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@eni-eichhorn
''People who lacked emotional engagement in childhood, men and women alike, often can’t believe that someone would want to have a relationship with them just because of who they are. They believe that if they want closeness, they must play a role that always puts the other person first.''
-Lindsay C. Gibson, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
people pleasers be like, "OH MY GOD IM SUCH A BAD PERSON. I SHOULD BE NICER TO PEOPLE. I DONT DESERVE LOVE. I'VE DONE TERRIBLE THINGS!" and all they did was tell the waiter that they got the wrong order.
The mother's injuries are to be handed down to the daughter. The mother's failures are to be paid for by the daughter. The mother's unhappiness is to be the daughter's unhappiness. It's as if the umbilical cord had never been cut.
Autumn Sonata, 1978 (dir. Ingmar Bergman)
I know I’d be so much happier if I hadn’t gone through all that shit
how can this bitch (me) be independent to the point of loneliness and yet so helpless at the same time
Forgive Parents
Friendly reminder that "I bought you nice things", "I gave you food and a roof over your head" and "I've never hit/physically hurt you" does not justify emotional abuse, neglect or parentification.
And if when being confronted they make you feel guilty and get defensive and passive aggressive saying some variant of "Oh well I must've been such a terrible parent!" and tell you how they bought you nice things for your birthdays and how your basic needs were met, that does not make your feelings and trauma invalid. You're not a bad person or ungrateful for feeling hurt.
and i'm going to.
I hate how deeply I crave affection and intimacy but how quickly I run from it. I hate that I wasn't loved in the way that I needed as a kid. I hate that I don't know how to be loved now
If you need me I’ll be curled up with a pint of Ben & Jerry’s
It was great working with the medical on call team again but… I’m not about that life 🙆🏽♀️
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