dreams of a male submissive

dreams of a male submissive,who often dreams of a submissive life,but has yet to experience it outside of Internet. this blog will also serve as my main personal blog,so expect some stuff i enjoy. which includes wrestling,geeky stuff,cars,the kinky stuff,jokes,awesome photos,me,animals,and what ever i fucking feel like posting.i am grateful for every single one of my followers so thank you. Give me a follow on Twitter,or Instagram(none adult stuff posted) or message me on kik @ Synner40

[dreamsofamalesubmissive]

This is goodbye. it’s been fun the past five years on tumblr. came across some amazing blogs run by amazing people. most of them are gone now. so to the ones who stuck around till the end days. THANK YOU!

to tumblr FUCK YOU. i was able to drop my mask and let my kinky flag fly. and it felt good. and i was able to do it from a mobile platform. until you ended up with a stick up your ass and decided to take away people’s safe spaces.

so to those who care and want to keep in touch i have a kik. user name is synner40. would love to hear from a few people once the purge happens.

so take care everyone. stay kinky. happy holidays

[dreamsofamalesubmissive]

it’s the eve of the purge. i’m sad to see such a great and positive place go. take care tumblr.

follow your dreams and keep it kinky.

[errorschacha]

Don’t talk shit about people’s teeth. Seriously.

Speaking as a major dental hygiene enthusiast…

Great-looking teeth come from two things: luck and money (which is also a function of luck).

Dental procedures tend to be very, very expensive, and are almost never covered by insurance.

Healthy teeth aren’t necessarily big, straight or bright white. Depending on what someone’s natural teeth are like, achieving that look may require a significant downgrade in their dental health; unnecessary crowns and veneers cause damage.

Do not underestimate genetics’ role in determining teeth’s appearance, or how prone teeth are to problems. Genes and early development, i.e. things people get zero control over, can outweigh all else.

A wide range of chronic conditions impact oral health and teeth’s appearance, too, and may contraindicate various types of work or raise procedures’ cost even more.

Finally, for many people and many reasons, celebrity-looking teeth just aren’t a priority (even when they’re attainable; some people might want, y’know, a new car instead).

Regardless, don’t be an asshole. Not even very attractive teeth look good on those.

[honeysuze]

I’ve NEVER seen a post like this and I’m thrilled TBH because I’m very insecure about my teeth and there is literally one reason they are not nice and that is money so I’m literally down for teeth positivity

[wilwheaton]

Hey, before 171218, wanted to thank you for #butts and generally being sex positive. I kind of got it into my head that seeking out and admiring attractive people doing sexy things was, well, not something you should do. But Tumblr helped change that. You introduced me to April O’Neil and Dita vonTease, and modeled a happy marriage that includes looking at sexy people doing sexy things. I’m going to miss that casual positivity on Monday.

You are describing what will be the worst thing to lose tomorrow: the community of kind and positive people who gathered here because it was, largely, safe for us. It’s interesting to know that, in the service of Vulture Capitalists and other 1%ers, Tumblr will drive away a substantial number of good people who happen to be sex-positive, who may be something other than CIS hetrosexuals, and their friends and loved ones who are here to be with them. It’s further interesting to note that, while Tumblr does this – by design – it is leaving every single hateful, racist, Nazi, white supremacist, incel, misogynist, cruel and destructive blog and their followers untouched.

There’s a strong and dangerous Libertarian ideology that runs deep in Silicon Valley that directly and indirectly supports actions that quite tellingly never affect CIS white hetero men, but have profoundly dangerous and harmful consequences for literally every other group of people. 

Through actions like Tumblr’s upcoming ban that will (through post flagging) disproportionately affect LGBTQ people, like Jack Dorsey’s refusal to address the hate and white supremacy on Twitter, like Facebook’s decision to use right-wing anti-Semitic dogwhistles to deflect attention from its systemic privacy violations, like Reddit’s embrace of right-wing and white nationalist users, it is impossible to deny that the decision makers in the board rooms at the biggest social media platforms are at the very least sympathetic to the voices and ideas of white supremacists and misogynists, and at worst in total agreement with their positions. Every choice these people make moves what should be fringe voices and ideas further and further into the mainstream, while they marginalize and punish nonviolent voices that call for justice and equality.

