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29. MKE. Gay. She/her. Cosplayer, drag, & burlesque personality. Gender & sex educator. Sailor Moon fangirl. Perpetually bitter goth chick. Professional sjw. I am kind until I am not.

[eosrising]

Fuck I wish someone cared.

[eosrising]

Lol wow ok y'all

[baapi-makwa]

Boozhoo (hello), my name is Ken, I am a disabled Ojibwe artist from northern Wisconsin. I am writing this post because I am having a hard time making ends meet and any donations I could possibly receive at this time would be greatly appreciated. Recent events have left my bank account depleted and my cupboards bare, I have some food but it will not last and I still do not know how I will cover all the utility bills.

I do have PayPal, that is really the best way to donate at this time, the email I use for that is: [email protected], or you can click here.

[baapi-makwa]

I have the opportunity to move, and this is something I desperately need to do for my health and well being, I will have better access to medical care and the services I require. To make this work I am going to need to be bringing more funds than my disability payment, I really need to get some art together and get more things on my redbubble, I would love to do something like a patreon but I don’t think I can put out timely content at this time. 

I have a scanner now, I am desperately in need of a new computer, I have been using a borrowed computer for the last few months and will have to give it back before I move, and it is not compatible with my scanner and I am unable to add editing software to it even if I could. 

I am trying to raise at least $1000 at this time, for moving expenses and a new laptop, I am trying to move forward but there is so much holding me back and I need help. 

[baapi-makwa]

I’m not even worried about the laptop at this point I just really need to move and I need help to do it, anything helps.

[baapi-makwa]

It’s Oct 1st, in just over a week I will be moving and I’m really hoping this works out. I figure I’m $400 short at this time.

[captainsnoop-deactivated2020041]

saiyans are canonically genetically in to femdom 

[realfuurikuuri]

Do you accept constructive criticism? 

[captainsnoop-deactivated2020041]

i’ll accept your apology

[yourbigsisnissi]

You have to learn how to say no without you feeling like you’re being mean. Setting boundaries is how you see who does and doesn’t respect you, your time, or your emotional well-being. Anyone who sees your boundaries and thinks your being mean or tries to push that boundaries is not a person you owe your time or attention.

[left-reminders]

[ruinsmami]

2018 is almost over and all I gotta say is what the fuck was that

[misshotaru]

Art by:  愛禅

[traitorous-bastard]

[the-incedible-sulk]

I have real tears

[bradkey]

@eosrising

[toasthag]

touch starved me vs touch repulsed me

[mexicantransguy]

You know what? There are a lot of things I don’t understand about the LGBT community as a binary trans mlm. I don’t understand how trans people can be non-dysphoric, because my experience with dysphoria is very different. I don’t understand why there are so many MOGAI labels, or why xenogenders and things of the sort exist. I don’t understand how some lesbians can use he/him pronouns. I don’t understand why some nonbinary people use neopronouns when they can just use they/them. I don’t understand why there are so many ace/aro spectrum labels, because frankly I myself don’t like labels that much.

But guess what? I’m not an asshole.

I respect trans people and acknowledge that they are trans even if they don’t have dysphoria, because I know being trans isn’t an universal experience and is different for everyone.

I respect MOGAI labels, even if I think they are ‘cringy’ and unnecessary, because if they make you happy then what’s wrong with them? What’s wrong with using more words to describe yourself?

I respect he/him lesbians and use their pronouns, because even though I don’t fully understand why, it’s obvious that these pronouns make them more comfortable and as a trans person I understand that.

I use and respect the neopronouns for my nonbinary siblings even though I may say them wrong sometimes (I don’t have a lot of experience with them) because I understand what it’s like to be referred to as the wrong pronouns.

I respect ace/aro identities, regardless of ace discourse, because they are valid, and I don’t need to understand why or how someone chooses to identify. I myself would technically be demisexual, but I don’t choose to identify that way because it feels unnecessary. But if you feel like it fits? You do you.

Here’s a thought: you don’t need to understand something in order to respect it. Just let people keep identifying how they identify, they aren’t doing anyone any harm. And guess what? Even if they do turn out to be cishet, that’s fine too. At the end of the day, all we have done is earn an ally to the community.

[eosrising]

Fuck I wish someone cared.

[eroscestlavie]

improved version . here’s ur sign!!!

[cinexphile-deactivated20190801]

Clay illustrated style horror posters by Clay Disarray

[eosrising]

Consumed so much caffeine that I threw up last night. I got maybe 4-5 hours of sleep. That combined with the brain zaps I'm getting from not taking my meds consistently (running out, trying to space them out) means that my day off will probably consist of laying in bed feeling like shit, as I'm currently doing.

[blacktattoo-love]

[gymclassieros-deactivated201808]

fuck the police

[pizzaback-deactivated20201011]

sewing is one of those skills everyone with the ability should know IMO. i’ve known too many people who just throw out perfectly servicable clothing and bedding because of tears or buttons that have fallen off and these can be fixed at home. sewing’s not hard either. 

[pizzaback-deactivated20201011]

sewing, like baking bread, is one of those basic skills that corporations have convinced people is just impossible or too expensive for the average person to do in order to manipulate people into buying things.

[pizzaback-deactivated20201011]

i’m not saying sewing is possible for everyone, but if you have motor skills fine enough to, say, replace lead in a mechanical pencil, you can learn to sew, and you can help people who can’t sew. here’s a good guide with gifs.

[girl-debord]

this is what we mean when we say civilization de-skills us to make us dependent