Me and Alex’s arguments in order
Me: The fuck? Dude you've been doing that to me for the past weeks it's bothering me but I don't say anything because I don't want to bother the group
Alex: son, just say it doesnt matter if they care or not also you dont need to start a whole rant about it
Me: THATS THE POINT THATS WHAT IM SAYING! You just did that to me rn.
Alex: stop yelling! i keep saying this theres no goddamn need
Me: I'm just typing in caps
Alex: that means you yelling
Me: Ok and? What's the problem with yelling? Yelling is how people express things.
Alex: its annoying if you do it all the time
Me: So what I'm annoying?
Alex: thats something, you think anytime someone calls something out theu just think youre annoying, and THAT is what is annoying
Me: So you're saying not to feel?
Alex: no because you just assume also stfu all you ever do is assume it's unhealthy and bad it makes ppl not like you, YOU are genuinely so selfish about stuff and you dont even see it
Me: Well everyone assumes things depending on feeling, also were texting so I don't understand how you're saying stuff (the tone)
Alex: omg yes everyone assumes, you do it all the time tho. ALL the time!
Me: Also how am I selfish
Alex: because you do not care about anybody when it comes to actual serious things unless it’s vivian or aria
Alex: im not yelling you bitch
Me: Well you're talking in caps
Alex: thats not yelling if its just one word, wow
Me: I do care, I care deeply about all of my friends.
Alex: you dont care about it when it comes to me. you just shut up and dont say anything, you react badly when someone mentions my shit, you do not care, and then you go around sulking when im ignorant around you, Of course i am
Me: I DO CARE ABOUT YOU ALEX BUT YOU PUSH ME DOWN! I TRY SO HARD JUST TO SEEM COMFORTING BUT YOU DONT LET ME SO I STOPPED TRYING, I SULK ABOUT MY OWN THINGS YOU DONT KNOW IF ITS ABOUT YOU
Alex: you have the audacity to call ME insensitive when it’s YOU, vivi tells me you dumbass that you keep tellibg her im acting different and you wonder why because youre a bitch to me thats why. and then you say everything i do is bad. thats being entitled, but then you go and say that youre not like that at all, you ARE
Me: WELL MAYBE I AM BUT I CARE ABOUT KEEPING MY FRIENDS, SO WHAT IM ENTITLED, SO WHAT IM A BITCH
Me: SO WHAT IM WHATEVER YOU BELIEVE I AM STILL A NICE PERSON, AND NO IM JUST TEXTING IN CAPS
Alex: and if you're entitled and a hoddamn bitch that makes it bad to make friends
Me: IM DOING THAT TO EXPRESS MYSELF
Alex: bro you are not, youre not nice as mich as you think, youre a brat
Me: YES I AM YOU CANT TELL ME WHAT I CAN AND CANT DO YOU ARE NOT ME
Me: IM NOT A FUCKING BRAT
Alex: "YES I AM NICE" no youre not!!
Me: IM SOMEONE WHO HAS STRONG EMOTIONS
Alex: SO AM I AND YOU DO NOT FUCKING CARE, YOURE SELFISH WHEN IT COMES TO ELENA, "oh i have pots" "i think i do too" no. you. dont.
Alex: he goes by he him not they then, its not the right pronouns
Alex: but you said them, its not his pronouns
Me: I said them because I knew yall know I'm talking about him so I said them
Ricky: Can't them be used for guys too
Aria: why do you guys always have to fight? let her use them, its genuinely not that big of a deal
Me: I don't know I say something and someone gets mad or correct me, I mean anyone in the gc, It kinda bothers me so that's why I don't text as much in the gc so I'll stop texting now to stop things from getting worse
Alex: i only try to correct or remind when it comes to respecting people preferences, like pronouns, preferred name, preferred nicknames, etc
Aria: ask fin on like pinterest or tt to check if using they them pronouns is okay
Me: Dude I was just typing in caps it's not necessarily yelling
Aria: typing is caps over text is seen as yelling
Me: But I do it for different reasons
Alex: it litterally means that youre yelling and if youre using it for "other purposes" whats even the point
Me: When I'm mad I type in caps in with words that show I'm mad, what I used the "I KNOW BUT YOU SAID GORILLAZ" ment it in a excited way because i like gorillaz I've always done it and you just randomly started saying stop yelling every time I text in caps mostly because I'm excited Even though you can't hear me
Aria: she says stop yelling to anyone speaking in caps
Alex: yeah, its not just you and it is meant to infer that youre yelling so you shouldnt expect me to know if its just out of excitement
Ricky: I think most people naturally read caps as yelling
Me: Forget about it, it's just texting gng if you don't like it sorry it's just a me thing
Alex: i do it but its only on one word. it makes it clear tho that its mean like an italicized word instead of yelling
