How to know if an enfp likes you? (romantically)
ENFPs are known for their warm attitude towards people, and they sure do live up to their reputation, no matter which kind of person they are with, they always seem at ease. With that I mean that itās sometimes quite difficult to tell the difference between their natural interest in people and a more serious, romance-oriented one. But some good signs your ENFP is interested are:
They try to spend as much time with you as possible. Especially if they donāt usually do it, for example if you share a class or just meet at the gym, they will try to increase the time you two are together by suggesting activities for the two of you to do, but in a casual way. See the next point to understand better what I mean with that.
They listen a lot and pay close atention. ENFPs Iāve met talk a lot, and about almost everything, their minds always jumping from the first interesting thing they see to the second. But if they stop their race to pay atention to what you have to say, they are interested. Every ENFP with a crush Iāve seen looks so focused on what the other person is saying, itās heartwarming the fascinated look they have. Regarding what I said above, they will use this knowledge to spend more time with you. For example, my ENFP friend started a band with the person she liked because they both played in the same musical school, so even though most ENFP are more casual about this, they can also be pretty extreme. Also, you will probably feel what you say provokes a reaction in them.
Touch, smiles, proximity. They like to feel they are close to the person they like, so expect a lot of physical contact and less distance between them and you.Ā
Jokes, wit and showing off. Is your ENFP trying to sound extra smart or witty? Then they are probably trying to impress you. They also do it with their wit, my ENFP friend would joke around her crush, and tease them playfully. They want to look funny and cool. Showing off also means they will try to make an impresion on you by showing how good with people they are-even if they ignore you while they speak with other people, they will later look at you with an expression that almost says āHave you seen that? Amazing, isnāt it?āĀ
The way they look at you. Even if you donāt notice, Iām sure people around you will. Itās a special look they give to people they like, a slight smile that grows wider at certain moments, their eyes wide open and focused on the other person, a fascinated look that looks really really pure.
Also remember there are differences from person to person. Either way, I hope you find them useful :)