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hello and welcome! To the home of our cringey meyers-briggs relationship blog. Here you will find me, Flor(a) (she/they) (enfp) @cataclysmicartforms and my lovely partner Joseph (he/him) (infp) @witchessabbatuponbrocken

We’re an aesthetic, meyers-briggs and poetry blog.

-thnx, Flor

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ENFP: I'm so lucky to have a friend like you, INFP. Whenever things get tough, you’re always there with a heart full of love and a hard drive full of memes.

INFP: Thank

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How to know if an enfp likes you? (romantically)

ENFPs are known for their warm attitude towards people, and they sure do live up to their reputation, no matter which kind of person they are with, they always seem at ease. With that I mean that it’s sometimes quite difficult to tell the difference between their natural interest in people and a more serious, romance-oriented one. But some good signs your ENFP is interested are:

They try to spend as much time with you as possible. Especially if they don’t usually do it, for example if you share a class or just meet at the gym, they will try to increase the time you two are together by suggesting activities for the two of you to do, but in a casual way. See the next point to understand better what I mean with that.

They listen a lot and pay close atention. ENFPs I’ve met talk a lot, and about almost everything, their minds always jumping from the first interesting thing they see to the second. But if they stop their race to pay atention to what you have to say, they are interested. Every ENFP with a crush I’ve seen looks so focused on what the other person is saying, it’s heartwarming the fascinated look they have. Regarding what I said above, they will use this knowledge to spend more time with you. For example, my ENFP friend started a band with the person she liked because they both played in the same musical school, so even though most ENFP are more casual about this, they can also be pretty extreme. Also, you will probably feel what you say provokes a reaction in them.

Touch, smiles, proximity. They like to feel they are close to the person they like, so expect a lot of physical contact and less distance between them and you.

Jokes, wit and showing off. Is your ENFP trying to sound extra smart or witty? Then they are probably trying to impress you. They also do it with their wit, my ENFP friend would joke around her crush, and tease them playfully. They want to look funny and cool. Showing off also means they will try to make an impresion on you by showing how good with people they are-even if they ignore you while they speak with other people, they will later look at you with an expression that almost says “Have you seen that? Amazing, isn’t it?”

The way they look at you. Even if you don’t notice, I’m sure people around you will. It’s a special look they give to people they like, a slight smile that grows wider at certain moments, their eyes wide open and focused on the other person, a fascinated look that looks really really pure.

Also remember there are differences from person to person. Either way, I hope you find them useful :)

-Laura

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Soft ENFPxINFP Suggestions

ENFP talking nonstop about their dreams and ambitions while INFP happily listens silently, being cuddled in ENFP’s lap, occasionally humming in agreement and content to letting ENFP have the spotlight in talking while they take the backseat in the conversation

ENFP in return, listening to and encouraging INFP’s spontaneous outbursts. ENFP just thinks INFP is cute when they rant because out of everything INFP chooses to expend their anger and emotions on, it’s because of their favorite book character dying, or because of the rude ass woman who took the last carton of eggs at the store,

Staying indoors and listening to quiet instrumental music and the outside stormy rain

Late night feelings jams over hot chocolate that can easily last for hours

So many inside jokes shared between the two. So many

ENFP easily getting INFP to open up more while INFP can easily get ENFP to laugh with memes and charming humor

Comfortable silences and cuddles under a warm blanket

Hand holding anytime, any place.

ENFP grabs for INFP’s hand when excited, leading the way to their next adventure together. INFP grabs ENFP’s hand for reassurance, such as when heading into a very crowded area or when they just want to feel ENFP’s energy, wanting to make sure that yes, they’re real, and they’re the greatest thing to have ever stumbled into your life