sorry to the "let people enjoy things" crowd but it's actually really fun to make fun of things you don't like. if u need ur interests validated by strangers then that's super not my problem
it's easily observed that most women understand the danger men pose to them. it's widely acknowledged that things, on the whole, have been very bad for women everywhere for a very long time, and that the individual liberties women have in the west today (mostly the freedom to produce and to consume, albeit still not to the degree that men are entitled to) have done little to make women the actual decision makers in society. it's, as they say, a man's world, and that certainly hasn't been threatened by any social movement on a wide scale. and yet none of this has hampered women's collective devotion to and enthusiasm for partnering with and making more men, and the only group actually explaining this, or even talking about it, is the blackpill feminist.
if anything, blackpiller feminists have an optimistic perspective, which is the crux of the argument, that people (and for once that includes women) are doing these frankly baffling things Because They Want To. like that's genuinely the whole point. all of this everywhere is happening because People Fucking Want It, and of course the inverse statement, that People Want To Fuck. that's the scary boogeyman argument everyone is so afraid of, that, according to our detractors, we as blackpill feminists must have been each individually spited or traumatized into realizing. because obviously there's no other way to come to that conclusion.
and that's why we're never making it out of the patriarchy, innit, because even just talking about women's actions in the first place means you hate women. any suggestions for how to get the boot off our neck means you supported the boot the whole time and you want women under the boot forever. even mainstream feminists don't want to talk about men's actions anymore for, i presume, similar reasons; the party line has shifted from "men oppress women" to "patriarchy oppresses everyone" because holding up a mirror is actually worse than hurting a woman in the first place since hurting women is just business as usual. noticing it, or, god forbid, doing something about it (like choosing not to screw and birth men), is actually the worst thing you can do, and the close runner up to that is to tell other women they don't have to screw and birth men either. but women don't want that solution so i guess we're just gonna do this until humans are wiped off this planet.
Woman sentenced to 50 years in prison for killing the man who had groomed her since she was 14, raped her, and financially coerced her into multiple cosmetic surgeries.
50-year-old Hal Sasko invited 17-year-old Sarah Brooke Gonzales-McLinn to move in with him after she graduated high school. Three years earlier, Sarah worked for Sasko at the pizza shop he owned. When she left that job, Sasko continued to contact her. Sarah confided in him about her complicated relationship with her parents, her neighbor molesting her as a child, and her experience being raped by a man that burned her with his cigarette.
âSasko promised to take care of her.â
Sasko charged Sarah rent and provided her with âunlimited access to marijuana and alcoholâ while increasingly demanding more money for gas, her phone, and other bills.Â
When Sasko shared that he was attracted to Sarah, she âshut him down.â When she discussed moving out, Sasko threatened to sue her and told her he could wreck her credit so that she could never get an apartment or buy a car. Eventually, Sasko started demanding sex alongside rent.
After this, Sasko bragged to his friends about having a âyoungâ but âunattractiveâ girlfriend and started pushing Sarah to have cosmetic surgery.
He paid for her to get a nose job, then added the $6,000 cost to the bill she would have to repay before she could stop having sex with him.
He told her that men donât like flat-chested women. She needed a curvier body. He wanted her to have breast augmentation surgery, but the doctor said she was too young. He arranged for her to have buttocks implants instead. She objected but felt she had no choice.
He added the $10,000 cost to her bill.
She estimated that he raped her two to three times per week for 10 months.
On Janary 14, 2014, Sasko texted Sarah to apologize for trying to rape her earlier that week. But at 5:15 pm, he sent a text asking her to put beer in the refrigerator. Sarah said she knew if Sasko was drinking, he would try to rape her again. When he lost consciousness that night, Sarah reportedly made the decision to slit his throat.
Lawrence police questioned her after she was found 11 days later in Everglades National Park. Detective Jamie Lawson wanted to know why she used Saskoâs blood to write âFREEDOMâ on the wall.
âWhat were you trying to express when you did that?â Lawson asked.
âThatâs how I felt,â she replied.
