*Updated March 2022
Hello! Welcome to my rp blog! If you want to write with me, you can find me over at these two blogs, instead:
@abrushwithdeath (Rogue from X-Men solo blog. Multiverse. Multiship. Comics verse, movie verse, MCU verse, and mixed verses all available!) AND @acquiescence-of-a-dream (Remake of this multimuse blog, for the most part it’s exactly the same, just moved!)
LINKS (no longer working):
“Canon” Muses
Fandom OCs
Fandomless OCs
A Note About Shipping
Rules
Open Starters (Open to anyone, even non-mutuals (unless otherwise stated!))
Here are a few things to know (Feel free to read just the bolded stuff if you’re in a hurry, the unbolded just elaborates):
Mun is 25+ and will only rp with those who are 18+! If you aren’t 18+ please don’t interact. I’m just not comfortable with it.
My X-Men muses are my main muses and they’re the ones I always have muse for! Just wanted to add that as a heads up- sometimes if you see me writing, it’ll mostly (if not exclusively) be my X-Men muses (especially Rogue, Bobby, and Kitty). Don’t take it personally, I’ve just been reading a lot of X-Men comics and it’s been my hyperfixation (again) for the last few months.
I don’t write much smut, so I apologize if things head that way and I end up dropping the thread without warning (I don’t usually drop threads intentionally, it’s probably just stuck in my drafts until I’m in the headspace to write it, but that day might never come, so I apologize). I try, but I’m really not confident in my abilities to write smutty stuff. And sometimes it just makes me feel entirely uncomfortable, especially writing from a male perspective. Please don’t take it personally or anything! I’m just not good at it.
I have a separate side blog for nsfw content! I'll reblog anything smutty over there, though in general I prefer to write it on discord.
All of my muses are multiship unless otherwise stated.
I’m super slow with replies most of the time. Totally feel free to give me a nudge if it’s been a while since I’ve replied. I lose track of stuff so easily and then feel like I’m not allowed to reply to it when I remember it because it’s been a while. Anxiety is a bitch and I probably assume you hate me for taking too long to reply.
I’m technically semi-selective, but mostly not selective at all. Aside from the rule of only writing with muns who are 18+, I’m actually not particularly selective. I just have a few face claims and such that I avoid. Check my rules page for more info!
I’ll ship just about anything with just about anyone, but I still reserve the right to not ship with a character, especially on first interaction. I’m also very selective about ships when it comes to my general ocs. I’ve made the mistake of shipping single ship muses too fast because I felt pressured and I don’t want to make that same mistake again, is all. This also goes for canon ships. While usually I’m fine with canon ships, I don’t want to feel obligated to write them just because they’re canon, so please don’t push them on me.
I write f/f and m/f ships, but am highly selective about m/m ships. I’m just a little wary about it and only ship m/m ships with people I feel super comfortable with. Write what you want, of course, but I’ve been in rp for about 15 years or more, tumblr rp for 10-11, and I know, as a wlw writer, I’m not always comfortable writing m/m ships. I love m/m ships in general, I just don’t always like writing them much. Also, if you try to push a m/m ship on me it’s only going to make me wary of writing with you in general, just as a fair warning. I’m selective about them for a reason and I don’t want to be made to feel bad if I have trouble / feel uncomfortable writing it. (If you have questions, feel free to ask and we can talk about it!)
*Just a little addendum- although most of what I write ends up being m/f ships, please understand that I’m selective about pregnancy plots (and writing with child muses). I’ve had them kind of pushed on me in the past and they’re really not my cup of tea, so to speak. Not that I don’t want my muses to have families, of course! But just... it’s not something I usually care much for writing. So please be respectful of that.
Please specify what muse you’d like to write with when sending asks! Or at the very least, give me a couple options or a mention of who you /don’t/ want to interact with. If you don’t mention a specific muse, I’ll still reply but you’ll get a random muse, usually a female. So please give me some kind of idea of who you’d like if you have something specific in mind!
Reasons I might not follow you / unfollow you (none of these are meant to say you can’t do these things, they’re just things that I don’t want on my dash):
You reblog nsfw images without tagging it.
Your blog is primarily smut based (you do you <3 but I just don’t care to write much smut on here and I don’t want to see it all the time).
You use deceased face claims (outside of the characters they’ve played in media ie: using Carrie Fisher as Princess Leia is fine; using her for an oc makes me a little wary) and you don’t tag (example: after Jonghyun from SHINee passed away, I still followed someone who used him as a fc and every time I saw a gif or icon of him being used, I had a weird sense of suspended reality where I’d go google if he was alive because I sincerely thought maybe I’d made it up or something- I can’t do that again, it’s scary)- again, use the fcs you want! That’s fine! It’s just a weird experience for me sometimes. I’ll usually just block a tag instead of unfollowing, though!
You’re causing drama/bullying or are actively participating in it (I just want a nice, drama free, space).
Also, character / fc hoarding. I know that sounds dumb, and it doesn’t happen often- sometimes people’s characters just have the same fc and I’m not gonna shame you for writing with, like, a few of the same fc! But I’ve been rp-ing for almost 2 decades and it never fails that there are some people who just hoard characters or fcs, writing with any and all of that one chara/fc they can. It’s fine and, for the thousandth time, you do you and don’t let me or anyone else make you feel bad about it <3 But I want to know that my rp partners care about my muse, not just the face of the muse... you know?
I might also just unfollow you because I don’t feel comfortable following you anymore for some unspecified reason. I want it to be known that, if I unfollow you / soft block you, it’s nothing against you, personally! (And I won’t be upset if you refollow because you didn’t realize you were soft blocked.) It’s for my own sake. I also am not obligated to give you a reason for unfollowing. I extend the same courtesy to you- feel free to unfollow, soft block, or block if you don’t want to see me on your dash! No hard feelings and no need to explain. I just want you all to be comfortable and have fun! I expect the same decency from you, please <3
REBLOG KARMA: I try to be respectful and reblog things from the source or from a meme blog or whatever bc I understand why people don’t want to be feel like they’re being used as a meme source. If I ever reblog something from you that isn’t a reply, I’m sorry. I try not to let it happen, but sometimes it does.
That said: REBLOG WHATEVER YOU WANT FROM ME. Seriously, it doesn’t bother me at all. You don’t even have to send me a meme to reblog it. Just... go ahead. Reblog it. It’s totally fine by me <3
Lastly, this isn’t a rule so much as just something to be aware of: my male muses can be extra finnicky. It doesn’t mean I don’t want to write them, and it doesn’t mean I don’t want to write with you, but sometimes I feel like my boys get all the attention and then it makes it hard to write them. I know, I know, that sounds dumb, but it’s true. You don’t have to write with my girls if you don’t want, that’s fine. But I extra appreciate if you do write with them because I almost always have muse for my girls. It also makes me feel like I’m appreciated for more than just my male fcs. Again- totally not a rule! Just something I wanted to make note of so if you see me answering other stuff / replying to other stuff you know it’s probably just an off day for my boys :)
OOC conversation can be really hard for me. I try and usually I’m fine when it comes to plotting, but I drop the ball a lot or come off as cold a lot because I just don’t have the energy to talk ooc a lot of the time. Please don’t take it personally, it’s just that my social battery is usually at 40% or less in general oTL
That’s really about all! Please give my rules a quick read, though! And like this post if you’ve read (or at least skimmed through) my rules and would like to interact! Totally not a requirement, of course, just a courtesy :)
Thanks for your time!
