Self-love is just as important in life as being intimate with another human being. We must make time to explore ourselves slowly, touch ourselves most intimately, and find the mental release we crave. This is the place where we can explore our own fantasies. A guide to Self Love by your fantasy dream person.
"You get me in this fantasy baby. So what are you gonna do? I know what I want, I wanna fuck you."
Set the mood. Turn down the lights and put on music that relaxes you and makes you feel sexy. Sexuality is healthy and is something that you must celebrate for yourself. You are strong, desirable, and a beautiful sexual being. It's okay to feel passion and raw sexuality in these private moments, in the moments where you can live in your fantasies. I am giving you permission to live in a fantasy of your choosing.
Start with simple, slow breaths. As you take slow breaths, I want you to gently trace your fingertips lightly across your skin. Allow yourself to live in a fantasy of having the person you want so badly in front of you. They are watching you, wanting to see you bring yourself to the depths of intense pleasure. Now, slowly start to touch yourself while you hear their voice in your head;
"You're so beautiful, you know that. You know how turned on I'm getting by watching you do this? Please, baby, don't stop."
Trace your fingers across yourself. Move down your stomach, down your hips, take it down to your knees, and then slowly work your way back up the inside of your thighs.
"That's it, baby, spread those legs a little wider for me. Let me see you."
Move your hand slowly underneath your pants and edge yourself. This isn't about getting there fast to the finish line, so don't rush. Take it slow, tease yourself, and work yourself up in pleasure. Feel how good it feels to touch yourself slowly, intimately. Imagine it is your fantasy person doing it, that they are there and slowly using their hands and mouth on you.
"Fuck baby, I want you so bad like this. All worked up, keep going."
Take yourself to the edge and then back off. Do this a few times; it will make everything at the end that much more enjoyable. Allow yourself to get to the point of throbbing, of begging for release.
"Keep going, baby, don't stop until I tell you to cum. I want you to be a squirming mess.
Remember, you need this time. You need to touch yourself and live within your fantasy like this. This is for you. Give yourself permission to let go and live in this moment. Feel how good the pleasure feels and how much your breath picks up wanting it. Start touching yourself faster.
"That's it, baby, there you go. Now slowly start to fuck yourself. Make yourself feel good. I want to watch, and I'll touch myself, too."
This moment, these touches, this time; it's all yours. Live in your fantasy; allow it to consume your thoughts and senses.
"That's it, go a little faster now. You're doing so good. I'm so fucking turned on by you. Are you close yet? "
You have that fantasy person in front of you right now. It doesn't matter if you can have them in real life. This is your fantasy right now, and you get to have them. There is no fear of judgment or punishment or of them knowing or thinking less of you. They want you so badly and are so turned on by you pleasuring yourself. So listen to what they have to say. Give in to the pleasure, and achieve your high.
"You are so beautiful when you fuck yourself like that. Got me so turned on that I'm practically throbbing. I need this. I need you. Now, be good and listen closely. I'm only gonna say this once. Fucking come for me, right now."