Social media is broken and it’s the fault of the failed leaders at the main social media platforms, who will be remembered with disdain and contempt by history.

Wow ….. uh …. this answer sort of spun off into a rant, so let me bring it back to what you initially said: I don’t know Dita (though it would make my LIFE to meet her) but April is a very good friend of mine, and I love that you found her work, her nerdiness, and her awesomeness through this Tumblr thingy I run. I’m so sorry that you’re going to be losing a platform and a place where you felt at home and safe. I hope that those of us who stay can use our privilege to move Tumblr back to the place it was yesterday.

I’ll do my best to carry on casual positivity and as many #BUTTS as I can get away with.

[wilwheaton]

So the day is upon us. How do you feel about Tumblr's removal of "adult content"?

Here’s a copypaste from another thing I wrote earlier today:

There’s a strong and dangerous Libertarian ideology that runs deep in Silicon Valley that directly and indirectly supports actions that quite tellingly never affect CIS white hetero men, but have profoundly dangerous and harmful consequences for literally every other group of people.

Through actions like Tumblr’s upcoming ban that will (through post flagging) disproportionately affect LGBTQ people, like Jack Dorsey’s refusal to address the hate and white supremacy on Twitter, like Facebook’s decision to use right-wing anti-Semitic dogwhistles to deflect attention from its systemic privacy violations, like Reddit’s embrace of right-wing and white nationalist users, it is impossible to deny that the decision makers in the board rooms at the biggest social media platforms are at the very least sympathetic to the voices and ideas of white supremacists and misogynists, and at worst in total agreement with their positions. Every choice these people make moves what should be fringe voices and ideas further and further into the mainstream, while they marginalize and punish nonviolent voices that call for justice and equality.

Social media is broken and it’s the fault of the failed leaders at the main social media platforms, who will be remembered with disdain and contempt by history.

tl;dr: I hate it.

[dreamsofamalesubmissive]

This is goodbye. it’s been fun the past five years on tumblr. came across some amazing blogs run by amazing people. most of them are gone now. so to the ones who stuck around till the end days. THANK YOU!

to tumblr FUCK YOU. i was able to drop my mask and let my kinky flag fly. and it felt good. and i was able to do it from a mobile platform. until you ended up with a stick up your ass and decided to take away people’s safe spaces.

so to those who care and want to keep in touch i have a kik. user name is synner40. would love to hear from a few people once the purge happens.

so take care everyone. stay kinky. happy holidays

[paginedisperanza]

[ryuko]

you have until december 17 to be horny. after that it’s illegal

[prokopetz]

I think the real problem here is that big media corporations seem to believe that social media userbases are fungible, and persist in acting on this belief no matter how many times it’s demonstrated to be wrong.

There’s a specific pattern of events that plays out over and over (and over) again, and it looks something like this:

1. Social media platform becomes popular

2. Social media platform is purchased by big media corporation in order to gain access to it large user base

3. Big media corporation realises that social media platform’s demographics are not the demographics they want to sell things to.

4. Big media corporation institutes measures to drive away “undesirable” users, apparently in the honest belief that the outgoing users will automatically be replaced by an equal number of new, more demographically desirable users

5. This does not, in fact, occur

6. Social media platform crashes and burns

You’d think that, by the sheer law of averages, at least one person who’s capable of learning from experience would become involved in this whole process at some point.

[hedwig-dordt]

That person has been fired 

[espikvlt]

1. Social media platform becomes popular because of sex workers.

Fixed it for you.

[bfgd7865]

Sooner or later will find the blog deleted after the new rules starting soon.But before any of these happens…I want everyone to know I had fun here,I meet incredible persons(men’s and women’s)from all over the 🌍Learn a bunch of stuffs(yeah kinky as f**k stuffs too)I discovered a side of me I wasn’t conscious I have it and between all this I make friends too,so …I’m grateful to meet so many beautiful people:kinky, perverts,sweet delicate souls, courious,etc.Wish you all happy scrolling down Tumblrville and I will always remember my time here and part of you guys with a smile😉

#lustfullysweet💋

[dreamsofamalesubmissive]

[deactivated0900]

Source: http://imgur.com/gallery/jpG3z

[dreamsofamalesubmissive]

this was my frist majorly rebloged post. sighs. I'm going to miss this blog.

