Hi there! I wanted to know, as an ENFP did you feel like not fitting in? Growing up I felt like even though I had friends I was pretty different. When I was a kid I felt I was so special, everyone liked me and I had a high self esteem (even though I have never had a BIG group of friends), then in my teen years I just wanted to be like everyone else sooo I stoped liking the little things that made me different. Im 25 now so the need to be like everyone else is gone. How was it for you?
Hi, nice to meet a fellow ENFP! Yes, I understand how you feel! Growing up, I also didn’t feel like I fit in. I was quite popular and had a fairly high self-esteem in areas of interest/skill but in my teen years I tried very hard to fit in. I never stopped liking the things that made me different, but I always struggled with them, seeing them as obstacles to having a circle of friends rather than as what attracted people to me.Coincidentally, I’m also 25 this year and I’ve decided that I will NOT live up to others expectations of what I should be like. Not even my family or friends. I will be myself and have genuine social interactions with the world. No more hiding. By shining your unique light, you’re inspiring and influencing more people than you realise. Find your purpose, and you’ll embrace what makes you unique :)











