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Genuine Madrid has apparently reserved Paul Pogba as a key marking amid the nearby season. The French midfielder is at present at Manchester United, for whom he marked amid the 2016 summer exchange window subsequent to getting to be plainly one of the mainland's best players while at Juventus. Genuine are purportedly eager to burn up all available resources for Pogba, with the Bernabeu side putting aside a bewildering £263million to arrive the transcending midfielder. Pogba is glad at Old Trafford, reports propose, however, had beforehand been connected with a move to the La Liga goliaths while at the Serie A club. As indicated by The Sun, Zinedine Zidane's side could plot an endeavor to seek after Pogba in the mid-year in the wake of having passed up a great opportunity for his administrations to Manchester United year and a half back. Genuine has endured a mortifying La Liga title barrier with Barcelona now 19 focuses clear at the best. Cristiano Ronaldo demands stammering Real Madrid can even now make it a "mind-blowing year" on the off chance that they figure out how to win the Champions League for a third progressive time. Madrid delighted in a record-breaking 2017, winning five trophies in a timetable year out of the blue, however since lifting the FIFA Club World Cup in December things have gone gravely amiss for the Spanish goliaths. The safeguard of their LaLiga title is destroyed in the wake of falling 19 focuses behind pioneers Barcelona, while Wednesday's stun home annihilation to Leganes saw them dumped out of the Copa del Rey. That has left mentor Zinedine Zidane under expanding weight, however, Ronaldo trusts Madrid can at present make this a paramount season. "On the off chance that we can win the Champions League toward the finish of the year, it will be an unimaginable year," he disclosed to Chinese football application Dongqiudi in the wake of accepting an honor at Madrid's Valdebebas preparing the ground, as announced by Marca. Madrid's record-breaking record goalscorer has not abandoned the likelihood of mounting a class challenge either. The protecting champions are well unfastened of Barca yet do have an amusement close by - against Leganes - and still, need to play their chief adversaries at the Nou Camp. "We haven't begun well in LaLiga and we are frustrated, no one is cheerful about that," he included. "Be that as it may, now we should buckle down for the Champions League since it's the most critical trophy for us. "It will be troublesome in LaLiga, yet we can't surrender, regardless of whether we have dropped numerous focuses since the begin of the season. "The main arrangement is to continue working." Madrid turned into the main club to win consecutive Champions League titles when they beat Juventus 4-1 in a year ago's last yet confront ostensibly the hardest last-16 tie conceivable this term in the wake of being drawn against Paris St Germain.

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Alexis Sanchez is relied upon to finish an arrangement to Man Utd on Monday Sanchez traveled to Manchester on a private fly to experience his medicinal at the club's Carrington preparing complex. He has concurred a long haul bargain worth up to £500,000 seven days that incorporates a £20m marking on expense spread over the span of his arrangement. Weapons store supervisor Arsene Wenger indicated the gigantic entireties on offer at Old Trafford were behind Sanchez's want to stop the Gunners. "I can't comprehend anyone needing to leave Arsenal," said Wenger. "In any case, in 30 years of doing exchanges is that you take in a ton about people. "As an expert, it was maybe his last contract at the best level and an imperative contract. "Arms stockpile Football Club is 130 years of age and numerous enormous players have cleared out. Will it go somewhat less great? We will see. However, there is dependably life subsequently." Sanchez was offered consent to movement to Manchester after Henrikh Mkhitaryan concurred individual terms with the Gunners. Weapons store are likewise surrounding a £50m arrangement to arrive Borussia Dortmund expert Pierre-Emerick Aubameyang. CEO Ivan Gazidis and head of enlistment Sven Mislinta have traveled to Germany in an offer to explode an arrangement with the Bundesliga equip. Sanchez, 29, will turn into the most generously compensated star in United's history. The Chilean worldwide will likewise be given the notable No.7 shirt influenced well known by any semblance of George To best, Eric Cantona and David Beckham. Joined supervisor Jose Mourinho figures landing Sanchez in front of unpleasant adversaries Manchester City is a noteworthy overthrow.

