what i will write about today will be my 6 months hiatus that i decided to embark on after quitting my job with a local bank. Like i mentioned earlier it was neither easy nor was it an intention developed as a result of being unable to find a job. I had an offer but decided that since it was not easy for me to take this brave step and having done the first move, I should carry out my initial plans.
I know how some may perceive me to be, and i do know i am luckier than some at being able to take this 6 months break. i have read forums on how some are scared to take this move so i guess i will dish out how my experience has been. One definite thing is to be prepared.
Mentally and Financially.
For the former, it is the toughest. No matter how much i prepped, i still felt a little lost and weirded out at having so much freedom and time on my hand. I was on the verge of breakdown too. Wondering if I have done the right thing and was still worried of how others would perceive me to be.
I set aside a sum of money to allow myself to use during this time. In case you were wondering , I did not reach my palms out to ask my folks for cash. All i asked for was 6 months, the time to find myself, to let me do the things i wanted to.
I started drawing out my six months. As my mom did suggest me taking a real estate sale persons course; i thought why not . Let myself learn more and it could be a back up plan. I too had my insecurities. I thus took on the course while juggling part time work at a cafe and restaurant, which exhausted me. A classic example of handling more than I could. Somehow, this two places wasn't where i wanted to be. And i knew that. I decided on a stint in F&B alike many,as I had always envisaged having my own cafe in future. It was not a wrong choice as I got to see, experience and knew the in and outs of running a cafe. IT IS ANYTHING BUT EASY. As customers, we always see the pretty side, how nice to hang out , relax etc. But when you own one, trust me. YOU WILL HAVE NO TIME . One example is my current boss, Darren. But i know what fuels his energy and effort is the passion he has. I bet a great deal of achievement and satisfaction comes along with it too.
I am glad to say I passed the RES course with one attempt despite having no experience. I was kinda cash strapped and if i kept failing, the retakes will eat into my small pool of $$.
After which, I switched to just working at one cafe, Smitten. I knew it was a place i would like to work at. And the mocha seriously won me over. Maybe its my love for the real deal and dark chocolate.The bosses and managers are a great bunch of people. I still enjoy working with everybody there to date.You may still spot me there , just very rarely in days to come.
Call it fate, Call it coincidence. Just when i embarked on this 6 months. My yoga studio had a hot yoga teacher training course embarking in october. I still remember my favorite teacher telling me to go ahead with it. But being typical asian kiddo, I didn't. I went on to work after graduation. I thus decided to send my application and i got in !
It was a good tiresome amazing three weeks and i really enjoyed it! :)It felt like a realm away from the real world.
6 months really flew by. I went for a family trip in mid Nov -Dec to East Europe and Turkey with a bunch of my parents friends. Great fun and finally understanding why my dad loves overseas cruise trip. Its been a good 3 years since we had our family trip :)
Tough with me and my sisters all at work and getting leave at the same time.
Soon , it came to the end of my six months after the festivities. I am into the 7th month and have thus started sending job applications. I am glad to start my contract job at a place which i would love to try at next week. I do know some are scared to go on a sabbatical due to worries of getting employed or getting a pay cut when it ends. That didn't happen to me and it may be the same for you too. If you never try, you never know. And i got the job within a month.
A sabbatical is not a bad thing, whats negative about having a staff who is prepared to work, and refreshed after taking a break? In fact, a staff who has thought her options carefully and may see it more as a career not a job. This is just my opinion.
Taking the first step is definitely the hardest, but would you like being one of those individuals who keep thinking of what ifs. To keep doing things only to realize after working so many years to build on something that you don't want.
Just trust that the universe always provides. Sometimes, things would come to you when you least expect it.
everyone who is a part of my life from families, friends and co-workers. I have learnt a lot from all of you, and some of you may not even realize so.
The opportunities that were given to me showed the confidence you had in me and gave me reassurance.
and of cos, Life's little sick tests for me that made me look at things differently and to treat life with positivity. :)
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