Can you give me hook up tips I feel like I'm not sexy enough
#1 you are sexy enough! Like that is what you need to work on. Maybe buy a new dress, start working out, or find a new hobby. The sexiest thing is confidence! Also if a guy is choosing to hook up with you he definitely thinks you are sexy :)
#2 I don’t really approach guys but I’m a pretty happy sociable person especially when I’m drunk. Like I will legit be carefree dancing all over the place. And I guess that’s attractive. Also at house parties you can ask your friends to introduce you to guys or just go up to them yourself. If that’s not your scene tinder works in a pinch. Definitely less intimidating than going to a bar and probably more effective lol
#3 breaking the touch barrier is very sexy. I honestly am really quick to break the touch barrier when I’m drunk and it sends the wrong message sometimes lol. But seriously so effective. It’s probably 90% effective for me. Just lightly touching the arm or the shoulder should do the trick. My favorite move when we are bar hopping is to ask for a piggy back ride. I also sometimes hold hands for emphasis. It comes naturally to me so I’m probably not explaining it right but I’m sure there are articles on it.
#4 when hanging out with a guy I always let him make the first move. I usually play it pretty coy and sometimes I act downright apathetic? Like I’m not sure it’s effective at all but it works for me. I think it’s because guys like a chase? Like I’m not rude or anything and I’m definitely pleasant. It’s not even on purpose lol. Some of these guys are boring af even if they are good in bed. Also a lot of guys like to talk about themselves. I usually let them. I’ll interject and tease a little but I mostly dgaf lol
#5 I’m not sure if I’m lucky but almost every guy I’ve been with spends a lot of time pleasing me. I actually really like giving blowjobs so I legit have to beg to suck their dicks and they usually find it pretty hot. I think the most important part of giving a blowjob is enjoying it. Also eye contact occasionally. You should actually suck his penis. Especially at the head. Also don’t forget his balls. I usually suck on them a little and then when I move to his dick I squeeze and play with them a little
#6 be vocal about what you want. I tell guys all the time “Spank me” “ Choke me” “ Cum on my face”. Not only do you get what you want guys find it hot. Also when homie is hitting the spot let a brother know. A “yes” “right there” “don’t stop” or a “oh my god” would suffice. Tbh I’m a screamer so homie knows when he hitting it right lol.
#7 I personally don’t lie, but guys find it hot when they think they unleashed your kinky side. Like this one guy we had sex in his car and I actually got his seat soaking wet. I let him know that no one ever got me that wet before. It’s honestly the little things. Guys like to be the first. Things like “you’re the first guy I’ve had sex in a car with” “you’re the first guy I let cum inside me” really gets ‘em going.
#8 probably my favorite trick because I’m a tease lol is to get on top and to kiss him. Make sure he’s into it. Then I stop for a second, go in for a kiss again and have our lips almost touch and pull back. I do that quickly 3-4 times. Always have a devious grin on my face. Usually the guy gets super frustrated and will grab you or get on top.
#9 idk if it’s just me but I always want a round 2. (It might be just me because I’ve been told I tire guys tf out) but in between when you’re cuddling and kissing and what not slowly start giving him a handjob or rubbing ya booty on his dick. When you feel it get semi hard put it in your mouth and give it one hard long suck ( the kind that’s really noisy and suction-y). He should be rock hard. Then straddle him, give him a lil kiss and whisper in his ear “ I want you to fuck me senseless” I swear that drives guys crazy. Like guys tell me it’s the hottest thing they’ve ever heard.
#10 in general I really go with the flow. I try to be open-minded. I also know shit I would not do. Like no dude is peeing on me. Guys are human and can get they’re feelings hurt. Like this one guy had some really interesting kinks. I didn’t shut him down and listened to him and let him explain himself and he really appreciated it. I ended up not agreeing to do the kinky stuff, not because I thought it was weird just for personal reasons.I hope I helped! This was honestly word vomit but let me know if you have any follow up / specific questions :)
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