okay so I just feel like making a Partner Appreciation post, because my partners are *~so so so so good~* I am in an incredibly supportive, healthy, open, fun, beautiful, queer-as-fuq, partially long distance relationship with these two and I don’t even know where to start with how special and important and loved they are. I never thought that I would meet people who loved me and challenged me and accepted me the way they do. I have one moment (or a thousand????) every day where I am completely overwhelmed by their presence in my life. They have witnessed me stumble and soar. They have witnessed me in many forms, and remained by my side, offering councel, critique, kisses, snuggles, and shoulders to cry on. It has been hard at times, and undoubtedly it will be hard again, but that’s part of it! Working through struggles in communication, sex, distance, feelings for others (which are a-okay and kind of totally inevitable because love and babes and polyamory exist duh), and a breakup, I have learned and continue to learn so much about myself, about my partners, and about a healthy relationship and how it operatesit looks to me. So, ya, love love love these two beans to the moon, to the center of the earth, and back. in my heart forever xoxoxoxo