Ember The Gender Bender @emberthegenderbender - Tumblr Blog

This is my main blog, home of all my personal content and only my content.

It is generally sfw. There may be the occasional underwear pic at most (always censored), but I'd like to keep my poetry accessible for all ages, so I'll keep those few and far between. Keep in mind though, I am an adult, so if you are a kid, I will not answer DMs. You may speak with me via asks, but they will be public.

For adults, let's keep the asks sfw. DM's are for anything you'd like and I'm open to flirting. Beware though, my wife @skeletalhorse is better than you and will always come first.

I have set up a poetry queue through the end of the year at least, new posts every Friday at 10am CST. Be sure to check in then if you like my stuff 💜

Other content that I love and interact with can be found on my secondary blog

Secondary blog for emberthegenderbender.tumblr.com This one's for reblogs and stuff I like

If you find that you like what I like or are looking for your own works that I've shared, feel free to follow me there!

skeletalhorse

Jumped ahead to the "sitting in a rocking chair on the front porch on a Sunday" type of life 💗

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Don't forget the bird watching. It's a crucial step in growing old.

#my wife #lesbians #my love

Had the inlaws over today. Came out to them. Last people in my personal life to come out to. They seemed to handle it really well. We'll see when my mother-in-law calls my wife in a couple days to vent all her well-meaning worries at her 😅

Bonus: new dress and hat for the summer!

#trans #transgender #lgbtq #lesbian #queer #me #coming out

skeletalhorse

Ate at a new Indian restaurant and then went to a bar last night with a girlfriend 💗 we do actually have friends we hang out with! 😂

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#my wife #she's so pretty #look at her #LOOK AT HER

If I could just beat myself with a hammer to achieve the body I want you better believe I'd get to swinging yesterday.

#poetry #trans #transgender #trans poetry #lgbtq #writing #E.V.E.

My thoughts on conversion therapy

Burnt Out

Heat so thick the air casts shadows

Rippling reminiscent, almost mocking

As if waves upon the surface of a pool

Skin sweat slick, shirt Rorschach stained

A salt tableau, ice interlocking

Arctic daydreams, lust for air which cools

What wrong we've wrought upon ourselves

That labor ceases not, for coin, our liesure lives defrocking

Sense sacrificed to sate the greed of fools

#poem #poetry #love my job #hate capitalism #it's too fucking hot!

Twins doing twin things.

#cats #twins #polly #phil

Pride Month starting off right over Louisiana! Going to tell all the conservatives that it's a sign God is gay!

#pride month #lgbtqia+#transgender #lesbian #queer

I kind of hate the whole, I killed my past self concept of transness. As a metaphor it's interesting, but it has too many problematic connotations to our broken society who sees us as having taken away a parents child or a friend or loved one or whatever. And to really pull it apart, I did not kill my past self. I am the same me I have always been. I just stopped hiding myself. I look a little different and I feel a lot better, but this is who I have always been. The past me was a mask I took off, not a person I killed.

#trans #transgender #LgbTqia+

Cue Dennis Reynolds ranting about skin.

#poetry #transgender #trans #trans poetry #lgbtq #writing #E.V.E.

Thinking about releasing new poems not already in my queue in-between the Friday drops. Hate writing new stuff and not getting to share it with y'all for a whole year. My phone broke today though, so things will have to wait until my new one arrives and I can get it all set up; hopefully that happens tomorrow because I desperately need it for work and to talk to my wife while I'm stranded in Louisiana.

Polly is always greedy for the cuddles!