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What if I held you by the hand to guide you through a system that will refine your relationship experience in 2018? Let me quickly stretch this: "In 2018, nothing will change until you respond to change." Enough of playing nonchalant and zero motivation. It's time to deliberately grow values. I'll work with just 20 persons! What for? 1. I'll guide you through an effective relationship goal setting process. 2. I'll take you through how to improve yourself for a beautiful relationship life in 2018 and beyond. 3. I'll share practical strategies on how to grow your relationship through different phases and into marriage. 4. You'll have a chance to receive any of my E-BOOKs. Isn't this beautiful? I'm set to offer a 30-day relationship mentorship class. It's for 20 persons and will hold from January 25th —February 25th, 2018. I'll deliver the lessons through Facebook (closed group) and WhatsApp. Now, It’s going to be competitive. There's a price to this. N5,000 only. There's however a N1,500 discount to the first 5 persons that will sign up before 16th January. Now, this is where the feeble will bounce away. No problem! But don't do this to yourself in 2018. If your relationship means anything to you, head knowledge won't do the job. I'm ready to make the sacrifice to make you smile. Don't lock in! Learn and become better to love better. Are you ready to grab this offer? Type a YES as a comment. I'll furnish you with more details. It's strictly your choice to grow. #

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The Benue State Police Command has confirmed the killing of two mobile policemen deployed to Ashuwa village in Logo local council, by armed Fulani herdsmen who according to them, laid an ambush for the troops on patrol between the Benue and Nasarawa border. Giving an account of the incident to Channels Television, the Spokesman of the command, ASP Moses Yamu, noted that the corpses have been recovered and additional troops deployed to help track down the suspects.The police also said it has arraigned 18-year-old Ibrahim Idrisa and Saidu Adamu, a 10-year-old, for the alleged murder of one Queen Wilfred in Logo, while grazing openly in violation of the open grazing prohibition law, along with some fleeing accomplices. According to Yamu, the Chief Magistrate at the Makurdu Magistrate Court, Isaac Ajim, remanded Ibrahim at the Makurdi Medium Prison but remitted the case against Saidu Adam to a juvenile court before sending him to a Gboko remand home created for juvenile offenders.The case was later adjourning to March 5, 2018.

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YOUR HAPPINESS MATTERS IN YOUR MARITAL RELATIONSHIP. Many wise singles look back at previous relationships to discover what went wrong and what went right. They learn from the past how to succeed in the future. One such person, 34-year-old Stephanie, voices a vital issue common to many people: “I got married in my mid-twenties, and it was a ticking time-bomb from the beginning. We were two basically good people thrown together in a bad situation.” Here’s what Stephanie realized several years after her marriage ended in divorce: she was looking for someone else to make her feel fulfilled, whole, and complete. “It was an impossible set-up,” she recalls. “I went into the marriage with sky-high expectations. Mostly, I was looking for someone to bring me happiness. It was that ‘happily ever after’ myth so many of us buy into. What I realized is that I am responsible for my own happiness and fulfillment. Only when I achieved that could I be happy and fulfilled in a relationship. Finding the right man was very important, but even the right man couldn’t make me feel right inside.” Well said and so true. One of the biggest fallacies and biggest reasons for relationship failure is the idea that someone else is going to make you whole and happy. Many singles believe that only when they find Mr. or Miss Right will they be complete and content. This kind of thinking, ironically, is the very reason so many people feel unfulfilled and empty. They look outside of themselves, instead of looking inward, to find peace of mind and heart. Deep-down contentment always comes from within. It has everything to do with emotional and spiritual well-being, and it is not dependent upon any relationship or other external factor. If you’re looking for someone else to bring you fulfillment, you’re setting yourself up for even more struggle and discontent. Researcher Richard Lucas of Michigan State University and his colleagues examined data from a fifteen-year study involving 24,000 individuals to answer the question, “Are married people happier than unmarried people?” The study, published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, found that men and women who were happy before marriage scored highest on marital satisfaction tests. The report said, “Most people who get married and stay married were more satisfied with their lives than their non-married peers long before the marriage occurred.” The implication is clear: An individual’s life satisfaction trajectory will usually continue on the same path after marriage. That is, people content with their lives while unmarried stayed content after marriage. Happy people create happy marriages. Dudes you must undersand that been unhappy while single will not find marriage to be a magical cure-all for your dissatisfaction and discontent in life. Lastly; to have a smooth relationship with that special person in your heart; you need to have a spontaneous relationship with Jesus and be addicted in prayers; with this development both your joy and happiness shall be certain before and after marriage.