[honedperfection]

December 17th - a rescue plan

Some good news, I’ve been talking to two developers now and got them working together, we just had a meeting with the guys behind an existing large (millions of users) site similar to Tumblr, with a vibrant and open-minded community, and more importantly, it has open-minded owners who believe in free speech. They think we can get something done here to rescue the whole community.

I’m not allowed to reveal the site name yet. I can tell you it’s mainstream, open to everyone, open-minded and welcoming. (It’s not WordPress or any site owned by Facebook or Twitter. It’s not Pillowfort, that’s in closed beta. It’s not Ello, that’s mainly for artists. It’s not kinkspace or fetlife, those are too specialist. It’s not jux, that seems to be closed. It’s not Soup, that seems still in development and too small.)

One of the reasons for delaying the announcement for next few days is they don’t want a “land grab” where people take the names of current popular Tumblr users over there (cyber squatting). So they are looking at ways for existing Tumblr users to keep the same names on the new site.

More info over the days to come.

The plan is, broadly:

1. By December 9th, announcement of the new site and how to secure your username there

2. By December 10th, an online tool for bloggers to copy their existing content to the new site automatically, with the same tags and captions.

3. Bloggers will need to copy their content across between December 10th and December 17th if they want to use the automatic tool.

4. My understanding is that after December 17th there will be no public access to any “flagged” posts on Tumblr, but the original poster will still be able to see the flagged post (for a short time at least). Therefore, the original poster may still be able to manually download a post to their own PC or phone, after December 17th, and manually upload it to the other site. But if you have lots of posts that will take a long time, it will be better to use the automatic tool before December 17th.

Please understand that these dates are approximate and may change for technical or other reasons.

There may be a few rough edges or not so perfect looking site design on the transfer tool. Everyone is doing their best. The main goal here is to help as many people as possible preserve access to their content, in the short space of time Tumblr has allowed us, and preserve as much as possible of the Tumblr community spirit somewhere new.

The new site will cater for photo, GIF, text and html posts. It will not offer video and audio posts, due to cost reasons - maybe in future, but for now you will need to preserve video and audio content yourself in some other place.

If your Tumblr blog has a mixture of original content and reblogs, or all reblogs, all of that can be copied over to the new site. Reblogs will become “your” original content if nobody else posted them yet, otherwise they will be shown as reblogs. The devs are looking at ways to preserve attribution of reblogs back to the original Tumblr poster, if that person also moves to the new site.

Important: your Likes cannot be copied from Tumblr to the new site. You will have to go find the same posts again on the new site, and like them afresh.

(Similarly, existing reblog comments, asks, messages and other user interaction on Tumblr cannot be copied to the new site - that’s just too much to do, in the short time available.)

If you want to preserve any of your existing Liked posts on Tumblr, you will need to either: (1) download the post to your own PC, or: (2A) reblog it now to your own Tumblr blog, and then (2B) use the automatic tool, before December 17th, to move your whole Tumblr blog across to the new site.

If you have Liked a lot of posts here on Tumblr, the gridllr.com webapp should be able to help you do steps 1 and 2A quickly, I mean download or reblog.

(Someone complained to me today about the appearance of Gridllr on a phone. It’s best to use Gridllr on a PC, Mac or Tablet with a large screen.)

If you have liked a post here on Tumblr and the original poster decides to delete it, or even to delete their entire blog, some time before December 17th, then that post will be permanently lost. So if you want to be sure to preserve any of your Liked posts, you should best download or reblog as soon as possible. If it’s reblogged to your own blog it is safe from deletion, at least for next few days.

Obviously, you will lose access, after December 17th, to all past posts you have liked, if Tumblr has flagged them as NSFW. Again, the steps (1), or (2A) and (2B) covered above will be the only way to hold on to these posts.

[fur-n-steel]

🙏🙏🙏

[whynotfabulous]

Remember in 2012 when tumblr shut down for like an hour and everyone freaked the fuck out because “NOT OUR PRECIOUS TUMBLR!!!!” and now we’re all just

[snappysprinkledog]

Step 1: don’t screw it up

Failed step 1

[wilwheaton]

you had one job

[we-are-rogue]

Flag me, baby

In what I can only describe as a fit of masochism, I browsed my blog through the dashboard for a while.

