You might be more than one. You might be different ones at different times. 🫶🏽🫶🏽 you might not be one of these. There are more roles 💪🏽 but this is an amazing intro.
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the doctor had never felt so out of place as he did when you got hurt on an away mission and he wasn't in sickbay. he should've been able to take some solace in being there physically - you seemed to take a lot of comfort in having him with you. but for the doctor, this was his first emergency away from the familiar walls of sickbay. he only had a medkit with him. how could he possibly be doing enough?
he knows his bedside manner leaves a lot to be desired. the crew loves to remind the doctor of his poor performance in comforting his patients. but with you, now, with painful stunted breaths and glazed eyes and clammy skin - well, the doctor makes sure to offer as much comfort as he can.
he holds your hand while also keeping careful track on your heart rate. presses his palm against your forehead, pushing hair away from your face so he can more accurately detect changes in temperature. after a while, the doctor pulls you up to lean against him, arms tight around your waist - staying elevated will help your breathing.
okay, diagnosing you over and over does help keep the doctor's program from spiraling too far. it was never meant for all of this - caring and loving and watching you slowly die while all he has is a damaged medkit that could barely heal a simple plasma burn. and as the doctor is prone to do, he'll start to ramble - explain the treatment he'll give you once you're back on voyager. how long it'll take you to recover. he'll write up a very persuasive doctor's note to the captain to keep you off duty for a while longer-
"doctor." your voice is tight. soft. he can tell you're forcing it to be more leveled than it is because he's felt the steady decline of your heart rate. "i'm glad you're here. with me."
for a moment, a flicker of a second, the doctor can't understand why. he should be in sickbay where he belongs. he should be getting his instruments ready for surgery because the captain told him a member of the away team was injured and needed medical attention. he shouldn't be uselessly cradling his (lover) patient.
"i'll always be here," is his choked reply. and it's a cold truth. holograms don't bleed out and die. holograms don't wither with age. holograms don't take final, shaky last breaths.
he wants to say more. wants to tell you all the ways you've made his program better. but the doctor will have to wait until you've recovered. it seems like ensign kim has finally gotten the transporters working again.
For Una? Especially if it was amicable and you're still friends (love being a lesbian stereotype)
likes to pretend she's above things such as jealousy - for lack of a better term, more evolved. for una, feeling jealous means there's a certain lack of trust in the relationship (she trusts you with her life.) it means she's insecure about herself (not accurate, she claims.) it means she's afraid that she's going to lose you (that one she'll admit to.)
yet, when she finds you in the mess hall in a very animated conversation with an ex, una tells herself she isn't jealous. she doesn't feel threatened. you were friends, and you're allowed to have friends, and one of those friends just happens to have been your significant other all through the academy.
una invites herself right into the conversation. she's all polite smiles and diplomatic handshakes. feigning interest in your ex and their duties. asks one or two questions about what they do aboard their own ship. gently points out that maybe they outta get on those duties - just to make sure they don't annoy their own CO.
alright, there's a bit of jealousy from una. she hides it well under a strict professional mask, but you know her better. you've seen how she is when meeting your other friends and it was never as distant as it was with your ex. which is understandable, but still noticeable.
"what? oh, don't be ridiculous. what's there to be jealous over? you're not some dumb cadet anymore - you've obviously grown past them. i'm just glad to see your tastes have evolved."
una is a little more uptight while your ex's ship is docked. a little more likely to follow you around on your off hours, just in case another conversation sparks.
she just wants to be there. just to spend time with you. no other reason.
question! if a workplace is violating labor laws (which they often are) is there anything that prevents an employee from:
printing out copies of the laws being violated, maybe with helpful highlights/summaries
(and a helpful reporting hotline, if possible)
taping these signs anonymously in the employee bathroom stalls
i know retaliation is something many workers worry about, but bathrooms at least still don't have security cameras. so is this a practical and anonymous thing to do? and if so, why isn't it more common?
They can't have cameras inside the bathrooms, but they can have them pointing to the entrance of the bathrooms. They can figure out who put them up based on what time people went in and out. It would probably work the first couple of times, but retaliation would catch up pretty quick.
[ Demo TBA ] • Character descriptions • Pinterest •
Genres: Slice of life, drama, mystery, romance
WCV is rated 18+ for explicit language, violence, alcohol and drug use, and explicit sexual content.
