tim

healing space for ex-radqueers and those struggling

[ex-radqueer-tim]

.・。.・゜✭・.・✫・゜・。. 【【ex-radqueer-tim】】

- ✂ he/him, transmale - ✂ dnis: zoos, maps, paras over the age of 18 - ✂ anyone else is free to chat <3

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【【blog info 】】 - ✂ unaligned, leaning towards anti in radqueer - ✂ unaligned, leaning towards anti in shipping - ✂ i try to be respectful in convo but may be rude or unkind in vague posting. It's not personal.

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【【other 】】 - ✂ we're on good terms until you disrespect me. - ✂ i'm autistic and use tone tags - ✂ i try to be respectful of all beliefs. but I am allowed to disagree with you.

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thanks for reading! *ੈ✩‧₊˚

[ex-radqueer-tim]

Its so fucked up that I have to say this but no, animals can't consent.

Fully grown animals, even those of intelligent likes such as german shepherds, are as mature as a 2 year old human. You can't say that just because you can read body language well means that you can tell when they want to have sex with you or not, because they don't. They can't make that decision.

[least-respectable-partypooper-d]

What does prat mean?

it’s an acronym made by @antiradqueer to refer to radqueers, and it stands for “Predatory Racist Ableist Transphobes”. it’s also because the definition of “prat” is “clown” n the radqueers r just 🤡 so ye that’s another meaning/reason

[ex-radqueer-tim]

the two types of radqueers

" Oh, i'm transOCD because I have every single symptom of OCD and have been told by doctors I have OCD. But I don't have OCD. I'm transOCD. "

" I just like necrophiles. "

[wafflsock-deactivated20230929]

saw a radqueer that was "transbrokenlegs"... i can help with that :3 /j

[ex-radqueer-tim]

HELPP

[ex-radqueer-tim]

So, like, are you anti all radqueer identities?

TLDR: Nah.

But for real, not every radqueer identity is like, bad. You identify as having different shaped pupils? Cool. I can get behind that.

The only issue occurs with certain more extreme identities, like transracial, or some transabled identities.

And for clarification, if your a system, whatever. That's your buisness and as a singlet I don't feel comfortable telling you what your system can and can't do. But I do have an opinion on singlets with those identities.

I think transracial can almost always be backrooted to people not being able to connect to their cultures, or choosing to whitewash themselves.

Many people who identify as transabled either do have those disabilities and are undiagnosed, or are doing it as a means to get attention due to not getting enough in their actual life.

It makes sense.

The main issue occurs when people take these identities and start reinforcing delusions through them. This happened to me. And I talk about the overlapping with MAPs and Radqueers often, but it's still there, and a serious issue to many radqueer minors.

[implalazz]

Fun fact I was listening to prison song while I made the Rainbow Dash one, original under cut. No credit needed use em for whatever you want

! BONUS !

[transbro]

Im the creator of these original templates and. its def weird 2 see em get turned into that low quality screenshot and then Remade haha.

[padawan-historian]

no caption needed

[ex-radqueer-tim]

say it with me

9/11 is only celebrated as widely as it is because its profitable

[doll-lesbian]

Me and every other anti-radqueer on our way to be so incredibly cool and educate people

[ex-radqueer-tim]

My problem with the radqueer community is just how many are pro youth liberation

It's kinda concerning how many people in that tag would say great things about we treat children in subtle ways, but then the same poster would have some conflicting post about either wanting to do something vaguely sexual with them / or act sexual related to the age

It also sucks, because alot of radqu**rs make up some good points about mortality and how places like here kinda fail / how a flawed view point on mortality at times

But I'm having to double check when I see posts like that 😮‍💨

Yeah, the PRAT (another term for radqueer) community and MAP community MEGA overlap.

I was initially just in radqueer shit, but ended up getting pulled into the MAP rabbithole and was stuck in a pedo ring for like, 2 years. It was actual hell.