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I wasn't there when God created the world but I know that He blessed the earth. We can't doubt this especially when the golds, diamond, precious stones, crude oil, etc are there to bear witness that God did a perfect job on the earth. Mineral resources are viable enough to service an economy. As Nigerians, we cannot say that we are ignorant of this truth. Crude oil has done us some good and this is just one mineral resource discovered and tapped out of the abundant untapped resources! As it stands, we are yet to mine all the mineral resources abundant for our prosperity yet as a country, we are not poor. Again, I ask myself: where is the place of man in this picture? The core component of every man is his mind! A man's mind buries his life. You can improve your life by exploring and exploiting the deposits of your mind. More than one raw capacity is buried in your inside. How do I know this? God also did a perfect job in your creation and as He is, so are we! Approach one out of such deposits with a business mindset and your life can never remain the same. To sideline your mind power is to forfeit your life capacity. God wires success to us through our minds. The Holy Spirit is the spirit of a sound mind. That sound mind can create a sound life. What your mind buries can change your life. The problem is not that you are not endowed as much as the fact that you are not looking keenly in the direction of what can come out of your mind to change your life. I say to you, "you are a perfect representation of the awesomeness of God". God created you and in you are raw deposits of potentials. That's your energy! That's your power! It looks like a dirty hopeless crude oil down there but that's your petrol! That's your voice in the committee of great men. The message behind this is simple: "you can explore, extract, refine and serve those hidden abilities just with the slightest tap and be rewarded for your diligence and hardwork. If you are not creative, it is not because God wants you to remain that way; you have rather chosen to be satisfied with the level of life you are operating under. Your mind is a deep well; it gives out what you are willing to draw out of it. The substance in it can never finish. I have made up my mind to mine the deposits of my mind, not making room for waste. That's my goldmine! When I am done, I will certainly fix my price and even you will pay for it. "as a man thinks in his heart, so is he" ©ApPles of Gold #CAPTAIN "unleashing life principles with energizing content relevant for leadership and pursuit of purpose"

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WHAT WILL PEOPLE SAY? This one statement has killed and will continue to kill a lot of dreams that could have changed our world! It was Les Brown who said "the graveyard is the richest place on earth" how right he was and still is! Imagine for a minute that the person who had the cure to cancer died with his idea, because he was overly concerned with what people will say, what his parents or spouse or neighbors might think about his spending too much time researching...they will most likely call him mad and of course he wouldn't want that so he quit researching and resorted to living a 'normal' life and of course, died a normal person who we never got to hear about! My dear mentee, I have news for you, until you are doing something and are so passionate about it that the world calls you mad, then you haven't begun yet!!! Shocked? You shouldn't be! Thomas Edison, ha! "That guy who gave us the incandescent bulb huh?!" Clap for yourself, you know him! But how well do you know his story? It is only a mad man who will continue perfecting one idea 9,999 times until he broke through the 10,000th time! Do I need to tell you people called him mad? Imagine what would have happened if he listened to what people had to say and stopped working? Next case scenario, "Eureka" - you have heard the word or you may even use it, but do you know the story behind it? Well, if you did physics at O'level, you will have come across Archimedes principle...The exclamation 'Eureka!' is famously attributed to the ancient Greek scholar Archimedes. He reportedly proclaimed "Eureka! Eureka!" when he stepped into a bathtub of water and his body displaced a volume of water proportionate to his size, a previously intractable problem. He is said to have been so eager to share his discovery that he leapt out of his bathtub and ran through the streets of Syracuse naked! How else do you define madness? What people will say did not matter to him so long as he was making progress! My dear Mentee, you may say well these are far fetched examples, their world was different bla...bla...bla...okay, let us use an example that is close to you...look around you, whether it is in class/school you will realize that the best brains are usually the weird ones and they are the most talked about, they often tend to move alone but do they stop to care about what you and others think or say about them? No! While you people are busy talking, t he y are busy making good grades/ progress in their lives, leaving you all behind to continue backbiting! And you backbite because you are behind them...you don't backbite someone you're in front of! My dear Mentee, do you realize the difference between you and them? They chart their course, focus on their goal and work to achieve it. You on the other hand that is very concerned about 'what will people say'! What have you achieved? There are 3 questions I ask myself when embarking on a project: Is it right with God? Is my conscience clear? Is it line with my vision? If my answer to these questions are yes, then I go ahead to do it no matter who is saying what! If I were you I'd adopt this approach! My dear Mentee, there is a lot to say but I'm afraid you'd find this too lengthy, so I have to stop. Remember, if even Jesus was called mad, then don't expect to be exempt when you are on the right track! Until we talk again next Tuesday, Live...Love...L augh!

