TW mention: SH, grooming, abuse, rape and suicide
This is the only public post that will be made and no accounts of his will be given in public. DO NOT HARASS OR WITCHHUNT HIM. This post is awareness and not harassment in itself. As an update I was recently threatened by him for making this PSA post. Please be careful when interacting with him. AND AGAIN DO NOT HARASS HIM FOR ANY REASON DUE TO THIS POST. I DO NOT CONDONE THAT. LEAVE HIM BE, BLOCK HIM AND MOVE ON.
I’m not so easy to threaten into being scared.
Hi this is a PSA to the general public especially the system community and TMC community. This is NOT shit talking, this is a warning to the safety of others and a discussion of his actions. Please share and reblog if you’re comfortable doing so!
There is a user on here who usually uses profiles dressed up as the characters of TMC. He goes by Jonah and Jaspyr. He is 18, a DID system who claims to have BPD and NPD. He uses he/it pronouns. (I do not specify diagnosis only because I am not his doctor nor am I him. In no way am I claiming he isn’t diagnosed by not adding that he is diagnosed.)
He has been known to have a shedtwt and shotatwt account in the recent past. He was 18 dating a 15 year old in March of this year. I won’t name the victim for their safety. He encouraged and forced self harm onto this 15 year old as well while dating. This is legally recognized as child abuse. He did in fact post on twt about having the urge to groom someone at the time of getting in a relationship with this child. I do believe he attempted to groom this child only thankfully did leave that child soon after getting together. And yes, their relationship, from what I know from Jaspyr himself, was sexual in nature.
He and us dated recently. Our name is River. We are 23, use he/they pronouns and are a diagnosed system with diagnosed BPD which has been treated with therapy since 2020 and we have been in CBT therapy since 2010. We are also very pro-recovery. This is an important detail.
In the time that we dated, we were emotionally abused and manipulated with lovebombing, victim blaming, guilt tripping and trauma dumping. He successfully gained information about our previously abusive ex, which he was eager to know for weeks, and once finally told we noticed he used the same tactics and patterns she did. The patterns and tactics we mentioned. He used his systemhood and disorders as an excuse to give incredible amounts of love and affection to specific alters in our system only to tell them later to commit or encourage that we harm ourselves and unfortunately taught us how to harm deeply when we never have done anything like that before. He has also confessed that some alters in his system have fantasized about raping us and us attempting to fight him off and fail. And not in a joking or CNC manner. He has as well had quit therapy willingly and refuses to get clean from his substance abuse and SH habits, he does not believe in change. He does not desire to recover and heal. This is dangerous as NPD and BPD can be destructive and cause detrimental harm to others in nature if untreated.
We have also learned he does in fact fish for specific sourcemates in systems with the aim to date them due to source attachment. He does not care to get to know the real you, he will have a ready curated image of how you should be based on source and assume he knows you completely due to that when in reality he knows only what he expects you to be.
Again, DO NOT HARASS HIM. I don’t condone that and I don’t want that. He has dealt with that enough from other exes. My goal was never to be the same but only to protect myself and others especially when threatened, verbally abused or blackmailed. Now I know how it all feels for that to happen to me, I DO NOT WANT THAT FOR HIM OR ANYONE. I DO NOT CONDONE THAT. THIS IS STRICTLY FOR AWARENESS SO YOU MAY ALL STAY SAFE. There’s enough bad people on the internet, to keep quiet in the word we live in is a selfish disservice to you all
Stay safe out their and please please always practice good online safety. You never truly know someone.
