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[view-from-up-here]

[allieargents]

queue this post when it’s your birthday and be surprised

[esbisos]

Hello anyone who went to the take my hand tour… what time do the boys actually go on?

[taechnological]

[jung-koook]

they way he’s sitting 😳

[foxglovethings]

No one asked for this one, but…

If you made lore for a character you’ve had since you were 16, and you’re in your 20s now and have a better grasp of narrative structure and power creep, you can just retcon the dumb stuff. Like you can do that for free. You’re not beholden to the junk you wrote 5 years ago, and you don’t need to justify removing it if it sucks.

[screnwriter-old-deactivated2021]

This is actually really valuable. Every writer should keep this in mind.

That’s also part of the reason you shouldn’t look back at your old writing and label it as pure trash. You didn’t know what you were doing back then. You do now.

[funnytwittertweets]

[blacklacerabbit]

Flower Power 💐🤎

[tonysopranobignaturals-deactiva]

it's worth noting that while the US government has done a horrible job approaching the pandemic, there's also a competitive individualism among US citizens where people don't care to do even the bare minimum to protect others in the first place, and it's so fucking aggravating.

[tonysopranobignaturals-deactiva]

literally this insanely careless attitude during a pandemic is not as normal a thing as you'd assume and it's time to stop fucking glorifying it as peak freedom. in some countries wearing a face mask even when you're just sick in general to protect yourself and others is normal, let alone during a whole pandemic.

[salivapleth]

I want to make 1 million dollars sitting in my bedroom

[cuntess-carmilla]

Welp, Asian women did try to warn us about the “foxy eye” trend that goes as far as to include actual plastic surgery and now Ariana has pretty much monolids.

[cuntess-carmilla]

She even is getting paler.

[bihet-dragonize]

I guess she got bored with Blackface and has moved on to Yellowface..

[smolpocketmonstercoffee]

This is what Ariana Grande looked like in 2008, before she really became ‘famous’.

2010

12

2014

2016

2018

2020

And 2021

This is the evolution of Ariana Grande, who is an Italian American, specifically half-Sicilian and half-Abruzzese. Her parents, Joan Grande and Edward Butera (photo 2020)

Are pretty much the same skintone as she was back early on in her evolution of tanning, maybe 2010 skin. While I give it to you that she is returning to her almost normal skintone, she is notoriously guilty of tanning herself to be darker than some of the black women that she has worked with, especially Nicki Minaj

2017

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[smolpocketmonstercoffee]

2019

NOW though, as reported on Halloween of 2021 (so just last month) she has apparently flown to Korea and underwent facial surgery.

The result?

Who the fuck is this?

Do I believe she’s doing this for the aesthetic? Hell yes I do.

She was doing it to look exotic then, and she’s still doing it now.

[maladaptive-ninja]

Is being asian and black like some sort of ornamental fetish for these people? What the heck??

[sailor-moon-rest-deactivated202]

It’s mainly for men. As men’s sexual fetishes change, celebrities either choose or are forced by managers to adopt a “look” that caters to men. It’s no secret that men categorize their porn by race and that “Black” looks have been losing out to anime “Asian” looks the past few years. It’s obviously a problem that Ariana is embodying this fetishization and making money off it, but its not *her* fetish she’s just catering to men

[cuntess-carmilla]

People like you insist on perpetuating white women’s eternal victimhood and innocence against all odds, making them the victims of even the white supremacy they enact. Fuck off. ❤️

[macheteandpython]

[fuckyeahcomicsbaby]

Different Stories Resonate with Different People

[lovingmyselfishard]

I will always reblog this.

[brightwanderer]

I once spent three hours scouring the internet to find this comic again, I will not let that be repeated.

[dduane]

Find your own resonance :)

[alexaloraetheris]

Old, but still important

[olderthannetfic]

I was just thinking about this comic the other day but had no idea how to find it.

[liberalsarecool]

Republican values and their lonerism agenda are destroying our children.

Anti-humanity and pro-gun are lethal mix.

[jung-koook]

jungkook is so adorable ALSKAKLSASK ♡

[alwaysbewoke]

these motherfuckers don’t deserve any pussy. fuck their dumb asses. ladies, when a guy asks you out and suggests a place to go, ALWAYS suggest another place to see if his ass is some lame pua wannabe. fellas, stop being a bunch of insecure pussies. this ISN’T how you prove yourselves to be alphas. smfh. real men know when to flex and when to chill, this was a fucking “chill” moment and he blew trying to be “alpha.” dumbass.

“do not tolerate disagreement” wtf?!?! some of you motherfuckers want a fucking dog NOT a woman. 

[blackswallowtailbutterfly]

Don’t give men a pass. These are real men. This is a man problem. This guy’s honest about wanting a doormat because he’s too stupid and undeservedly confident to realize how laughable and pathetic he is and comes off as. But plenty of men who are much smoother, who show you a good time, turn out to want exactly what this guy says: submission, sex, and undeserved gratitude for his existence.

[gcdk]

I’ve read some of this stuff and it’s like NLP for incels basically. It’s easy to find.

A few examples:

Constantly move her around, each time she follows you build compliance

Ask for little things, which again builds compliance

Get lots of little yeses in a row to make it harder for her to say no

Location - make it easier for her to come back to yours than get home (eg drive her somewhere)

Talk her into selling herself, once she is in the mindset of demonstrating her value she will retrospectively believe she must have done it because you are high value

Deep dive - basically show interest in her as a person, but in a laid back way so she thinks you’re both interested but not amazed

As soon as she fails to comply, ruin the moment completely and “snap out of it” then try again to escalate to sex (so she will comply so as not to ruin things again)

Use female friends to look popular and well-adjusted so she doesn’t see you as a threat, then basically act as a threat now she has talked herself out of being scared of you

Don’t have conversations by text or phone, just use it to get her to meet you alone

I suggest straight women read as much of this stuff as they can, it’s obviously effective because it’s psychological manipulation. Some men are naturally good at this stuff, some pay for “courses” in it… Some become Elliott Rodger.

[whoopsiedaizies]

No. Just no. If he feels emasculated by change in venue then he is not the man for you. If he uses any of these PUA tactics on you, just walk away. Treat each other like people. Why is that so fuckin hard?!?

[artifactseeker-myr99]

PUA = “Pick-Up Artistry”

NLP = Neuro-Linguistic Programming

[ace-aro-queerplatonic-positivity]

This is horrible and gross to read. But as a survivor of emotional manipulation, emotional and sexual abuse myself, I feel this needs to be spread.

Please stay save.

[cardentist]

not to derail, but these two additions are from terfs. “Don’t give men a pass. These are real men. This is a man problem.“ is coming from the perspective of 1: “men” including trans women and 2: them believing that violence is inherent to men.

it’s not a “man problem,” it’s not baked into their dna, it’s a choice that these shitheads are making. by presenting it as inherent to men it lets the shitheads off the hook (another flavor of boys will be boys rather than recognizing their behavior and choices as awful) while giving people a free pass to harass marginalized men and trans people because men are Inherently Evil and therefore deserve it.

don’t fall into gender essentialism because of predators and shitheads, violence isn’t inherent to men and goodness isn’t inherent to women

[aces-drew]

tomholland2013: my mj, have the happiest of birthdays. gimme a call when you’re up xxx

[sebandmia]

crying and throwing up