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“No Marriage is Perfect?” ************************** I was attending to a married woman in my consulting room sometime ago; as part of the required information, I asked if she suffers from domestic violence, whether her husband usually beat her or not and she said, “No, my husband does not beat me o, except for the normal once in a while slapping whenever I offend him”. That was the first time I would be hearing that there’s a form of beating that is normal. I have also heard men saying that there’s no how a woman will not nag. So some men have conditioned their mind to such negative attitudes. They would say that nagging and mood swing is part of menstrual symptoms, and therefore normal. Part of the few things I helped my fiancée (wife now) overcame during our courtship was the mood swing and this ‘innocent’ nagging… I refused to accept it as normal for a Christian to nag or have a mood that swings. I wasn’t authoritative about it but I made her see what Christ in her can do and it made all the difference. Each time I hear people, especially those who are still single telling themselves that there’s no perfect marriage, I usually feel really sorry or maybe pity for them. When you believe such statements and you accept it, you are simply setting up yourself for the type of marriage you do not deserve. Sincerely speaking, you deserve nothing less than a perfect marriage, but since nothing good comes so easily, you will be prepared to work to make it work. Now, this is my counsel, don’t set yourself up for an imperfect marriage life. You don’t have to endure your marriage when you can actually enjoy it. Probably you have seen or heard about so many imperfect and terrible marriages and pessimism has fallen on you, making you to begin doubt if your own marriage also will be any different. I have this to tell you, be optimistic and stop listening to the pessimistic utterances of failure from those who sank into the ocean of life while trying to sail to the sore of gold. The fact that they sank into the ocean of life does not mean that others did not successfully sailed to the sore of gold. For those who have had or having a failed marriage, all they will tell you is that there’s no perfect marriage. However, it will be wise of you to go study them so you can know why they are failing and then look around for the marriages that are working, find out also how they are making it work. More importantly, you can put in place the foundational structure on which your marriage will be built now that you are yet to marry. I will write about the most important foundation to lay before you enter into marriage, it will be the last article I will write on the courtship series. If you are yet to read the previous articles, please take time to read them. This one is the sixth one. I will stop on the seventh series. Ensure you’re in a relationship with the right person… preferably your friend or someone you can easily make friends with. This is very important. You don’t need someone who will be commanding you or punishing you as though they are your father or mother, you need a friend you can play with, who can correct you and still make you feel secure. In relationship, don’t be overwhelmed by emotions, don’t ignore negative attitudes… If you see any, address it calmly with wisdom. However, there are some negative attitudes that when you see, it will be an indication that you are courting either trouble or potential trouble. When you notice that the person you want to marry is cheating. You don’t have to continue in such relationship. You don’t need to ask questions whether you should quit or not, simply use your common sense. A cheating fiancé/fiancée will still be a cheating husband/wife. Such person is not a Christian because God does not have a sinning child. Marriage does not change much about people unless they have encounter with Jesus and get born again. Marriage will only change the nomenclature from fornication to adultery. That’s all. So, please act wise! Secondly, don’t take an angry or a nagging partner for granted. I’m sure you don’t deserve a lifetime relationship with such person. Let your partner know sincerely that it is wrong of them to get angry or nag at you. Anyone who raises his/her voice or shout at you while you are still unmarried will slap or beat you when you marry. Any habit taken into marriage multiplies, whether good or bad. Finally, go study how your partner relate with or treat his/her siblings and parents because very soon, that’s the same way he/she will start treating you and your parents. If you notice anything you are not comfortable with, don’t be sentimental, talk frankly about it. I can assure you that when you get things right in courtship or in your pre-wedding relationship, you will also get it right in marriage. I pray that your marriage will be an example of a perfect, emulate-able one in Jesus name. Amen.

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Lies That Makes Ladies Fall Into Premarital Sex . Yesterday, ladies who were naive or easy to be influenced had fallen into the deception of cunning men whose aim is to have premarital sex with them. Today, some of them don't learn from the mistake some made in the past and are still victims of premarital sex. Tomorrow, more ladies would be victims of premarital sex at their tender age because of the lies that was sold to them from the devil through subtle men. . Truth doesn't make you fall, it keeps you standing provided you're firmly rooted in it but lies will make you fall and you may not be able to recover from the consequences of the fall. . The best way to escape lies is to know the truth and discard the lies immediately you discover that it doesn't correlate with the truth. A second thought on lies will convince you into the act just as it did to Eve. . And mind you, lies can be sponsored by men or women and their sole intention is to deceive you if you're ignorant. . Do you know the popular lies that some ladies were told just to get them in bed? . 