HI :D
I'm Josh/Jay/J 🪶 Location: NY
This is a mostly kink/NSFW tumblr, but I do occasionally post other stuff. Lurked for most of my life regarding the tickling community, but now I'm trying to build my online presence in kink and hopefully make frands :) Obviously, minors DNI.
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Kinks: Tickling, bondage, feet, edging, orgasm control, role playing (in person, not online)...I love teasing (physical, mental, verbal), particularly combined with tickling. It's a huge part of the dynamic for me. For tickling, I enjoy the wide spectrum of intensities it can afford... light and playful to heavy and tortuous. It all depends on how you like it ;)
I've been kinky from a very young age. Tickling is my main kink and a pretty central part of my sexuality... I'm a ler-leaning switch. My experience is several sessions with various people over the years before I met my wife, plus a few with a poly partner after her. I was fortunate enough to have a spouse into the same kinks- I even built a dungeon for our house :) So most of my experience has been in the context of a trusting, intimate relationship, and them some with tickle friends I met along the way. Alas, my relationship of nearly a decade and a half is over, and we're just platonic friends now. We also have kids, and we're still co-parenting- so to a certain extent I am going to remain involved with my family and I have responsibilities and stuff... so if that's a deal-breaker (and if it is, that's totally cool, I get it, kids, amirite?) please take heed.
My weird screen name (EikFjodr, pronounced "Ike FEE-ed-ur") matches up with my Reddit/Fetlife profiles. It's supposed to mean "Oak Feather" in "Old Norse"- however I'm a frick'n dilettante and I'm not sure if that's 100% accurate. My friends and I went through a norse pagan phase during the pandemic and that's when I came up with that name, and unfortunately have decided to stick with it in all its confusing glory.
I used to be a bioanalytical chemist working in labs doing preclinical drug development, but I went back to school while working and got a second degree in computer science. That's right - DOUBLE BS. Now, I'm a software engineer until I get replaced by AI 😅. I work remotely, so I can travel freely somewhat, but currently I can't stray too far from my current home. Also: computer science = good keyboard skills = good with my hands, if you know what I mean~ (makes *tickle hands* gesture and waggles eyebrows ;D).
Vanilla interests: working out, reading, woodworking, game development, thrifting, crows, cats, frogs; really critters in general. Leftist. Feminist. Neurospicy.
Feel free to DM me if you want to talk about whatever; although I'm not much of an online RPer. I also kind of prefer to get to know someone and form at least some kind of connection before jumping into kink talk or whatever. It doesn't have to be deep at first or anything, but immediately going straight into tickle talk with a stranger on the internet feels off to me... like I've been kinky forever, this isn't new to me. Also, given my age, I don't really feel comfortable DMing with anyone in their early/mid twenties either.