Alex: i genuinely was yelled at to go to bed the other night, so why did you say "yeah right" as if like you knew differently, i wouldnt lie about some stupid crap like that
Me: Well we were arguing and it seemed like you were just trying to avoid my question
Alex: but i normally try to go to bed every noght at 10:00, because thats the latest i can be in my phone
Me: Well I didn’t know, Plus I’m in a different time zone so I don’t know
Alex: how did you not know, you have texted when ive gone to bed multiple times
Me: Well I never focused on it, So like are we gonna like keep talking
Alex: i mean like, idk what to say
Me: Ok I’ll talk then, Sometimes I feel like you don’t care about my feelings and just call me loud, It makes me feel like a tag along
Alex: uh, whats a tag along
Me: Someone who just there not apart of the group who no one really likes
Alex: and i dont mean for it to seem like im calling you loud i just genuinely hate it when people use all caps. i swear its not just you i say "stop yelling" to. im sorry that it feels like that though
Me: It hurts me because ever since I was younger I was always told me I’m to loud, I yap to much and its annoying. Every year every person I heard nothing but that and it hurts I fell like you don’t actually like me, when we’re on meets it feels like you criticize everything I do and when I’m talking on the side you mute me. Then every time I text it turns into an argument no matter what it is
Alex: ok i mite you because someone is talking and you seem like youre trying to talk over them.
Me: Not on purpose, I just don’t press mute in the moment because I’m so focused on the other conversation and i honestly think yall don’t mind I mean some of the others do the same thing like Ricky sometimes, aria, kat, etc. and it feels like it’s aimed only to me
Alex: because you bring up something when someone else is talking i didn’t wanna interrupt so i just mute theyre just trying to be respectful
Me: I have no idea why I blurt a lot it’s just a random occurrence that could be a mental thing also i apologize afterwards because I don’t want anyone getting mad or offended
Alex: most of the time when someone is trying to be respectful to someone else and youre involved you almost always take it as offense, why. no matter what it comes to. nicknames, interrupting, etc. people say things to everybody but when someone says it to you you feel like its only you.
Me: BECAUSE I FEEL LEFT OUT! When I feel that way i can’t control some things.
Alex: so you take offense from someone bring respectful because you feel left out? that doesnt make sense
Alex: fym elaborate, hold on
Me: Just elaborate, I’m basically saying explain
Alex: so when someone is trying to be respectful or stand up for someone else you take offense. this is because you feel left out? thats the wrong term of use eevee. everybody needs to be respected. if they call you out its because its the tight thing to do
Me: Not what I was talking about the other part the one you’re saying right now the only time I feel like that is because sometimes the wording is towards me or it feels that way and it bothers me
Alex: you shouldnt have to take offense from that, that genuinely is a meaning of selfishness, but youre not selfish
Me: ALSO because no one stand up for me it’s always you who get back up, for example when I called aria “ari” olivia and you were arguing with me while I was basically in a corner with no ones help, it takes me back to when Kim and Kensington did it to me and it hurts a lot
Alex: thats is just respecting a persons boundaries!! youre not the only one with them. aria doesnt want to be called ari. i dont want people to yell if theres not a need. its boundaries eevee
Me: Well she never said it herself didn’t she?
Alex: yes she had, like 20 times
Me: She could have said it instead of you saying something
Alex: and ik for a fact you were there during atleast one of them
Alex: wtf, it’s the right thing to do. it’s standing up for people. why do you see this as a problem
Me: The right thing? THE RIGHT THING? It wasn’t the right thing because she didn’t say she was uncomfortable she didn’t say she was upset
Alex: eevee it was the right thing to do, standing up for people. respecting their boundaries, how are you not understanding
Me: SHE EVEN GOT MAD BECAUSE IT TURNED INTO AN ARGUMENT, SHE DIDNT SAY ANYTHING ABOUT IT BEING A PROBLEM ALEX
Alex: BECAUSE YOU REFUSED TO ACCEPT THE DACT SHE DOESNT LIKE TO BE CALLED ARI
Me: HOW DID YOU NOT SEE THAT
Alex: BUT IT WAS STILL A BOUNDARY
Me: IT WAS JUST A NICK NAME
Alex: HOW ARE YOU NOT SEEING YOU DIDNT RESPECT IT YOU DONT RESPECT BOUNDARIES EEVEE
Me: WELL YOU DONT EITHER PIPER!
Alex: NO, I DO, you fucking dont
Me: No you don’t! You don’t respect MINE
Alex: there have been multiple ppl saying or asking you to stop doing something because they dont like it ir they feel uncomfortable ans you dont fucking stop it, so me and others step in to call them out
Me: You’re worried about others boundaries when you should care about your own boundaries until someone says they have a problem with it in that moment
Alex: and you do EVERYTHING you can to end with it you not being in the wrong, you need the learn how to take some fucking accountability for once, i do care about my own
Me: YOU EMBARRASS ME IN FRONT OF THE WHOLE GROUP CHAT A CAUSE A WHOLE ARGUMENT YOU EVEN EMBARRASS YOURSELF
Alex: i just font have many, i dont embarrass myself, i dont fucking care what they think
Me: Yes we do during arguments do you not see they’re side comments telling us to stop
Alex: i dont fucking care what they think yvonne, if i dont feel embarrassed im not embarrassing myself, and you dont get to decide that for me
Me: We are the only ones who argue in the group chat and it honestly affects the people around us IT ALWAYS AFFECTS VIVIAN
Alex: (and you dont get to decide that for me) who the FUCK do you think you are saying that
Me: GUESS WHAT YOU DO THAT TO ME AND YOU DONT SAY ANYTHING, YOU ARE A FUCKUNG HYPOCRITE WHEN YOU CALL ME OUT
Alex: because i cant just automatically knoknow how you feel, YOU CANT FUCKING TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY IF YOU DO SOEMTHING WRONG
Alex: YOU DONT RESPECT ANYBODY, SO I DONT RESPECT YOU, the golden rule right? treat others the way you want to be treated?
Me: YOU NEVER APOLOGIZED TO ME WHEN WE HAD THAT BIG ARGUMENT I STILL CALL YOU ALEX THAT IS RESPECT
Alex: genuinely that's only because ppl say smth, not because you care, because youre only thinking about yourself in the moment
Me: WELL NO SHIT ITS A ARGUMENT IT HAPPENS THEN LATER YOU THINK ABOUT IT AND THINK YOU SHOULD APOLOGIZE BUT YOU DONT BECAUSE YOUR MAD AT THE PERSON
Alex: WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU DEMANDING WHAT I SHOULD AND SHOULDNT DO, THATS NOT FUCKING RIGHT
Me: YOU DO IT TO ME YOU HYPOCRITE
Alex: THIS IS WHY I SAY YOURE SELFISH, OH SHIVER ME FUCKING TIMBERS BRO, im NOT a hypocrite, you are
Alex: (THIS IS WHY I SAY YOURE SELFISH) "oh you hurt my feelings you need to say sorry"
Me: I NEVER FUCKING TOLD YOU TO SAY THAT
Alex:what if the fucking person isnt sorry, you cant force someone to do that. ive never said i dont see something, you JUST did
Alex: (me: WELL NO SHIT ITS A ARGUMENT IT HAPPENS THEN LATER YOU THINK ABOUT IT AND THINK YOU SHOULD APOLOGIZE BUT YOU DONT BECAUSE YOUR MAD AT THE PERSON) "you should apologize"
Me: I wasn’t saying specifically you I meant anyone in general
Alex: and no I FUCKING didn’t, and i never said it was just me, i meant "anyone in general"
Me: AND WHY DO I CALL UOU A HYPOCRITE? BECAUSE YOU FUCKING TELL ME WHAT TO DO ALL THE TIME AND YOU SAY YOUR JUST TRYING TO POINT IT OUT
Me: I mean you can think I’m basically saying you’re the wrong one I’m not gonna stop you from saying it
Alex: you need to respect others than just yourself
Me: YOU JUST TOLD ME WHAT TO DO YOU BUM
Alex: by you not seeing that, BECAUSE IF YOU DONT RESPECT OTHERS THAN OTHERS WONT RESPECT YOU, im trying to be helpful
Me: FUCKING HYPOCRITE GOD DAMN, ok I’m done with this we’re going to stop talking to each other but not block, we’re gonna act like everything’s normal just act like we don’t see each others texts, Or if we’re on calls just don’t say anything to each other and neither of us can be the host for muting reasons and other, Deal?
Alex: oh and you are pretty much a tag along. ive heard numerous ppl from the gc say atleast one thing about how theyre fed up with your shit. i just didnt fucking say anything
Me: Like who?, I’m not gonna do anything just I want to know the truth on how people think of me
Me: You can’t just leave me like that!