1. Your breast won't grow more than this if you don't have sex . For ladies who are not fortunate to have it big in their chest region, they suffer lots of intimidation from their girlfriends or boyfriends. You will be told that you need guys to help you press or massage it so that it would be bigger. . Is this medically or scripturally right? Never! How will a man fondle your breast and would one day not have sex with you? . Biologically, when a woman is lactating, her mammalian gland increases and the size of the breast increases to accommodate the production of milk for the baby. But if you allow this lie to lead you into what you're not prepared for, your destiny will be affected. . And scripturally, the lie holds no water. If you keep company with vain persons, they'll brainwash you with their mentality. Blessed is the woman that walks not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor stand in the way of sinners, nor sit on the seat of the scornful. . 2. You won't know what it takes to feel like a woman . What made you think it's sex that would make you feel like a woman? Having two breasts, a vagina, a womb and the ability to menstruate as at when due with the accompanying challenges doesn't make you less of a woman. . If you believe that sex would give you that womanly feeling, you want them to make you have a feel of bondage and sexual evils. . What gives a woman her womanly feeling is in her femininity, her ability to multitask, her understanding of her role in the life a man and that she's made to complement a man, not the otherwise; her indispensability, her ability to nurture seeds, not just sperm but everything that has the capacity to multiply. These and many more ought to give a woman that womanly feeling, not sex, sex and sex. . 3. No guy is interested in marrying ladies who are virgins . Yes there are many guys who are disinterested in marrying virgins because they themselves are not one and have believed that virgins aren't good in bed because of their inexposure. But the truth is that real men out there are so desirous of marrying one (virgins) if they're privileged to get one. . If you buy into this lie, you'll get more than being disflowered. You'll be exposed to the world of immoralities and your first time encounter with sex, either leaves you satisfied or dissatisfied. . If you enjoy it before marriage, you'll become an Oliver Twist if you do not conquer the urge. And if you are dissatisfied, it'll be a problem for you in marriage because the innocent man will have to do more to make you satisfied. . 4. What's the point of keeping it all these years when you're still single . You might be in your late twenties or mid-thirties and you're still a virgin and the pressure to be married is much. There would be internal voices of deception that would want you to sell off your virginity for that which is not. . It's better to lose your virginity for the right reason, for the right person and in the right environment. . Honestly, I know how hard it is for you to have kept yourself away from men. Don't give up! Just get a little more courage and hold onto God, He'll favor you soon provided you're doing His will. . 5. Virgins don't enjoy sex in marriage unless... . Who says that? . The best, exciting, adventurous and guiltless sex is obtained when two virgins engage in marital sex and they patiently enjoyed themselves during and after the act. . Why some virgins don't enjoy sex is because of their fears about sex or their partner's unwillingness in helping them to achieve orgasm before penetration. . Conquer your fears. Talk things out if you are engaged to be married. A real man won't ride his wife rough, he'll make love and not rape her. . If you allow them to break your hymen before marriage, your heart will be broken, your wall of defense will equally break and you'll be exposed to lots of issues about sexual immoralities or looseness. . 6. Sex makes you look fresh, chubby, happy and beautiful . This is a lie from the pit of hell. In fact, the devil is the major sponsor of this. . God says the marriage bed should be kept undefiled and someone else comes to tell you that premarital sex would make you look chubby, fresh and happy. . See, if you eat well, exercise properly and keep the right mindset about life, you will be glowing and dazzling in your natural beauty. . Although this may be true for married couple because they are no more one but two but as a single lady, get a life and be serious with God and your destiny. If you loiter around NFA friends, they'll feed you with junks that will put you life in a mess. . 7. If you don't get pregnant for me, I can't marry you . "How will I know that you'd be fertile in marriage? I can't take the risk of marrying you without testing your fertility". He brags like an undefeated champion. . Unfortunately, the poor lady, oftentimes most church goers won't know where to stand in the divide - whether to obey him and disobey God or do the reverse. Many ladies would be confused at this junction or be seeking for a validating advice. . See, I don't care if he will marry you for real, any man that uses sex to get you into marrying him is a fornicator and your acceptance of his offer makes you a fornicator that would attract God's judgment. . Premarital sex still remains an outright evil in God's sight even if all the world celebrates it. Ladies, buy the truth and sell it not. Don't let the devil get an advantage over you as he did to Eve. Don't take a second thought on lies. Discard it immediately otherwise you'll give it a consideration. Remember, you shall KNOW the TRUTH and the TRUTH shall SET you FREE!

