2018
My year of:
Choosing myself over and over, and not feeling guilty for doing so.
Saying goodbye to forced friendships, toxic friendships, one-sided friendships, tiring friendships, etc.
Never ever ever again settling for partners who work overtime to make me believe I’m hard to love. Never ever again. Even when I’m loneliest.
Staying focused on the things that matter.
Seeking help when l need it.
Accepting help when it is offered.
Accepting love when it is given.
Being more loving.
Being more forgiving.
Protecting my space.
Taking more risks (academically, career-wise, etc.)
Remembering to focus on my own journey and not compare myself to others (especially important this year).
Celebrating the victories (no matter how small).
And, above all, being more spiritual and being able to listen to (and obey) God amidst all the noise.
Needed this reminder today.














