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"𝓣𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓮'𝓼 𝓪 𝓭𝓲𝓯𝓯𝓮𝓻𝓮𝓷𝓬𝓮 𝓸𝓷𝓵𝔂 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓬𝓪𝓷 𝓶𝓪𝓴𝓮."

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I think I'm catching a fever. My throat hurts, the sun is almost tearing my eyes and my nose is runny

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"𝓢𝓸 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓹𝓻𝓲𝓷𝓬𝓮𝓼𝓼 𝓭𝓪𝓷𝓬𝓮𝓭 𝓸𝓷 𝓮𝓪𝓬𝓱 𝓸𝓯 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓼𝓹𝓮𝓬𝓲𝓪𝓵 𝓼𝓽𝓸𝓷𝓮𝓼 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓷, 𝓸𝓷 𝓽𝓱𝓮 12𝓽𝓱 𝓸𝓷𝓮, 𝓼𝓱𝓮 𝓽𝔀𝓲𝓻𝓵𝓮𝓭 3 𝓽𝓲𝓶𝓮𝓼. 𝓐𝓷𝓭 𝓪 𝓼𝓮𝓬𝓻𝓮𝓽 𝓭𝓸𝓸𝓻 𝓸𝓹𝓮𝓷𝓮𝓭." 𝓦𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓮 𝓭𝓲𝓭 𝓲𝓽 𝓰𝓸?" 𝓚𝓪𝓽𝓱𝓵𝓮𝓮𝓷 𝓪𝓼𝓴𝓮𝓭 𝓬𝓾𝓻𝓲𝓸𝓾𝓼𝓵𝔂. 𝓖𝓮𝓷𝓮𝓿𝓲𝓮𝓿𝓮 𝓯𝓵𝓲𝓹𝓹𝓮𝓭 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓼𝓮𝓬𝓸𝓷𝓭 𝓹𝓪𝓰𝓮 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓬𝓸𝓷𝓽𝓲𝓷𝓾𝓮𝓭 𝓽𝓸 𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓭. "𝓼𝓱𝓮 𝔀𝓪𝓵𝓴𝓮𝓭 𝓽𝓱𝓻𝓸𝓾𝓰𝓱 𝓪 𝓰𝓵𝓸𝔀𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓵𝓲𝓰𝓱𝓽 𝓲𝓷𝓽𝓸 𝓪 𝓶𝓪𝓰𝓲𝓬 𝓵𝓪𝓷𝓭. 𝓦𝓲𝓽𝓱 𝓽𝓻𝓮𝓮𝓼 𝓸𝓯 𝓼𝓲𝓵𝓿𝓮𝓻 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓰𝓸𝓵𝓭! 𝓯𝓵𝓸𝔀𝓮𝓻𝓼 𝓶𝓪𝓭𝓮 𝓸𝓯 𝓳𝓮𝔀𝓮𝓵𝓼." 𝓐𝓬𝓻𝓸𝓼𝓼 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓵𝓪𝓴𝓮 𝔀𝓪𝓼 𝓪 𝓰𝓸𝓵𝓭𝓮𝓷 𝓹𝓪𝓿𝓲𝓵𝓲𝓸𝓷. 𝓣𝓱𝓮 𝓹𝓻𝓲𝓷𝓬𝓮𝓼𝓼 𝓭𝓪𝓷𝓬𝓮𝓭 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓭𝓪𝓷𝓬𝓮𝓭 𝓽𝓸 𝓱𝓮𝓻 𝓱𝓮𝓪𝓻𝓽'𝓼 𝓬𝓸𝓷𝓽𝓮𝓷𝓽. 𝓢𝓱𝓮 𝔀𝓪𝓷𝓽𝓮𝓭 𝓽𝓸 𝓼𝓽𝓪𝔂 𝓯𝓸𝓻𝓮𝓿𝓮𝓻, 𝓫𝓾𝓽 𝓽𝓱𝓪𝓽 𝔀𝓪𝓼 𝓷𝓸𝓽 𝓽𝓸 𝓫𝓮. 𝓣𝓱𝓮 𝓶𝓪𝓰𝓲𝓬 𝓵𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓿𝓪𝓷𝓲𝓼𝓱𝓮𝓭 𝓪𝓯𝓽𝓮𝓻 𝓽𝓱𝓮 3𝓻𝓭 𝓷𝓲𝓰𝓱𝓽. 𝓣𝓱𝓮 𝓹𝓻𝓲𝓷𝓬𝓮𝓼𝓼 𝔀𝓪𝓼 𝓱𝓮𝓪𝓻𝓽𝓫𝓻𝓸𝓴𝓮𝓷, 𝓾𝓷𝓽𝓲𝓵 𝓼𝓱𝓮 𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓵𝓲𝔃𝓮𝓭 𝓼𝓱𝓮 𝓫𝓻𝓸𝓾𝓰𝓱𝓽 𝓼𝓸𝓶𝓮 𝓶𝓪𝓰𝓲𝓬 𝓫𝓪𝓬𝓴 𝔀𝓲𝓽𝓱 𝓱𝓮𝓻. 𝓐𝓷𝓭 𝓲𝓽 𝔀𝓪𝓼 𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓼 𝓽𝓸 𝓴𝓮𝓮𝓹 𝓯𝓸𝓻𝓮𝓿𝓮𝓻." 𝓐𝓯𝓽𝓮𝓻 𝓯𝓲𝓷𝓲𝓼𝓱𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓭𝓲𝓷𝓰, 𝓖𝓮𝓷𝓮𝓿𝓲𝓮𝓿𝓮 𝓬𝓵𝓸𝓼𝓮𝓭 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓫𝓸𝓸𝓴. "𝓦𝓱𝓪𝓽 𝓴𝓲𝓷𝓭 𝓸𝓯 𝓶𝓪𝓰𝓲𝓬?" 𝓛𝓪𝓬𝓮𝔂 𝓪𝓼𝓴𝓮𝓭. 𝓗𝓸𝔀 𝓭𝓲𝓭 𝓼𝓱𝓮 𝓭𝓸 𝓲𝓽?" 𝓙𝓪𝓷𝓮𝓼𝓼𝓪 𝓪𝓼𝓴𝓮𝓭 𝓪𝓼𝔀𝓮𝓵𝓵. 𝓖𝓮𝓷𝓮𝓿𝓲𝓮𝓿𝓮 𝓵𝓸𝓸𝓴𝓮𝓭 𝓪𝓽 𝓼𝓸𝓶𝓮 𝓹𝓪𝓰𝓮𝓼 𝓸𝓯 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓫𝓸𝓸𝓴 𝓽𝓸 𝓯𝓲𝓷𝓭 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓪𝓷𝓼𝔀𝓮𝓻. "𝓗𝓶𝓶. 𝓘𝓽 𝓭𝓸𝓮𝓼𝓷'𝓽 𝓼𝓪𝔂." 𝓖𝓮𝓷𝓮𝓿𝓲𝓮𝓿𝓮 𝓼𝓪𝓲𝓭 𝔀𝓱𝓲𝓵𝓮 𝓬𝓵𝓸𝓼𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓫𝓸𝓸𝓴.