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WHEN ARE YOU GETTING MARRIED? *Long Read I was with my parents over the weekend. It was a great time with them. Our conversations especially when I am about leaving them after a visit will end with a prayer. But this time a good part of the conversation centered on marriage and so was about 86% of the prayer on getting married from the right family and settling down well....Hmmmmm. You see, we all have this almighty question to answer now and then. In fact life in Nigeria is ideally viewed in a particular cycle: Birth - Go to School - Graduate from University - National Youth Service - Work or Business - Marriage and Children, and then Work Work, Business Business - Raise Children - Work Work, Business Business - Death I hope you can relate with that cycle When you are done, your children obviously will continue with the next cycle starting from where you started. Sometimes the Question, "when are you getting Married?" put lots of people under pressure. The second pressure after this is *the pressure to do a societal wedding or the best glamorous wedding people in your circle have ever seen So, 1. Some guys are pressured to borrow and do the wedding to impress and afterwards the young family spend their early months or years settling debts 2. The guy hurries to marry a lady he is yet to really know. The question again is how much can you really know someone? At least to the extent that you will not need a new introduction to your wife or husband after two weeks. Like "hi, this is my real me, the real spouse you married - forget about all those drama you saw before the wedding" # Speachless 3. The lady lets him in into the part of her that was meant to be reserved in a bid to make sure that doesn't delay the wedding. *You know what I mean. 4. The lady starts moving from one prayer house to the other in search for marital breakthrough. 5. The lady stops attending weddings only if compulsory. Because she wants to avoid that question that will likely come from an acquaintance "ehhen... Bukky, when are we coming for your own?" The list continues... Marriage is a good thing, and marrying early with a peaceful home afterwards is a great blessing. But while under the pressure, remember: 1. After the wedding, you will likely struggle to settle the debts alone. Them go just chop the rice, and do selfie with your magnificent reception venue and carry their bag go house. 2. You will be the first to reap the fruits of any decision you make concerning your future spouse - whether good or bad. All the people advising you to do do do, may not be there afterwards. Some of them will just go go go. 3. Do your wedding according to the resources God has made available. Impress your wife afterwards at home. Don't give everybody fried Rice during the wedding and sip garri two weeks latter. 4. Your prospective marital relationship should not sabotage your values. Don't compromise your godly values because of the pressure of loosing him. 5. You see, enjoy your life every inch. Don't let anybody make mockery of your single life. Go to events if you have to. The question "When are your getting married?" will come, and when it does just smile and say "Very Soon" Is it not that simple? # Smiles Avoiding public appearance is not a solution. Who knows if he or she will be found in your next public appearance. Enjoy your life, and appreciate God for every phase. Ermmmmmm....My parents are still expectant and I won't fall their hands.

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5 Things Love Cannot Be Blind To . There's a popular saying in this part of the world that love is blind. Honestly, I don't know the philosopher behind this saying or the relationship guru that postulated it as a fact. But unfortunately, it's becoming a national anthem sung by ignorant singles. . Many people who knew nothing about love would just swallow this phrase hook, line and sinker. And when they get into marriage, their eyes would be open to lots of things they were blind to. . How can you fall in love at first sight or say love is blind when you no next to nothing about the person - past, dreams, shortcomings, pursuit and you're yet to agree on the major issues of life? . Know this, love cannot be blind to... . 1. Character . No matter how much you're intoxicated by love, a bad character will be repulsive and can never be tolerated. Do not think love would make someone with a bad character change. They can only pretend for a while but not forever. . If he raises his voice at you or bangs the table when he's angry, be sure that in marriage, it'll graduate to verbal insult and domestic violence. . When she's keeping things as a secret from you, just know that you'd be in for surprises when you enter into the marriage on the premise that love is blind. . 2. Place of worship . Love cannot be blind to the place where you both worship. If your church believes in orthodox practices, it'll be difficult to marry someone who's pentecostal in their own belief. . An unresolved issue of the place of worship would affect your union, whose religious practice the children follow and if care isn't taken, it'll pull the relationship in asunder. This is why you must ensure that you don't just choose someone you like, let God lead you to the one He has prepared for you. . 3. Purpose . When God brought Eve to Adam, he wasn't blind to what her role was in his life. Adam was doing something and he knew what she was going to do in his life. . Love cannot be blind to what you are to do in his life or what she is to do in your life. If you don't know God's purpose for your lives, your marriage will be like every other marriages - sex, make babies, live together as husband and wife, become parents and then grandparents. No impact in the society. . Do you know if he knows God's purpose for his life? If he doesn't, you'll have no role to play in his life. And if you as a lady doesn't know where you fit-in in his life, he'll abuse your role in his life. . 4. Roles and Obligations . Husbands and wives have their different roles and obligations to play in the making of a successful marriage. Love cannot be blind to this fact. . It's not the duty of the woman to lead the family to pray, make important decisions, take the largest part in the financial administration of the marriage. No, women weren't made to be breadwinner. If by situation it happens, the man needs to man up and own up to his responsibilitie s. . I heard a testimony of a man who at the time of marriage, his wife to be earns more than him. But since it was God that joined them together, He went back to Him for a miracle and He did. . But boys in men's appearance will sit back and push the whole financial weight of the relationship on the woman. So my dear, if this is the kind of man you perceive you're with, don't let your love be blind. . Ladies, if you're the only one adding to the table without him making signs or efforts to support or show willingness to make progress, you'll be the husband of the family. . More so, it is not the primary role of a man to make meals or build the home; it's a wise woman's obligation. If you discover that she doesn't have what it takes to build the home, look before you leap because love won't do it in marriage. . 5. Religion . Can two walk together except they be agreed? Disagreement between your religion is an issue love cannot be blind to or solve, agreement does. If a believer of Christ marries an unbeliever, such relationship cannot stand the test of time and even if it does, it's a violation of divine laws. . Note, love cannot change an unbeliever, the highest he or she can do is to pretend to believe in what you practice and when you end up in marriage, what they believe in will influence their life and relationship. . An unbeliever is a no-go area in marriage. Don't think love will be blind to it. That it worked for others doesn't mean it'll work for you. It's better to do what is right than to do what is wrong that others are doing. . Do you believe love is blind? Don't let the aforementioned points ruin it in marriage.

