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Doug, he/they, agere caregiver blog, 21, alter, just some guy lol, blog is 10000% kid friendly (aside from occasional swearing), main/follows from @e****-***-********

[dougs-den]

(first made by me, credits for last two: x x)

[riverzblog-deactivated20260515]

warm and cozy beige babyre!

(never falling for the sad beige baby propoganda)

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[rowlfthedog]

[faeriedelights]

having a big brother carer means…

showing off for his kid(s), a gentle teasing kind of love, lots of silly petnames used 24/7, protective without hovering, swearing is a silly little secret shared between them because they’re just words at the end of the day

[dougs-den]

Could you do an imagine for a little who struggles asking for what they want, who just shrugs at any inquiry to what they want to do/have, and gets teary and clingy the more big bro insists on making them feel comfy and loved?

(Srry if thats too specific or weird)

That's not too specific! dw about it bug, I gotchu!

"Hey you wanna hang out for a bit? I'm watching Mythbusters right now but we can always change it :)

Yeah just come plop down with me! Mhm, wherever you want. I've got some blankets, do you want one? ..What's wrong? You want a blanket but you don't know how to pick one? Ohh well that's okay, how about this, you sit here next to me and I'll pick a good blanket, and if you get too warm you can un-cozify yourself or swap later. There you go..

Are choices really hard right now? Yeah? Hmm I think I have a solution.. here, you can have the remote! This is the button to make it quieter or louder, and this is the button to switch what's on the TV. Don't worry about Mythbusters, I like being with you more than any TV show, and besides I can just borrow this season from the library if I want. Just want you to be comfy, y'know? Yeah any show you want

I'm going to get some snacks for us and you can pick whatever you want, okay? Fruit, crackers, gummy candy, little pieces of cheese or meat, yogurt, trail mix, the works! Then I can get more of whatever you pick, and if you don't like something, I'll finish it up for you :) that way we both get tasty snacks

...Are you okay? It's okay if you gotta cry, I'm sorry if that was too much at once. Sometimes feelings are a lot. If you want to share what it's about though I'd love to give you a hand. No? Hey it's okay, I've got you. Sometimes making choices all day is a lot, I get it. That's why I wanna make it so you don't have to make so many when you're with me

Is your nose feeling snotty? Okay let's blow your nose, get it clear again. I'll hold the tissue up to one side, then you blow, okay? One, two, three- okay now the other side, one, two, three- there, all better. You can hug as tight as you want, I got you, we can just hang out as long as you want bud..."

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[dougs-den]

*wave wave* Hi, Doug!! Do you have a favorite Pokémon? :]] (If not, favroite animal?)

Hi Pup!! Hmm that's a good question, I'm not TOO tuned in w Pokemon but I do know a little bit! I like Cubone a lot but I was looking through the whole list and I also super like Swinub, Linoon, Relicanth, Herdier, Dwebble, Bouffalant, Nacli, and Clodsire!

I bet you can't tell what my favorite color is LOL (they're all brown, if anyone reading isn't familiar with Pokemon)

[dougs-den]

I'm learning I rlly like doing like... big brother!caregiver imagines, that sort of writing thing, creating a whole vibe off of a premise and really trying to make it feel as nice as possible to look at and read through.. like the kind of thing someone could read and then have everything they need to daydream abt when they feel lonely or bored or just want something to read!

anywhooo if you have any ideas you'd like to see you can always send em my way!

[dougs-den]

wahoo I got a request❕^_^ I'll get started on that and post it when I can!

[boofinator]

Misc.

[moo-moos]

i feel talkative today so this goes out to older regressors

regressors who may be in their 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s, 80s etc. i love u all so much and i am so sorry the agere space can be excluding to u at times🫂

u all r just as sweet just as adorable just as tiny and cute as anyone else here and i am scooping u up as we speak and i hope u all feel more comfortable taking up more space online bc u should be! 🫶 theres nothing wrong or gross about u for merely having been around this planet longer than someone else

[finntography]

[dougs-den]

thinking abt like, what I'd do if I was taking care of a little who's self conscious about using regression gear... bc my first thought is "well what if I do something in-between first to show it's okay?"

don't want to use a sippy cup even though u could spill? how about I get us no spill water bottles and we can both use those?

don't want to take a nap? that's okay, I do want to take a nap though, can you hang out with me while I nap? you can color or do anything else, and if you end up wanting to too, you can join me!

worried about wearing padding to make sure you don't have an accident? it's okay, you can put it in the same place I put my jumbo pads! there's not really much of a difference when you think about it, we can be two cool cats taking care of ourselves together!

do you want warm milk while we're out but don't want people to think it's weird? let's get steamers then! see, it can't be that weird if I'm getting one too

you don't need to worry about it if I'm there, because I'm never going to judge and I'll be right there if someone else does. It's okay to want to do little things, even if you aren't quite there yet!

[tinydollboy]

☀️ sfw interaction only! kink/ddlg/abdl/nsfw/etc dni.

[dougs-den]

I'm learning I rlly like doing like... big brother!caregiver imagines, that sort of writing thing, creating a whole vibe off of a premise and really trying to make it feel as nice as possible to look at and read through.. like the kind of thing someone could read and then have everything they need to daydream abt when they feel lonely or bored or just want something to read!

anywhooo if you have any ideas you'd like to see you can always send em my way!

[dougs-den]

Scenario: big brother cg & little sib regressor up late at night

Woahh hey bub, what are you doing up? It's late, shouldn't you be asleep? Oh no I'm not gonna snitch, don't worry about that. I'm just watching reruns, you can watch with me if you want? Oh and I've got doritos and fruit snacks if you're hungry- but we both gotta brush our teeth later if you're going to eat some okay?

Alright c'mere ya little beastie, this blanket's plenty big for both of us and I've got to keep you warm! Yep, all your toesies too. Oookay, there you go, just scoot in, make sure to get any stuffies you brought in here- there, now everyone's cozy! You can stay with me as long as you want okay? Okay, now lets watch those reruns...

[dougs-den]

i don't remember when I saved this to our camera roll but

[ID: a small cat next to a stuffed puppy, under several striped and plaid sheets and pillows and blankets. /End ID]

[buggie-boi]

“Creepy” kiddo and supportive big brother!!

“Bubbie!! Look at the bones I found!”

The widest little smile ever, so happy to show their big brother the cool thing they found and want to bring home.

“Oh! That’s…we’re gonna have to clean them okay? And really wash your hands. Here put em in your bucket, I’m going to sanitize your hands.”

[thezackfoster]

As an older brother caregiver I will:

Try to help you with your homework but give up after twenty minutes and just google the answers

Ruffle your hair, gently squeeze the back of your neck or pat your shoulder every time I pass by you

Start a new show with you and watch a couple of episodes daily. Either in the morning or the evening

Buy you something whenever I go to the store. A food or drink that you like. Even if I'm low on money

Stand up for you when you won't or can't. Getting into arguments with strangers, family or friends

Rage bait you. Not anything that would genuinely upset or hurt you. Just doing something annoying

Pack your lunch for school or work. Your favorite snacks + something that would keep you full. And a handwritten note with something dumb or a doodle

Play fight with you. Arm wrestling, pulled punches, chokeholds, attacking with a empty paper towel roll