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[theambitiouswoman]

Being positive doesn’t mean you don’t have negative thoughts. It just means you don’t let those thoughts control your life

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“I can’t help how I feel” yeah you can

Feelings are natural but how you respond to them is within your control. Not to mention that your feelings don’t always mean what you think they mean. Butterflies and chemistry don’t necessarily mean connection. It’s your nervous system responding to a similar pattern it recognizes

You can shape your feelings by changing your perspective. Managing your thoughts. Regulating your body and even taking action. Feelings follow behavior. Acting differently will shift your emotions

Saying “I can’t help how I feel” keeps you stuck. A better mindset? “I can work on how I respond to what I feel.”

If you don’t like how you feel or the result of those feelings, why would you want to remain stuck in that pattern?

You feel that you can’t help how you feel because you are probably operating on autopilot, reacting from past wounds or letting emotions dictate your reality instead of questioning them

The more you work on yourself, how you “feel” about certain situations changes because you will shift your perspective, interests, emotional regulation and self worth

Please this doesn’t mean you won’t feel—it means you’ll interpret & handle emotions differently because you’ve changed from the inside out

Everything is a learning experience, our relationship dynamics (all types of relationships) are our best teachers

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I am pastel not shades of grey, no winter months I'm moods of may.

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I hope this spring is kind to us, I hope we heal and bloom.

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How we love ourselves is how we teach others to love us — Examples of self love in action

Imagine you have a friend who constantly cancels plans last minute. If you don’t value your time and just accept it, they’ll keep doing it. But if you love yourself enough to say, “Hey, I value my time, and I’d appreciate a heads up if you can’t make it,” you set a boundary. That teaches them to be more considerate of you

If you criticize yourself a lot—saying things like “I’m so dumb” or “I’ll never be good enough”—people around you will subconsciously believe it’s okay to talk to you that way. But if you speak about yourself with kindness and confidence others will mirror that and treat you with more respect

If you settle for breadcrumbs in dating—accepting minimal effort, inconsistency, or lack of emotional availability—you’re showing that you don’t require more. But if you love yourself enough to walk away from half hearted connections, you teach others that being with you requires genuine care and effort

Imagine your partner frequently pushes your boundaries, whether it’s pressuring you to do something you’re uncomfortable with or disregarding your needs. If you let it slide, they’ll keep doing it. But if you love yourself enough to say, “I need my boundaries to be respected, or this won’t work for me,” you teach them that your comfort and limits are non negotiable

Let's say you text someone and they consistently take days to respond while being active elsewhere. If you continue engaging as if nothing is wrong, they’ll keep deprioritizing you. But if you love yourself enough to match their energy—or disengage completely—you teach them that your presence is a privilege, not an afterthought

If you have a coworker who constantly gossips and tries to drag you into negative conversations. If you engage, they’ll assume you’re okay with it. But if you love yourself enough to say, “I prefer to keep things positive and professional,” you teach them to respect your values and boundaries

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Goodnight kisses

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Goodnight snowflakes x

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Princess sugar plum dancing and twirling in the dimmed light

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Can't wait to live alone and shamelessly wear pretty lingerie everynight 🤍

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If you feel like talking, you may always send me a dm 🤍

♡ you can contact me on Instagram @coquetteballerina