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The Process of SEX...Part one out of three... # ListenUpNG ..... Allow me to start with some crazy thoughts 1.Telling us not to have sex w/out teaching how to manage our emotions is to give out chocolates to a child and declaring a fast #ListenUpNG 2 How do you hope to stop a natural process of sex without explaining any practical way to manage the urge. People go faint o! #ListenUpNG 3 I grew up in church & I was told, beware of "Agents of fornication." As a teen, when my sex urge started, I became the witch #ListenUpNG 4 I was more prone to the lady in the choir robe than the skirt of the harlot. My wrong assumptions was part of the process #ListenUpNG 5 The house of my safety became the house of seduction. They separated boys from girls but our emotions were let loose #ListenUpNG 6 The doctrine of avoid the opposite sex only fuelled curiosity. If parents had explained why, we would have managed the process #ListenUpNG 7 Pornography had kicked in before teen days. Sex was delayed but the culture of corruption had begun... only a matter of time #ListenUpNG 8 Breasts and laps on free display got trapped by bulging eyes. I was a Christian but I was a disaster waiting to happen #ListenUpNG 9 Nobody told me that purity began with the mind. I padlocked my penis but I gave the keys to the devil. Don't I look like you? #ListenUpNG 10 If the man is a male dog, what happens when the female dog is not on heat? Will he sleep with his daughter or Grandma ? #ListenUpNG 11 The sex process became an excuse for abuse, rape, and masturbation. No zoo could contain the rampaging animals. #ListenUpNG 12 I saw that nobody was spared from the grunts of immorality. Not David, not Solomon, not ... so why would God expect holiness #ListenUpNG 13 I had to think of a solution. I didnt want to work for heaven & end in hell cos of 5 min fun. Is sexual purity still possible?#ListenUpNG 14. If a woman in adultery could be told, "Go and sin no more," I had to find a practical answer to the passion of sex. Do you? #ListenUpNG 15. They said, Virginity is an ancient disease & guys are to pull it down. Do you know sexual defilement is rooted in culture #ListenUpNG 16 "Close your legs. Sit well" Have you ever heard a mother say that to her son? The seed of defilement can begin at home. #ListenUpNG 17 "Sir, now that they've all given us condoms in this sex education class, can we practise with your wife," the eager boy asked #ListenUpNG 18 Feeding a fowl from January to Dec. is not a show of care. It is a process. The immorality during Christmas began at Easter #ListenUpNG 19 "She fell into fornication @19 years" No Madam! No Oga! "she began to fall into fornication @ 5years old" #ListenUpNG 20 "That wicked 40 year old man raped the girl," No Ma! No Sir! He has been raping girls in his mind since he was 8. #ListenUpNG

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Is there any benefit in male virginity? Sir, I have a question to ask you about male virginity. I have observed that female virginity is accorded more attention or better put, more importance than that of males. We have heard countless reasons why a female must maintain and keep her virginity. Now my question is, what does a boy, man, or guy benefit from being chaste? Would your wife appreciate it when you finally tie the knot? Needless to say I am one of them. Thanks. My RESPONSE: Male virginity, I love this. I was a twenty-seven-ye ar-old virgin when I got married. My wife was also a virgin. Does virginity, whether male or female, accord benefits? Yes. Let me share one. On my wedding night, I had sex for the first time. It was November 4, 2000. That night, I had nothing to compare the experience with. I couldn't say it was better than sex with Ngozi, or the same as sex with Ruth, or any other lady in the world. No conflict existed in my mind. My wife couldn’t compare me with some dude or playboy. That night with Tonye, my one and only wife, was great sex not better sex and I didn’t have to compare our sex life with various pornography styles. This is the beauty of virginity––a clean heart and a clean mind. We are having even better sex after fifteen years of practise with one another and our bed, by God’s grace, remains undefiled. ( Yes! Fifteen years anniversary celebration is a few days time!!!) My brother, There was no intruder into our temples before we consummated our marriage, and there has been none ever since. Like Adam and Eve, we have been naked and not ashamed. This does not mean I didn't have my struggles with sex. I got born again at sixteen, attended university of Benin, was a leader on campus, and I had my fair share of exposures to very fine babes (in and out of church fellowships). I had narrow escapes and was only saved by grace and mercies