Genietend door het leven gaan @eendansmetdeduivel - Tumblr Blog

if you’re in you’re early-mid twenties and they fucking suck, i promise they fucking suck for most people because it’s the time when you are really figuring out who you want to be how you fit into the world who you should surround yourself and it’s mostly misfires and painful learning experiences and reckoning with your childhood and learning to heal your deep wounds, it’s a very very painful transformation process and it doesn’t really end as you get older, you keep growing and learning, but you learn more and more the tools you need and you can equip yourself with them in times of hardship and find the spaces where you belong that can hold you

Uw "eendansmetdeduivel" doet me altijd denken aan een van mijn favorieten nummers van vroeger. Waarvoor dank.

Bless you 🌙

En welk liedje is dat? 😊

Awh fijn om te horen best wel goed vandaag

Dat is fijn!!

Hey hoe is het met je?😊

Heel goed!! En met jou? 😊

rf-44

Me as a lawyer: pinky promise you won’t do it again

warmsuggestion

The person you love is not the same as they were when you first started loving them and they are not the same as they will be when you die. Love must be adaptive. Love must be smart enough and strong enough to survive constant change. Love must not be rigid.

finding-a-way-to-run-away

Parent: yells at and threatens child over a mistake

Child: doesnt want to spend time with them afterwards

Parent:

tasmanianstripes

Parent:*yells at and threatens child over a mistake*

Child:*doesn’t want to admit their mistakes and starts keeping secrets from their parent*

Parent:

this-account-is-a-mistake

parent: *yells at and threatens child over them self-harming*

child: *doesn’t talk to parents about their issues and feels worse*

parent:

chibi-blue-scapula

Parent: *attributes all their child’s achievements to god and all the mistakes to the child*

Child: *actively avoids academic achievement and becomes an atheist*

Parent:

thou-creature-of-the-deep

THAT LAST ONE IS WHY I STOPPED ATTENDING CHURCH AFTER I STARTED THERAPY.

bri-lin-biscuit

Parent: *uses personal info,told to them in confidence as ammo to make child feel bad*

Child: *never tells the parents about how they feel or their personal insecurities*

Parent:

therapist-anon-deactivated20220

wolfsteax

wow this tea is exceptionally tasty tonight thank you

laim-o-nade

Parent: *tells child they’re overreacting every time they speak up about poor mental health*

Child: *never tells parent what’s wrong until they break into a screaming match with parent*

Parent:

lauraexplorer

Parent: *immediately dismisses or laughs at child’s ideas about plans, future and clothes choices, without consideration even when asked for ideas.*

Child: *becomes indecisive or never gives ideas because they’ll just be dismissed regardless of how good they are. Answers every question with ‘I don’t mind/ care.*

Parent: