"You're not supposed to feel bad for Jax, her backstory is just an explanation for her behavior, not an excuse!"
Meanwhile the framing in the show:
Aww, look at her! Isn't she an adorable girl? Get out of here
Feel sympathy for Jax even though she hurt the person who's hugging her right now (who, mind you, almost died in Jax's arms). Don't have Pomni call Jax out on her bullshit and hug her instead while they both cry. Will Jax show genuine remorse for the things she's done? No. Will Jax get consequences for her actions (death isn't one)? No. Will Jax get a redemption arc? No. Is Jax a well written cautionary tale? No because her story isn't framed as one despite the intent. Will Jax mention any of her victims? Say how much she wishes she had made different choices? Apologize for anything? No, no and no!
Amanda's comment doesn't help either
No wonder people associate Jax with just her transness, draw her like this girly girl and forget the other characters (Jax's victims)