest, open conversation with him about what was about to happen – what I was about to do to him psychologically, subliminally and sexually… (though I had him high on pot at the time)  Am I Bad?  Anyways, We discussed sexual limits and set a safe word…  Agreeing that if it ever stopped being fun, for either of us, we would stop…  During that intimate open conversation, he admitted his doubt about two things:

First, he doubted I would make it this far.  He doubted my will  and commitment to Routinely Denying Him.  His words, “There will be a night when things get so hot, when my throbbing joystick just feels So Good, you won’t be able to resist making me explode - Inside Of You…  I know You My Love…  You won’t make it three months having deep passionate intercourse with me - and not wanting to feel me “Erupt” inside of you - But it’ll be fun to try.”  My reply, “Challenge accepted!”  And so far, So Good.  Sooo Fucking GOOD!  Our New Slow and Unhurried Sexual Intercourse - Has wonderful side effects - Preventing “Accidents” … To my husband’s total amazement and slight alarm, I haven’t even Ruined Him…  YET… And My Helpless, Sublime Orgasms - When He’s Incarcerated - Motionless - Balls Deep - Have Become So Much More Fulfilling for Me Now… It’s True about Female Led Relationships - Intercourse is Now Becoming - ALL About Me Now and My Pleasure, Not Him or His Larger Healthier Cock…  

Anyways, I almost lost myself here - The Second, he doubted Was - That I could truly Break Him…  Break his mind, that is - Not his World-Class (Sublime) 9 Inches Of Pure Vein Filled Perfection!.    I Adore and NEED That !  -  I’m just Delicately Re-Programming His Compliant Receptive Psyche about Orgasm and Bliss… When I promised to send him into the deepest, darkest, most desperate, mind-scrambling frenzy of lust he’s ever experienced, he honestly doubted that such a mindspace existed…  He knows how it feels to be relentlessly edged - Incarcerated Balls Deep - Teased and Deftly Denied by my sublime femininity for Days at a time.  He knows the Beautiful Frustration of being Milked and Ruined, over and over again - through the last few years.  He’s begged – literally begged – for climax and orgasm before and heard me firmly say “NO!”  He’s been there…  He survived those things without ever truly losing his mind, and he figured this would “just” be more of the same…  Three months of intense fun, but he figured - nothing truly new. 

And… to be honest… I wondered if he might be right.  His doubt however motivated me “greatly” to find out what I was made of.  It made me “edge” him harder - for longer… I Was on a Sacred Mission… Which made me stop and suddenly let go of his Joystick for recovery breaks, every time my feminine instinct screamed at me “He’s a man!!  Have Mercy!  Let him Cum!!”  It’s also why I insisted on sexual playtime (and cuddling) every night, no matter what’s happening in our daily lives or how tired we felt.  I wanted to know… to genuinely know… Could I break him?  Was it even possible?

Well…

Last night, I’m proud to say, I finally… carefully… definitely broke him!

After eight weeks of daily edging, teasing and denying him a cherished male climax, we started off the evening “routinely” enough. We played, cuddled and snuggled to warm up, He hungrily went down on me (he’s gotten so good) and when I couldn’t take any more, I pounced on him… Getting him onto his back for a quick 69, I then tied his wrists to the headboard of our bed.  He was already wonderfully hypersensitive, and his magnificent robust joystick was leaking and crying endless tears of joy (I was extremely wet and aroused), so I shrewdly decided to mount him very slowly and carefully - avoiding any sudden motion that might resemble a thrust… (Remember Our New Slow and Unhurried Sexual Intercourse?)  We kissed slowly, deeply and passionately as I took my Sweet Time, easing him inch by delectable inch, into the depths of my drenched slippery Vagina. Thoroughly relishing the sensations of him throbbing and pulsating - I finally incarcerated him Balls Deep UP inside me - Right Where he Belonged…  Eventually I moved, Reaching out and got my favorite toy from the nightstand and delicately vibed myself to a glorious rapturous full body climax - Fully Impaled on My Mans Glorious Captive Subjugated “Denied” Rock Hard 9 Inch Joystick…  A perfect start… By the glazed look in his doting eyes, I Fully Realized - Just How Much - He Loved Feeling ME Climax and Cum - All Over His Powerful - Incarcerated - Hyper Sensitive COCK…