Life's taken a nosedive—no apartment, no job, no friends. Desperation pushes you to cling to a chance from a kindly stranger offering a ticket to a town hidden beyond mountains and plains, a place people don't seek but always seem to need.
Welcome to Whitecreek Valley, where the Brass Pine Ranch needs your unique skills to mend a crumbling homestead, and a crumbling family. As you tackle the decay of the ranch and the town alongside the rancher's son, deeper troubles emerge—livestock falling ill sparks fears of a town on the brink of extinction. Can you navigate this community, help them rejuvenate, or will it become another link in the list of ghost towns of America's Wikipedia page?
FEATURES
Customization: Appearance, personality, gender & sexuality, what job they had before, their hobbies, etc. Choose how they feel about being a farmhand, how they're adjusting to the rural life, and - with your choices - how the town as a whole sees them. Are they part of the community or an perpetual outsider?
Skills: Depending on your previous job, you'll have a unique set of skills to help the community. Choose to learn new skills, like woodworking, bronc riding, or sheep shearing, to mention a few.
Animal husbandry: The distances around Whitecreek Valley are hefty, so it's necessary to have at least a horse to get around. Choose your favorite out of a cast of individual equines, each with their own personalities. Also, help a calf into this world and realize how fun it is to raise a baby cow! As long as you're in good standing with the rest of the herd, of course.
Rebuilding: Try your best to rebuild the Brass Pine ranch, and the town adjacent. The better job you manage, the more opportunities (and challenges) come your way.
Community outreach: A dying town is still home, and there are stories to be heard, problems to solve. Lend a helping hand to your new community and see how one kindness can pay itself back.
Romance: Not everyone in town is adverse to strangers, and if your heart yearns romance, there is a chance for a spark along the way. Just be careful as to who you're trying to woo in front of whom. Small town gossips, we've all seen it.
Mystery: There's something hanging over the valley, like a rot in the air. Why are people moving out? Why are exports not moving out? And who's behind the animals getting sick? Don you detective hat and lend a hand to the entire four local police officers working the bizarre case.
THE LOCALS (RO'S)
THE RANCHER'S SON
Mason "Mace" Gannon - 27 - he/him
He used to be so much fun. I miss hanging out with him, out by the bonfires. He'd always make everyone feel so included and happy, and oh, that homemade cider he'd bring? Warmed us up on those chilly late fall nights, when we had nothing else to do. Did I tell you about the time he got us all to go skinny dipping? He was such a charmer, I wonder --
Imagine Mace as your human golden retriever – the guy who's a blast to be around, a bit mischievous, and the first to rush to your aid whenever you need it. After being gone for five years to live his rodeo dreams, he's back, now the sole caretaker of the family ranch in his hometown. He goes to great lengths to keep his personal issues personal, and it's the butt of many jokes how he's always there to help others but has the worst time asking for help himself.
He's you boss, and probably one of the best you'll ever get. Just don't pay mind to the spats between him and his dad.
THE BARTENDER
Alice Marks - 25 - she/her
Alice, she's a feisty one! Like her poppa, rest his soul. How I love the drinks she comes up with at the bar, and that horse of hers! She could go into rodeo, but I don't think after what happened with her pa... Oh, but she's a wonder! Always there with a quip, how they drive her suitors mad. Good thing she stopped with the talk about moving away, the town would be so dull without her!
Alice is the town's most known inhabitant, running the show from the only bar in town, which she just happens to own. Her mind is like a machine for fun, and she's the brain behind all the pop-up events and happenings around town. Sure, she can be a bit like a hurricane of enthusiasm, but hey, that's Alice for you. If the town had a social heartbeat, it'd be Alice – the vibrant, smartass soul making everyday life feel like a blessing.
THE DEPUTY
Word of the wise: Never challenge Alice to a drinking game. You will lose, spectacularly, and it'll all be on film.
Judge Gannon - 34 - he/him
Judge is a bit strange, don't you think? He just vanished as soon as he turned eighteen and popped back out of nowhere! That must've been, let's see... Five years ago? He doesn't spend much time with us commoners though, but I think I've seen him at the bar once or twice. I don't actually think he knows how to make nice with people, he always has that glower on. Gets it from his dad, let me tell you --
Bold and straight to the point, Judge isn't out here trying to be intimidating – it just kinda happens. If his brother is a golden retriever, he's definitely the doberman of the family. He's got this brash, no-nonsense vibe that some folks mistake for arrogance, especially when they try laying on the charm and he's not having it. He steers clear of small talk unless it involves his job, and when duty calls, he's more than ready to throw down to protect his town and county.
