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I know, baby, I really tired you out, didn’t I? You might want to keep that in mind next time when you ask me to use you as if you were one of my toys... but you’re always such a good slut for me.

What? I can barely understand you, cutie. Let me clean you up and I promise I’ll lay with you. Of course I’ll hold you. I’ll always hold you. Yes, and kiss you. Duh! You were so good. You sounded so good. Everything about you always makes me want you more. I love you.

No, no round two, I know you’re tired. That was like... four rounds, if you ask me, technically.

We can watch whatever you want. I’ll massage your wrists and get you water-- okay, and I’ll put chocolate chip cookies in the oven. And play with your hair.

...Are you sure that was all good? You’re still shaking. Okay, good. No, you’re the best!

You’re so cute.

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You’ve been texting me all day saying you miss me and you wish you were here so I can love on you, and I’ve been thinking the same thing, except I’d be reminding you who you belong to, and going between your thighs to get to your heart ;)

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Such a good whore, asking to kneel under my desk. Your mouth feels amazing, but it’s going to feel even better when I’m inside you and bending you over it instead to have my fun with you. After I punish you for distracting me, of course.

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Ok this is not the same anon that sent you that ask but ... wait ... I thought that all BDSM punishments were "funishments" as in you actually enjoy the process and just call it so for play factor. Why would you do punishments if you dont enjoy them ... ?

valid question! for a lot of pairs/couples, all of their punishments are the fun kind because they might not like the dynamic of serious punishments. but some people in bdsm do enjoy the discipline side of things! for example, as a more personal type of discipline, there are doms who like to set rules that have to do with the sub’s real-life goals and/or habits they want to create or break, and actual punishments would help the sub reach those goals.

on the kinkier side of things, a lot of submissives want serious punishments so that they can feel more of a connection to their role as submissive, or they want to know that their dominant is their dominant in the classic way: someone who takes control of them in play. they want that dynamic to be more real, they want the rush of possibly making a mistake and having someone who will correct them to be a better submissive (some people like the term slave), and they really want the praise or good feeling of getting it right afterwards. it kinda all has to do with what kind of bdsm dynamic you have/want. whether you truly want someone to take control over you in the bedroom (and even beyond it), or if you just want the fun/roleplay side of things, etc also keep in mind that serious punishments can mean something different for everyone, and they don’t have to be physical (i found this a bit difficult to explain but i hope i got something across)

some quick safety reminders: - punishments do not negate the use of a safe word!!! - don’t punish out of anger - hard limits cannot be used as punishments! a hard limit is something you’ve previously communicated that you absolutely don’t want to do under any circumstance. stay consensual. - don’t punish for something that was out of the sub’s control - aftercare is always necessary (not just for punishments, but after play in general)! be there for your sub afterwards, communicate what they need after a punishment (verbal reassurance, physical affection, an object or food, etc)

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can we get soft dom with overstimulation??? \\ Not sure how active this blog is but i'd love some more puppy suggestions, please? I love the kitten ones. Thank ya in advance. \\ Idk why but the pet name "Little Dove" is like. Wow. Thats the good stuff my dude 👌             \\ can you please make more service top + slave suggestions? thank you!             these and other requests will be posted in the following days/week or so! thank you! reminder requests are encouraged, i love them honestly! same goes for asking to tag anything also: feel free to check out https://domsuggestion.tumblr.com/tips for venmo/cashapp/paypal/kofi if you have some change to spare and enjoy my blog enough to spend it,,

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Hi! So, I’ve recently been getting into some BDSM accounts and prompts, and would be interested in trying some things out! However, I really only feel like I would want to be a sub in the bedroom, and without anything super intense. The whole thing with dons giving their subs rules and punishing them freaks me out, as does a lot of other common BDSM activities (public sex and pain play, for example). Am I a real sub, or just a vanilla person who’s into getting tied up and teased every so often?

hey! your fears/doubts are completely valid! it’s totally okay if you’re mainly just into the d/s part of BDSM, and contrary to what’s popular, domination doesn’t have to be super intense or super tough-- it can be whatever you want or need it to be! it can be softer, you can craft rules of your own that fit, and those rules don’t have to be permanent, they can be rules that only apply when you’re in play (as opposed to 24/7 rules). it doesn’t even have to be rules per se, or something that involves a physical punishment (or any punishment at all-- although “funishments” are also an alternative, punishments that you actually enjoy and call a punishment for the sake of play). there’s no list of kinks you have to like to be part of the bdsm community or to be a dom or a submissive! i hope you find the kind of stuff you’re into and find someone with the same likes! always communicate and stay consensual <3 as always, anyone else is encouraged to reply/add on to this!

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my girl found out i have a knife kink and she wasnt freaked out!!! im so happy akdjndbs and she just sent me a snap of her holding a knife and flexing ajdbsjdjnwjs brain.exe has stopped working i love her

i love getting asks like these! i’m so glad you guys can share that and she’s willing to experiment! that’s so cute!

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I just want you to know I've been having so much fun playing with the mouse sparkles for like 2 hours after stumbling on your blog and have only just realised this is a nsfw blog, so basically thank you for the joy and I'll probably play with the mouse for like another hour.

no problem! this made me laugh! for anyone interested, it’s this theme: https://emberhost.tumblr.com/post/165719723955/peppermintwinter-fuzzy-blue-lights-theme-by

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I can’t wait until I get to wake you up with my kiss, my tongue, my fingers... being inside you would be the highlight of my day. Do you want to live with me? Do you dream about getting on your knees for me on our bedroom floor? Calling out my name as you follow every instruction, and falling into a bliss you know only I can give you?

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What if I told you that it wouldn’t bother me if you shared pictures of yourself online? Would you judge me? Would you smile?

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I want to bend you over the table, eat you out as a thank you for making me breakfast. I want to make you gasp and moan and scream just for me, my sweet girl. And I know you’ll want more. You always do. 

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I want to kiss you everywhere and hear you cry out for me. But first you have to be a good girl for me and listen to what I say, or I won’t give you anything.

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Please please please can we have more soft dom suggestions?

i hope the last 2 were sof for u… 

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i love ur posts they turn me on in places i shouldn't be 🙈 could you use the word 'angel' in a post please

this is probably over a year old, but yeah…. i used ‘angel’ finally… 

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You’re so cute when you say my name to get my attention over a video call, just to flash me. And then you grin like you’re proud. And you definitely should be, angel. Just like I’m proud that you’re mine, and I’m the only one who gets you like this. 

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The trust we have in each other is overwhelming sometimes. I never knew it could feel this good. We care, we respect, and we communicate with each other. Every day with you is even better than the last. I love taking care of you, I love treating you like you’re precious, and I love treating you like a toy. All mine to do anything I want to do, but overall, to make sure you’re happy and healthy. Thank you for doing the same. 

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I confessed to you that the idea of sharing you turns me on. It's true. I want to watch you be used by someone, all of us knowing fully well that you still belong to me, and will always belong to me. But I need to remind you it doesn't, and wouldn't ever, change anything about how I feel for you, it wouldn't change my respect for you, my complete adoration for you. You're the only one I want. And I like doing whatever I want with you.