From the last six months or so, tumblr has flagged as “adult content”:

an illustration of a masked assassin

a photo of a woman with throwing knives strapped to her thigh

an illustration of a kenku rogue

an article on trickster gods, with pictures

an illustration of an archer fighting a monster

a 3D model of a thief fleeing a mummy

an illustration of a person holding a shiv

a gif from Robert Bresson’s film Pickpocket, showing the theft of a purse

a photoset of paper miniatures for Player Character rogues

a set of illustrations from Total War: Rome II

an article on medieval daggers and short swords, with pictures

an illustration of a naked tiefling (this one actually does violate tumblr’s new moronic standards)

an illustration of Vex holding Percy’s bullet-ridden body - both nude, in the style of a classical painting (hey, isn’t classical art exempt? don’t answer that)

an illustration from Robin Hood the Roleplaying Campaign

a link to The History of Byzantium Podcast, with a map. A MAP.

a quote by Liam O'Brian, with a picture from Rashomon

a still from Wes Anderson’s film Rushmore, showing a Swiss army knife

a photo of a mini-jack in someone’s palm

an article on Knife Terminology, with pictures

And interestingly enough, these four lovely posts weren’t flagged. I guess the nipples aren’t “female-presenting”. *rolls eyes to the next dimension* But I won’t climb on a soapbox for this. (Yet…) So, practical matters.

Some of these are reblogs, so if you’re the Original Poster (and it’s randomly flagged - only two of them aren’t), you can request a review. If you’re an artist, or do some actual curating work (I’m thinking of @oldschoolfrp, with their amazing collection of vintage and hard to find RPG art), I suggest you go into that trouble, and also that you backup your work immediately, and consider exporting it to Wordpress or something.

If you’re an artist who makes NSFW art (or art otherwise doomed to deletion on tumblr), I AM SO SORRY. And I wish I had a cool alternative to suggest to you, but I don’t. Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook are all terrified of nipples. DeviantArt and ArtStation are great for a portfolio, and for connecting with other artists, but for connecting with fans, with your audience, not as much.

Tumblr, hellsite that it notoriously is (was?), did a pretty cool thing with the reblog/follow combo, attracting both creators and audience in equal measures, and allowing them to connect. If I don’t make art myself, but I have a blog where I follow people and reblog their art, I can feel like I’m doing something. Like I have a little place of my own, showcasing my impeccable taste if nothing else, along with my rants or whatever. On DeviantArt, all I can do is post comments on other people’s work, and it’s just not the same. It’s not “my” thing, I don’t have a personal stake, and I won’t stick around for long. So I don’t know what to suggest to you…

If someone does know of alternative sites for artists, PLEASE tell us.

[oldschoolfrp]

That Robin Hood RPG picture is one of mine, but it currently doesn’t show as flagged to me.  I think it may be one that was flagged in the past until I protested.  It would be baffling if the reblogs still are flagged.

I’m hoping for the best, but I did follow the “Export your blog” procedure this morning to create an up-to-date backup:

https://tumblr.zendesk.com/hc/en-us/articles/360005118894-Export-your-blog

It’s been running for over 40 minutes and I can’t tell if it’s still running or if it crashed.  I have 328 pages beginning January 23, 2012, and I know I’m not the only one trying to siphon the servers today.  (As an unofficial back up you can find a huge % of my posts reposted to Pinterest by other people.)

Most of my daily posts are spontaneous, but I have about 50 in the queue spread out as far into the future as November 2019.  I’ve been here long enough to see many other crises come and go, but I understand why this one is bad for many people with a wide range of identities and interests.

[murdercycles]

I am going to miss all the porn on Tumblr.

[msrune]

Six Years...

I’ve had this blog for six years, and I am super sad to see it just going to go poof. Myself and My pet have loved the friendships we’ve made here. You can find me on FetLife as MidnightRune or Email me at [email protected] or at my not so kink, but still me tumblr at @midnight–rune

But for now, I guess, parting is such sweet sorrow.