There's this local urban legend that he cracked a smile once, but it's like spotting a unicorn – not everyone's buying it.
THE LAWYER
Mercedes "Sadie" Diáz - 32 - she/her
The new girl, yes! Oh, a beauty! And so curious. I do love sitting down with her though, oh the stories she brings from the big city, so intriguing! I hear she finds our town intriguing too, the mayor once - don't tell anyone I told you this - the mayor once said he caught her breaking into the city hall archives! I know, scandalous, but good on her, maybe now someone will argue that my neighbors fence post --
Sadie, the big-shot lawyer from the city, doing her solo act in town. When she's not in court, folks are lining up just to get a piece of the urban tales she's got. A trailblazer and truth-seeker, she's got this knack for poking her nose where it probably shouldn't be, and surprise, she knows more local secrets than the town gossip. Sure, she's all passionate and calculated, a bit out of sync with the town's warmth, but hey, that logical mind of hers might just shake things up and get the town back on track.
It's a well known fact that she could get access to places with the right documents, but she herself has said it's more fun to pick locks. Go figure.
Hi, thanks for checking this out! I’ve been filling it up slowly, so if you have any questions, please ask! (Nsfw are fine too, if I feel uncomfortable I’ll let you know c: )
While most of you probably came from COG, here’s the demo link just in case: https://dashingdon.com/go/6590
request: Could you do first kisses with the voyager crew? Thanks 😊
cw: gn!reader, reader is hurt in one hc but okay
wc: 1,210
CREW: kathryn janeway, chakotay, the doctor, b'elanna torres, tom paris, harry kim, seven
KATHRYN
the first kiss tasted like coffee, of course. fueled by caffeine, tempered with exhaustion, bathed under the light of a nebula. the galaxy had finally deemed it time to give voyager’s captain a break, and she decided to spend it with you. sat on the couch in her ready room together, just talking for hours with forgotten PADDs on the table, it was easy to lean in and kiss her carefully. she was tense for a moment - kathryn’s mask of command is rarely ever lowered all the way. but then your fingers graze softly over her cheeks, and she sighs against your mouth, and the tension leaves her body as if your kiss had lifted a heavy weight from her shoulders.
she’s the first to pull back, grinning wide in a way you’ve never seen before. her eyes look purple in the deep red light of the nebula - like freshly bloomed lavender. it takes a lot not to go right back in for a second kiss. or a third. or a fourth.
CHAKOTAY
of course, chakotay was not going to allow the first kiss to be anything other than romantic. he planned a very nice dinner and prepared days in advance to have all his work done so you wouldn’t be interrupted. there were fresh flowers and gentle music and vegetables picked right from airponics - in the end, it didn’t make much difference. you probably would’ve still kissed chakotay even if he served leola root stew to the tune of klingon opera. and he was so eager to follow your lead. holding your face in his hands, not needing to say a word because you’re already leaning even closer to him and kissing you is the first time he’s felt so completely at peace in a long time.
neither of you even finished dinner. he replicated some tea under the guise of sitting on the couch and just talking - but really, it just led to more kisses. and even with the sharp taste of tea on your tongue, it’s not quite as sweet as the first.
THE DOCTOR
your first kiss wasn’t how the doctor wanted it to go. he had a whole plan and was fretting over it for days. downloading subroutines, studying the database, deciding when and how he should go about it instead of just letting the moment come to him. and it came, whether it wanted it to or not - when you were dragged into sickbay, bloody mouth offering a smile to ease his worry. of course, the doctor would have none of it. his hands moved so quickly, his holographic stomach turning at the sight of you injured (even if you tried to tell him you were fine.)
so, right there on the biobed, you gripped his arm and pulled him to stand between your legs. you kissed him hard enough to make the photons in his head burn out - and really, isn’t that what a first kiss should be? something that makes the world stop and your mind go blank and sets everything in the universe right? of course, when the doctor pulled back, you were still hurt. but suddenly, his hands were a lot more steady.