Later, [Sarah] told Hutchinson that killing Sasko felt like standing in the sun for the first time.
During her 2015 trial, prosecutor Charles Branson argued that it would be âinappropriateâ for the jury to hear about Saskoâs abuse because it might cause them to âfeel sympathyâ for her. The jury never learned that Sasko was a rapist or of his constant use of pornography that featured children, bestiality, and videos of men raping women who appeared to be sleeping.
On September 4, 2015, a judge sentenced Sarah to a minimum of 50 years in prison. In May 2021, Sarahâs defense attorney successfully argued for reducing her prison sentence to a minimum of 25 years, after which she would be legally allowed to seek parole.
In a column for the Kansas Reflector, Sarahâs prosecutor and defense attorney co-wrote an article claiming, âbattered woman syndrome defense wouldnât be a Get Out of Jail Free card.â
Prison staff continue to taunt and objectify Sarah.
[Sarah] said her unwanted buttocks implants are a constant reminder of the physical and emotional pain Sasko inflicted on her.
Shortly after she arrived at prison, she asked to have them removed.
âThey were all just curious,â [Sarah] said. âI remember one nurse went and called another nurse in and they both touched me.â
The state denied her the medical procedure.
âYeah, it would be ideal if all of the nurses would, you know, follow HIPAA and keep your medical stuff private, but they donât,â [Sarah] said. âAnd they told a lot of people â a lot of officers, a lot of inmates. That was just very traumatic.â
Sasko was attempting to groom two 16-year-old girls before Sarah stepped in. Her reported actions likely saved these girls years of similar torture.
"Confidential police reports revealed Sasko was grooming 16-year-old twin girls before his death. Their mother was furious at the attention and gifts he provided them, including cash, gas, clothes, subwoofers for their car, and an unsolicited envelope of marijuana. When the mother blocked his number on their phones, he bought them new phones. If they ever wanted to run away, he told the girls, they could move in with him" (x).
Send funds to to Sarah Gonzales-McLinn's commissary account through accesscorrections.com/send-money:
Register Number: 2000080128
Located at: Topeka CF-Central
Earliest Possible Release Date: 02/01/2039
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After confirming your account and logging in, navigate to the Send Money page. Select Kansas for the state, KS DOC for the agency, and type 2000080128 for the ID. Sarahâs full name will populate immediately.
Select your payment method. Access Corrections accepts Visa, Mastercard, and money orders.
A four-digit security code will then be sent to the phone number attached to your account. Once entered, you can click ânextâ to be directed to the Deposit Information page.
Add your deposit amount. Handling fees range from $2.95 to $8.95 depending on how much you would like to send.
Add your payment information and click PAY NOW. You can view your transaction history on your account dashboard.
Mail for Sarah should be sent to this address:
Sarah Gonzales-McLinn 2000080128
Topeka Correctional Facility
815 S.E. Rice Road
Topeka, KS 66607
I'd like it if women who sleep with men and date them were more honest about the reasons why. It's okay to say that you just really like dick because that's how evolution spat you out and that there's nothing feminist about it. It's okay to say that you enjoy the power dynamics, the receiving role, the degradation. It's okay to say that you're masochistic and just really like the way things are. It's okay to say that you just really like men, their bodies, and how they are, and that you're willing to take a lot of risks to be with men because that's an important goal to you. It's okay to say that you do not give a single flying fuck about any ideological goals because having a man is more important to you. What's some abstract feminist goal 200 years in the future when compared to the warmth of a body of someone you're attracted to lying next to you right now, right? What's some abstract feminist separatist goal concerning women you don't know and don't give a shit about when compared to Thomas from Starbucks without whom you feel restless and like your heart has been ripped out of your chest, right?
I'd unironically respect it if they were honest. I'd respect it far more than the endless coping and virtue signaling about how it's super feminist to sleep with a bunch of different men and be a BDSM sub and how sex is actually extremely symmetrical and equal. Just say what you feel. Do not justify it, just be aware of it. You don't owe us a justification for it, you can want the things you want without trying to convince us that it's super deep, feminist, elevating and rational. Who convinced you that all of your motivations have to be an extremely thought-out phd dissertation? Who lied to you and told you that all human motivations have to be a result of rational inquiry? Have you forgotten that we are literally apes?