of God. I struggled with masturbation, until Christ gave me victory. I battled with lust and thoughts of evil. I confronted fatal attractions and sometimes, I lost some battles. Nevertheless, Christ gave me victory. He taught me the principles of sexual purity. I learnt the path and the power of God. Above all, I learnt, "NEVER TEMPT TEMPTATION." I have documented all these and more, in my book, SEXUAL PURITY, IS IT STILL POSSIBLE, and my courtship novel, BROKEN BONES. But hear me, If guys are supposed to be sex experts on their wedding nights, who would they have practised with? If ladies are supposed to be virgins on their wedding nights, who gave practice sessions to the guys? If guys seek to marry only virgins, who will marry the ladies they had practised with earlier? The answers to these questions should guide the way we relate with each other. Therefore, young guy, please do not leave virginity to the ladies alone. Please, defend and keep your virginity. Today, I give you a charge. Rise up to be a true man. Defend "our little" sister around you. Don't take advantage of her. If she seduces you, be a Joseph. If she bathes naked, tell her your name is not David. If she allures you like Delilah, tell her that a greater than Samson lives in you. My friend, no more excuses. Our ladies are tired of broken men with empty trousers! God bless all the virgins reading this article, male and female, Amen. Thanks for sharing. Tag your friends on this post, and help me spread this word.

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“To Me, Sex Is a Game” During the conducting of a research on youth sexuality by our organization, we encountered a young boy aged 15 years. These are excerpts from the discussion we had with him. RIGHT SEXUALITY: Do you stay with your parents? Alex: No, I stay with my elder brother who works with a shore company that imports goods into the country. RIGHT SEXUALITY: When did you started having sex? Alex: In 2004, when I was in JSS 2 and 12 year old. RIGHT SEXUALITY: Who taught you how to have sex? Alex: My elder brother. He also had pornographic magazines and films, of which I read and watched. I also watch them with girls before we start having sex. To me sex is a game. He also taught me how to smoke. He said smoking will make me strong. This reason made me indulge in smoking. I don’t smoke Nigeria cigarette, I smoke the imported big ones he brought from his journey. I started smoking at the age of fifteen. RIGHT SEXUALITY: Do you have girl friends? Alex: No, I don’t have. RIGHT SEXUALITY: Then how do you come about the girls? Alex: They just come to my house to play with me. RIGHT SEXUALITY: Do they ask you for sex? Alex: Yes they do. I do ask for it also. Some times even if I don’t ask, they will suddenly pull off their clothes in my presence to seduce me; of which I succumb. RIGHT SEXUALITY: How many girls have you slept with? Alex: I’ve lost count. Some are older than me, but I’m older than some. RIGHT SEXUALITY: Has any of them gotten pregnant? Alex: Two of the ladies told me they were pregnant, but I rejected the pregnancy. A medical test was conducted which indicated that I was not the owner of the pregnancy. At the end of the interview, He was lead to Jesus Christ. To God be the glory. Parents, this question is for you- what are you doing about empowering your children unto right sexuality? If you don’t train them, somebody out there will feed them with evil information about sex. Be wise.

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Ladies, Sex isn't enough... It's possible for any man to ask for sex in a relationship, but is left for you as a lady to know that sex, can't keep him..( Sex isn't enough) There are two major factors ladies complain about sex in a relationship: √ After giving him my body he left me.. √ He left because I refused to have sex with him.. NOTE: Both those who gave and those who refused to give are complaining... ( Whats the difference) Ladies Listen, Sex isn't enough, its not the only thing you can offer a man. If You Don't Have Anything To Offer A Man Outside Sex, Please remain Single... A man can't stay with you because his having sex with you.... Relationship is not buying and selling. There are much to life than Monkey style, Doggy style, Missionary style, Apple n juice style, step pillows style, etc ... Are you sound intellectually? Spiritually? Physically? Mentally? Emotionally? Men love intelligent ladies... Men love ladies with ideas.. Men love respectful ladies... Sex is very cheap these days, anybody can buy it. You need to build yourself beyond sex. Leave make ups and be a productive lady. Men are looking for ladies with ideas and solution not those who paint their faces with different colours. What a man wants is beauty with brain not make ups with boobs or hips....