i don't know who needs to hear this but if you're having that internal debate of "passing vs looking hot": pick hot. "oh but the cisgenders" don't care. pick hot. "oh but im supposed to-" being trans is about being whoever the fuck you want to. put the shit you were told to rest. pick hot. embrace it. why are you worrying ab people that think a cis man wearing eyeliner is groundbreaking.


