Not prone to catching feelings whatsoever so maybe I can't speak on this, but I don't get the hype around being "pursued". Honestly that would put me off even if I had feelings for the other party to begin with. Even the term "pursue" is creepy tbh. Activates my fight or flight.
Yeah, if the feelings are mutual then what happens is just âone party asks the other party out and the other party says yesâ. I have been pursued and it was indeed gross and creepy.
Iâm stating the obvious here but it really does disturb me how much of male sexuality seems to focus on control and humiliation and pushing boundaries. the fact they make women uncomfortable is part of the appeal. they enjoy seeing regret in pornstars eyes. they like making deepfakes of women they know specifically because they know the women would hate it.
Men weaponize suicide so much you couldn't pay me to give af about male suicidality.
Literally one of my first ever boyfriends constantly threatened suicide. And was sad that I was skipping a grade so he talked the principal into letting him skip a grade too (even though he was low key illiterate and in no way qualified for advancement and actually NEEDED extra time to study).
Thinking back on that situation now is kinda crazy. Lmao Like I skipped a grade because I was top 3 in class and he skipped a grade despite having horrible grades because he threw a tantrum??
Like what? Raped them? Forced them into pregnancy/abortion? Married them against their will? Revealed they have a second husband and a secret child? Kicked them put of the house when they were unemployed to bring another husband?
Men are truly nature's most pathetic creatures. "Oh boohoo 4 of my friends wanted to die last year bc they were rejected/cheated on/dumped this proves that women are evil" who fucking caaaaares oh my goddd I wanted to kill myself for 30 years straight nobody fucking cares that your bros were sad for a couple months because they are weak pissbabies with no resilience whatsoever.
not 2 be fake deep butâŚcapitalism commodifies everything, even the self. You think about your body as though you are outside of it. You assign a value to it based on how well it can help you move thru the world. I stand outside of myself saying âat least this body is still young, at least this face is still beautiful. These are things that will help me make it.â Your body becomes a thing. But the whole time your body has been you, and so you become a thing.
I feel that the idea of being penetrated is so married to having a vagina, perhaps even more so than femininity and femaleness are. people cannot conceive of a woman who just doesnât want to be entered by anything (toys, fingers and tongue included) without it making her sexually dysfunctional in some way.
no one bats an eye if a man says he doesnât want to be penetrated or have his nipples touched or something. of course, thatâs natural, heâs a man. but when a woman says it, itâs weird and wrong, because sheâs a woman, of course she must desire sex in that way.
I feel itâs just another layer of biological essentialism/determinism in the same way that âwomen must be naturally feminine and any deviation therefrom is dysfunctionalâ is.
I'm going to be honest you are active participants in this phenomenon if you cannot acknowledge it as misogyny. You cannot deflect the ideological root of this problem onto something else without denying that misogyny is the motivation. You're welcome to make your own post about how you're against the general expectation of romance but this post is about the misogynistic belief that women naturally want to become passive wives to their male love interests and have their stubborn individuality and unattractive traits eroded away by the right man. This post is about a belief people hold about women, specifically, and if you're not going to talk about women, at least stop pretending you are engaging with my point and not just hijacking my wording to talk about something else
I have never seen a clearer argument for female drug addiction as an intentionally weaponized gateway to being sex trafficked
I could not more strongly recommend reading the entire article, itâs absolutely devastating but itâs a very important read. Itâs a chilling indictment of the way drug addicted women are horrifically mistreated, exploited, and so often forgotten about if not further victimized by the very people who claim to want to help them
Some of you are too young to remember this, but Amy Winehouse's husband/ex husband would habitually film himself shooting her up and then share the videos online. There was one circling before her death of Blake and another man injecting Amy while she was passed out. They were laughing.
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