After a Brief Intuitional “ Restorative” Rest Break - I Slowly Dismounted My Desperately HARD Stud - Licked my juices from his Balls and Mighty Erection - Then retired to languish (and snuggle) at his side - in a blissfully relaxed haze - alternately vibing, tickling, stroking and teasing his raging Joystick - through a string of easy “edges”… Easy for me, that is… My head was resting on his muscular chest, my long silky soft black hair spilling over his body, my leg hooked with his… It was so Incredibly Serene - Holding his Monster (Hypnotic) Throbbing Cock in my Tender Hand, I almost fell asleep.

I didn’t even notice the time…  I didn’t even notice an hour had slipped by - And Then Two Hours…  I was in a warm, post-orgasmic serene trance… Perfectly Comfortable… Feeling his magical alluring, magnificent manhood straining so sweetly and desperately - in my tender, nurturing, adroit hand… Lost in my own little world of Mastering Him… It was just so easy…  And, as silly and  nonsensical as it sounds, I cherished and adored him for it.  I loved that he found me so beautiful, so irresistible, so sensual and sovereign that he couldn’t stop himself from Submitting…. It made me feel like the most amazing woman in the world.

So I almost didn’t notice as his grunts faded and his quivers started.  He actually startled me with a raspy, crackling whisper, “Baby, Please… Pleeease!…”

It was the most earnest plea  I’d ever heard from him in my life.  Something in his tone, beyond the words alone… A moment purely between us, when all facades of masculine dignity crumbled.  He was breaking…  Finally breaking… This is how it starts…   His… Subservience, Subordination, Servility!

I immediately “perked up”…This was angelic music to my ears…  I needed to see his face, to confirm it for myself.  Yup… He was gone.  His eyes were open, but there was absolutely no mind present…  His lips were moving, but only a few airy words slipped out…  A lot of “please” and “fuck” and sometimes my name, over and over again… As If in a Trance… My heart swelled with pure joy, and happiness for him.  I didn’t say a word – I didn’t want to interrupt his journey… He was in a Deep Blissful Trance… As I just continued gliding my silky soft fingers “With a featherlight touch” along his dancing - 9 inch Cock of Pure Raging Fervid Perfection - … Carefully, Invisibly - Guiding him through subspace… Knowing that He “Needed” Me… That he could   NEVER   Do this to himself...  

Weeks of hard work (for the both of us!) was finally paying off…

There was No Way I was going to let this exquisite moment END any time soon.  I completely forgot how drowsy I was, or how late it was.  I Kept Going… Carefully… Lightly… Nurturing… Soft Touches ONLY – Because just one firm grip of his thick base, or stroke - probably would have ended it…  At one point, when he was sweating, quivering, and babbling, I softly - sensuously - seductively - offered him a chance…  I whispered very quietly, “Remember, we have a safe word.”  That’s the only time I “broke character.”  I’m sure his subconscious heard me; I’m sure he understood - But he didn’t say anything, though…  He just kept quietly whimpering and begging in a trance,  “Please… Please…”

He wanted to STAY.  So I made him STAY ! ! !

He wanted to be Broken…  So I Broke Him ! ! !

The Next Morning, When We Awoke, He was STILL  “ROCK HARD”  In My Hand,  He said it was the BEST night of his life.  And I believe it! 

We Dozed, Cuddled and Snuggled the Next Few Hours in Bed That Morning as I Securely Held Him in my Grasping Hand - Unwilling to let His Healthy Manhood Deflate - Even in the Slightest…  Security COCK …

Anyways, We have another eight weeks to go…

Man O Man - Am I Going To Enjoy Myself - The Next Eight Yummy Weeks ! ! !

[eroticshortstories4women]

[suddenlyhumble]

N.S.F.W.