[marriedandfucking]

Fucking Fuck It All...

Well, I’m late to this party of having something to say about the announcement Tumblr made today, but fuck it, I’ve still got some things to say, and I need to get this out - even if it’ll only live here for a few weeks.

We’ve had a lot of messages today, asking for our thoughts, and for most of the day I’ve not known what to say. The shock has left me a little speechless. Now I’m home and not putting out fires at work, and I’ve had a few glasses of a really good 2001 Shiraz so fuck it - I’m feeling more inclined to put down some thoughts.

Both Mrs. and I have a had some things come up in our lives that we’ve had to deal with that have been very difficult. As have many of you. It helps give some perspective to what this is. Is it the worst thing in the world to happen? Is it as bad as some people’s situations all over the world? No to both of those.

I’m not trying to minimize what happened today and how many of us are feeling. It’s a fucking sucker gut punch - and it fucking hurts - it fucking hurts a lot - and it fucking sucks. It makes me angry, sad, and a lot of other emotions. It’s a huge disappointment. This is one of the most Monday things of Monday’s I’ve fucking heard of in a long fucking time.

That being said, we’ll all find a way to move on - but most importantly we’ll hopefully find a way to move on still in contact with those we’ve met here that we’ve made genuine connections with. Tumblr can’t take that away for good.

That’s the most important thing to us. The connections. We’ve made some amazing connections with people here. Real people just like us. Normal everyday people who found a safe place to share their desires and thoughts around sex (and many other topics). We’ve gotten to know some fellow Tumblrs very well. Some we’ve had the chance to meet in person, and some we’ve even gotten to fuck. All in all a pretty fucking great experience overall.

This place has not just been an escape for us, but also a continuing daily lesson into our desires. We’ve learned so much more about what excites us, and it’s helped us grow so much over the last few years - as people, as a couple, as sexual human beings, as swingers - it’s been eye opening and it’s helped us be able to communicate with each other about things we see, ideas it gives us. We’ve felt accepted, and okay for our desires. Not ashamed of what we do, or what we share. Fuck you Tumblr staff for making it seem like we should be ashamed of having NSFW content.

The header of their post about a “better, more positive Tumblr” was such a horseshit title. I mean fuck you and your self righteous moral posturing. You know what’s positive? Deciding to share with others your experience, thoughts, desires, and showing all sizes, shapes, and colors of body types. Now not only will there no longer be no adult content allowed, they’ve gone so far back with regressive pre-1950’s censorship bullshit like “female-presenting nipples” as content that won’t be allowed. Fuck that. While our blog may not completely go away - we do have a few SFW posts over the last five + years, not sure we’ll try to keep it going for very long after the 17th.

I know some people consider what we do “not classy” - frankly I don’t give a fuck and won’t feel ashamed for sharing what we decided to share. It’s who we are, it’s real, it’s honest. It’s positive and Tumblr can quite frankly fuck off they don’t see it as such.

We won’t disagree that child pornography is completely abhorrent and not something we support either. I find it hard to believe they don’t have a way to monitor that better, but still allow consenting adults to post adult content. But let’s be honest, with all their high moral posturing, this is also about money and their ability to monetize a platform and turn this into another Instagram.

Five + years - that’s how long we’ve had this blog.

Over 328,000 followers, and over 122,000 posts - over 4,420 of them our own personal content posts.

We’ve taken ninety eight different photo sets and shared them here.

This is what it comes down to?!?

I said it before - this fucking hurts. I hate having the rug pulled out from under me and that’s exactly what this feels like. We’re grateful for so much here - the people we’ve connected with, what we’ve learned about ourselves, what we’ve been able to share that’s been appreciated - there’s a long list of what to be thankful for - and we genuinely are.

Where to go next for us? I don’t know. It’ll take some time over the next few days to find the best options. Open to suggestions. Again, most importantly, we’ll find a way to keep connected to those we’ve made friendships with. That will outlast the bullshit of this decision.

As I’m writing this, listening to some music to help process this, these words came across my headphones to my ears and heart…

“I have lost a hero, I have lost a friend, but for you darling, I’d do it all again” because “You’re the only motherfuckers in the city who can handle me.” - St. Vincent