B'ELANNA
unbeknownst to b’elanna, your absolute favorite version of her is when she’s been cooped up in engineering all day. dirty, covered in grime - grouchy as any klingon could be but still retaining her special spark. it was really only a matter of time before you felt like you needed to kiss her when she was like this. b’elanna would argue after the fact. chastise you for not waiting for a better moment, in a better place, when she looked better to finally kiss her for the first time.
but it had been a long day. everybody was stretched thin. you were supposed to be sleeping in your quarters, but you sought her out anyway. seeing b’elanna in her element just spurred something in you and you needed to hold her and kiss her. if you tell her this, she’d scoff and roll her eyes embarrassed, claiming there must be something wrong with you. maybe there was. a second kiss might prove it.
TOM
he was so proud of the holodeck program he put together, it was hard not to get swept up in it. tom kept pointing things out, looking pretty smug with himself when you laughed or dazzled at something. he generally took date nights very seriously - and with you, tom felt there was no margin for error. there was something there and he’d be damned if he was going to mess it up. so he didn’t quite get it when you told him you didn’t need some fancy program to like him.
tom swears he doesn’t even remember going in for the kiss. one second he was standing there, dumbfounded - the next, he was tasting the fruity wine on your lips and wondering if the gravity plating must have gone offline for him to feel this light. tom was grinning the whole rest of the night, which obviously led to a few more kisses just to keep it there.
HARRY
no matter how many shifts he traded around or how much holodeck time he saved up, there never seemed to be an opportunity to spend time with you. great job harry, he manages to land a couple dates with you and can’t even follow through even though he’s very, very interested. and it’s even more humiliating when he gets paired up with you to go crawling around in the jefferies tubes all day. as if that comes close to making up for all the dates he’s been canceling.
you don’t seem to mind, but maybe you’re just being professional. you’re smiling at him and joking around, only to be nice and spare his feelings. and when harry just starts spouting out apologies after the relay was replaced, that’s when you kiss him. completely out of nowhere. he tastes a bit of salt on your lip from hiking through the tubes. but when you lean back panting, he knows it’s from the kiss. and harry learns that an impromptu kiss in the tubes almost makes up for lost dates.
SEVEN
kissing seemed like such a simple act for seven. she had read and studied the articles the doctor had given her on human romance and relationships, and none seemed quite so straightforward as the first kiss - an imaginary hurdle, in her opinion. but one she recognized must be overcome in order for her relationship with you to deepen. seven recognized the signs of arousal you displayed as she leaned in closer. dilating pupils, heavier breathing, a rush of blood into the capillaries in your face. things she expected to see. things she hadn’t considered she’d feel herself, and so her nerves get the better of her.
the kiss is short. it’s stunted. like a quick dip of your toes in a pool to test the temperature. seven pulls back and she’s sure the implant in her hypothalamus must be malfunctioning due to the fluttering sensation in her chest. but then you smile at her and ask about her motives, seven can’t give a good enough answer anymore.
Understanding STDs and the LGBTQ+ Community
Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) are infections spread through sexual contact. They can affect anyone, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. However, some people in the LGBTQ+ community may face higher risks due to factors like lack of access to healthcare, stigma, and higher rates of unprotected sex.
It’s important to note that the link between STDs and the LGBTQ+ community is not inherent to being gay, bisexual, or queer. These health risks are tied to social and systemic issues, not sexual identity. Stigma and discrimination can prevent people from seeking care, leading to delayed diagnoses and treatment.
It’s crucial to challenge harmful stereotypes that associate STDs with the LGBTQ+ community. Health is a human issue, not one tied to any particular group. Everyone deserves access to accurate information, safe healthcare, and the ability to live healthy lives free from judgment.
Anyone wondering where I got my sources here's the full PDF, but I do a pretty good job summarizing it HERE
A lot of you have been asking me how do I come out to my religious parents or how do I set boundaries?
Navigating Authenticity with Religious Parents
Coming out or expressing your true self when you have religious parents can be a deeply emotional journey. It often feels like walking a tightrope between honoring your identity and maintaining relationships. While every family dynamic is unique, there are ways to approach this situation with care and confidence.
Understanding Their Perspective
Religious beliefs are deeply ingrained and often tied to identity, tradition, and community. When parents express concern or confusion about LGBTQ+ identities, it’s often not about rejecting you but reconciling their beliefs with their love for you. Understanding this can help you approach the conversation with empathy.
Preparing for the Conversation
Know Your TruthBefore you talk to your parents, take time to understand and affirm your identity. Journaling, talking with supportive friends, or seeking guidance from LGBTQ+-friendly counselors or support groups can help you feel grounded.
