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9 Things Social Anxiety Makes Us Do

I want a girl to distract me from what I'm doing. I'm working on a paper? It'd be a shame if you came up behind me and ran your hands down to my waist, assuring me its nothing more than just a touch. I'm reading a book? Damn it'd be too bad if you put the bookmark in and give me a kiss on the neck as you put your hands over mine and shut the book. I'm folding laundry? Why I sure hope you don't sit on my lap until I take a break so we can make out. Thatd just be soo inconvenient y'know

jinlian

it’s okay to have clumsy and awkward sex and it’s actually really common

the ability to laugh while you’re lying tangled and naked together bc you realize just how silly something is is really really intimate and trusting, and it’s the best feeling to be like that with someone and to be relaxed

it happens with long-term partners, it happens on hookups, and it’s rarely as bad as it’s always made out to be, except we usually think it’s bad we're told that’s not how sex is supposed to go. but that’s not true.

it can still be passionate and intimate while being messy and clumsy, absolutely. you don’t need to “perform well.” sex isn’t a show: it’s about feeling good. sometimes it takes experimenting to figure out what feels good, and fumbles and awkward moments and laughter is all just part of it. sometimes that’s a huge part of the fun.