system support blog

REQUESTS OPEN // System help blog!

[dreamycove]

Welcome to DreamyCove SysHelp !

this is a blog made to provide support to other systems & offer various services aimed to help out alters and systems. you can find any information you need in our carrd, and feel free to shoot any questions or asks our way! run by two systems.

Inbox ; OPEN || Requests ; 2

positivity/advice + promos + validation are always open!

[dreamycove]

is it strange to be a system who prefers not to use stuff like pluralkit on discord or generally announce who is fronting most of the time? ofc there are some exceptions to this (close friends) and we do want to be acknowledged as separate alters, but announcing it like that/making it too obvious by using stuff like pk in more public spaces just makes us really nervous and uncomfortable

hi nonnie i don’t think that’s strange at all ! there’s no obligation to disclose too much information around people especially people who aren’t trusted friends and the like. i think it’s common in a lot of internet spaces to see stuff like that especially since it can be hard for alters to express themselves individually very well in irl situations and it’s nice sometimes to have your own pk to text with and your own icon you can customize and be acknowledged just as yourself with no confusion, but by no means is that feeling going to be universal between systems, alters, or situations (public vs private spaces for example). systems in general are a pretty “lowkey” thing in the sense that a lot of the time the existence of the system isn’t something that really wants to be disclosed, to outside people or to the alters themselves sometimes too. so yeah i don’t think that’s strange at all! i understand feeling nervous about being too open about things or disclosing a lot of information especially in public spaces. as long as you feel comfortable in however you choose to disclose yourselves or not, that is really what matters in my opinion :] - 🦋

[dreamycove]

aesthetic for a protector dealing with heavy feelings & loneliness, with soft blues, butterflies, theatre, and dreamy themes

[dreamycove]

selfcare kit for a host with anything black/gothic, relating to hys sources, stim toys, and scented things // @abandonedknowledge

[dreamycove]

aesthetic for an alter with pool based liminal spaces and themes of freedom/escape

[dreamycove]

I'm struggling to categorize an alter T_T... It seems her primary role is to fuse with inactive/inefficient alters (We are a large collective) but we don't have many system friends to see if other people also have something similar / have a term for what her role would be called me and the gatekeepers just call her "The Eater"

(ps. sorry if this has already been asked, we've been searching for an ask blog for awhile)

I'm not sure of a role name for that or if anyone else might have an idea? But a lot of roles depend on the system. There's some that systems share or have similarities with but it's really a system by system thing. You could maybe try Absorber? I believe i've heard that before. Or just make your own! Whatever is more convenient. - 🪽

[dreamycove]

hi ummmm do you have any advice on how to explain to someone who isnt very knowledgeable about systems that youre a fictive? we came out to them as a system recently and theyve been very supportive so far and i wanna tell them im a fictive too because its an important part of my identity, but im like really nervous that ill explain it badly and theyll misunderstand or judge me for it 

mhm mhm… i think that being nervous is really understandable, you’re already coming from a vulnerable place and with being open about having a disorder that’s so often stigmatized or misunderstood it’s pretty common to be scared about things like that i think. that being said though, i think that it’s a good sign that your friend(?) is already open and supportive about things. maybe you can just explain what fictives and introjects are first or how they form because of how your brain can latch on to whatever character, object, etc. when you split, then maybe get into telling them that you are an introject of a character as well and wanted to let them know since it’s important to you? of course don’t feel like you have to overshare to prove yourself to them or anything though and you can take your time and work up the nerve to do so whenever you’re ready… but hopefully this person is someone you can trust and who will continue to be understanding and supportive of you through all of this? i’m not sure if i’ve done the best job explaining all of this but i hope this can help a little… feel free to come back with any more questions or updates if you want to? but best of luck really, im sure it will be okay - 🌑

[dreamycove]

hi could I get a aesthetic board thing for an amanda young introject (me). themes of red and black, leather & goth fashion, knives, architectural stuff. thanks

also one of our other hosts is asking if we can send in multiple reqs at once, since shy wants one.

- Amanda from The Manor @pigmessiah (much preferred if you tag that acc in the request if you complete it)

Yes multiple requests are fine! Just please send them in separate asks! - 🪽

[dreamycove]

aesthetic for an amanda young introject with hemes of red and black, leather & goth fashion, knives, and architectural stuff // @pigmessiah

[dreamycove]

aesthetic for a taki shiina & veyle splitroject with dark colors, sweets, gothic & music themes // @tmtk

[dreamycove]

hey! are you willing to do sprite/portrait edits? official art only, of course.

we can attempt them? our system personally isn't confident in doing them but our partner system can give them a try on their drawing program. - 🕷️

[dreamycove]

aesthetic for an alter with themes of music/concerts, sunsets, and city lights in pink/purple/blue

[dreamycove]

Kris anon again. I'm not picky on the dimensions, but I would choose something closer to the twitter banner dimensions. Thank you again,,

no problem, i just added them into the icon post if you go check it out now. they're pretty simple since i wasn't sure what you were looking for but i hope thats cool, if you want anything different just give specifications next time - 🌊

[dreamycove]

keyholder layouts for a dark world kris alter

[dreamycove]

Would you be able to do a banner with the keyholder flag for a dark world Kris alter? If not, then an icon? Please?

did some icons for you, i can do the banner too but idk what kind of banner you want. like for discord? twitter? tumblr? idk what dimensions to do otherwise. - 🌊

[dreamycove]

oh, yeah, ken is a fictive of ours ^^; sorry for any confusion

- 🩵🐰

no problem, these are up for you now - 🌊

[dreamycove]

light brown circle icons for a ken hasegawa introject