Anticipate Their ReactionsParents may respond with a range of emotions—shock, sadness, confusion, or even anger. These reactions are often temporary and stem from a place of fear or misunderstanding. Preparing for these responses can help you remain calm and patient.
Decide What to ShareYou’re not obligated to share everything about your journey. Share what feels safe and authentic to you, and remember that setting boundaries is okay.
Approaching the Discussion
Pick the Right Time and PlaceChoose a moment when everyone is calm and undistracted. A private, comfortable setting can make the conversation feel less intimidating.
Speak with Love and ConfidenceBegin by expressing your love for them and acknowledging the role their faith has played in shaping your family values. Then, share your truth: “I want to share something important with you because I trust and love you. This is who I am, and it’s a part of me that I hope you can understand.”
Be PatientChange takes time. Your parents may need space to process their feelings. Allow them that time while reminding them of your love and commitment to maintaining your relationship.
Dealing with Negative Reactions
Set BoundariesIf the conversation becomes hurtful, it’s okay to step away. Protecting your mental and emotional health is crucial. You can revisit the conversation later when emotions have cooled.
Seek SupportReach out to LGBTQ+ support groups, online communities, or trusted friends. Sharing your experiences with those who’ve been through similar situations can be empowering and healing.
Give Grace—but Not at Your ExpenseWhile it’s important to give your parents grace as they process, remember that you don’t need to tolerate ongoing negativity or rejection. Respect goes both ways.
Leaning into Hope
Many parents eventually come to a place of understanding and acceptance. Love has a way of softening even the hardest hearts. Give your parents time to grow, and let your actions—living as your authentic self—demonstrate the joy and peace that come from embracing who you are.
Final Thoughts
Navigating your identity with religious parents isn’t easy, but it’s not insurmountable. Stay true to yourself, lean on your support systems, and approach the situation with as much empathy as you can muster. Remember, your authenticity is a gift—not just to yourself but to everyone in your life. By sharing it, you open the door to deeper relationships and the possibility of a stronger, more loving connection.
Yuvraj Joshi, proposes a new theoretical framework called “respectable queerness” (2011). Joshi describes that for gay people to gain public acceptance, they must ascribe to keeping their queerness in private spaces and performing certain respectability in public…this, in turn, creates a hierarchy of good behavior and bad behavior. Essentially, same-sex marriage is winning legal rights in countries like the United States and the United Kingdom because gay marriages are espousing heterosexual norms and traditions (e.g. monogamy, marriage under God). By performing the values of traditional marriage, gay couples are seen as “good gays” in the eyes of the heterocentric mainstream- From Utilizing the toolbox they gave us:
you can read the whole article HERE
Wanted to talk about this because it is something that I feel like a lot of people who are first coming out deal with they want to be respectful gays and just wanted to give my opinions on that will do next post.
hey y'all wanted to talk about how LGBT teens face unique mental health challenges compared to their non-LGBT peers. Factors like stigma, discrimination, and rejection contribute significantly to these struggles. Many experience bullying or social exclusion at school, which can lead to anxiety, depression, and even suicidal thoughts. Family rejection often compounds these issues, leaving many without a safe support system.
The pressure to hide their true selves, fear of judgment, or lack of acceptance can create a constant state of stress. This struggle for identity and belonging often leads to higher rates of self-harm, substance use, and mental health disorders among LGBT youth.
However, the story isn’t all bleak. Support from affirming families, friends, and communities can significantly improve outcomes. Inclusive schools and mental health resources tailored for LGBT youth also play a crucial role in helping them thrive.
Breaking the stigma and fostering acceptance is key to reducing mental health disparities. By advocating for safe spaces and open conversations, we can ensure LGBT teens feel valued and supported for who they are.
where I got my info HERE, and HERE
hey y'all just to show this movie "But Im a Cheerleader" its a really good movie about the perfect girl. who goes to church, get good grades, and a cheerleader. and how she struggles to accept herself and her journey with be a lesbian.
A parent’s acceptance has a powerful impact on LGBTQ+ children’s well-being. When a parent loves and supports their child it helps build a child’s self-esteem and mental health. It lessens the odds of anxiety, depression and rejection sensitivity. Acceptance encourages dialogue, strengthens family ties, and provides a supportive environment where children feel free to be themselves. By accepting their child’s identity, parents show compassion and acceptance and help create a more inclusive society. Unconditional love and acceptance is borrowed from the foundation that every child deserves.
Got most info for HERE