Is it bad that I sometimes have these flashbacks of missing someone? Of wanting to try to reconnect again even though I know it'll never end well?
No. You’re human. You’re going to miss people.
BUT when we miss people, we typically miss the good things about them; the happy times we’ve had with them. We don’t miss the bad. It’s not a good idea to reconnect with someone who has hurt you because it can bring up old feelings and let the other person believe its okay to treat you poorly when its not.
It’s okay to think about someone and miss them, but that doesn’t mean you should reconnect with them. Some people are out of your life for the best.