I don't think all radqueers are like that, duh. Some just think its fine to change your identity to some degree and don't stand for ableism, racism, predatory relationships, ect. but that's a small minority.

[ex-radqueer-tim]

Friend sent me some recent posts (mainly the not all RQs suck) from this acc and I decided to start back on tumblr.

I had a transID blog a bit ago. I stated I was not radqueer and I was against paraphilias, especially the big three. I got harrassed endlessly by radqueers.

There is a major problem of grooming and abuse in the radqueer and transID community. Yet I am glad you've taken the stance of not all RQs and transID people supporting it.

Yeah, no worries at all. I genuinely don't think all radqueers suck, but there is a huge issue with pro-contact or using TransIDs to manipulate people with schizophrenic disorders (such as myself.)

Your totally valid for recognizing that, and it seriously sucks when other radqueers will harass me too and tell me I'm lying for my experiences. Unfortunately the MAP community and the Radqueer community have a large overlapping.

Again, I'm not against all radqueers. Just the ones who are assholes.

[ex-radqueer-tim]

wait so can minors with paraphilias interact? im just making sure

Yep! No worries

[ex-radqueer-tim]

Do not. Feel pressured. To become a radqueer because you have BIID.

No, just because you have a complicated dysphoria disorder does not mean you are inherently radqueer. That's not how it works. You are your own person and you don't need to put yourself through the mental stress and danger the radqueer community will put you through.

My blog, and many other non-radqueer blogs are open to you. You have people who love and respect your disorder, even if I can't personally understand it. Don't lump yourself in with assholes who wish they had cancer for the " aesthetic, " or wish they were nazis because they think its cool.

Your disability is valid.

[rqpanda-deactivated20231130]

This is unbelievably condescending, and why? If I'm my own person, why is it so hard to comprehend that I might have a different view to you about disability and how it intertwines with one's internal self image?

"Don't lump yourself in with assholes who wish they had cancer for the aesthetic." Who? Show me one person doing this. I actually haven't encountered specifically a transcancer person, but generally when members of our community desire an illness or disability like this, it is out of prolonged introspection and a feeling of longing for something that isn't there - or is, when it shouldn't be. There is no "aesthetic", but if there was, I imagine it to be quite similar to the types of injuries I envisage myself with from BIID.

As for the Nazi thing, I think people currently like to use that example because it is the most shocking. Many community individuals express hesitance at encouraging it, but at the same time it must be something we don't fully understand. I haven't run into anyone with any personal experience as a transnazi, so as I say, it's just the most reactive identity you can possibly think of (just like the cancer one...).

As you say, people with BIID are their own person. Many outside of RQ circles like to call themselves transabled since BIID is such a technical term. Many don't like RQ circles, many do. I don't know what you think is going on here, but I can guarantee it isn't whatever half-baked idea you've cooked up in your mind.

[ex-radqueer-tim]

Sure, whatever dude. I can't control your actions and if your a radqueer then no shit that post isn't about you. But tons of my mutuals who have BIID were pressured by radqueers to join their shitty community. Whether you want to admit it or not, it does have an objectively fucked up side. But god forbid anyone has boundaries and doesn't want to join your cult, right?

[ex-radqueer-tim]

That one person who was reblogging every single post I had deleted all their stuff also I just realized they have a gore pfp

[rainbowfiedmysotiz]

thatj was odd… insane how quickly they disappeared too

[ex-radqueer-tim]

Probably.. I mean the pro-contact necro thing was like. CRAZY

[wafflsock-deactivated20230929]

i don't think radqueers know what the paradox of tolerance is

anyways, accepting EVERYONE isn't a good thing, actually. 4chan accepts literal nazis (your community actually does too) and it is one of the most toxic sites on the internet.

yes, therians and chronosian people and xenogenders and other "cringe" harmless identities SHOULD be accepted. but once you're accepting actual neo-nazis and people fetishizing races and romanticizing disabilities, then you yourself are racist and ableist

if society is tolerant of everyone and everything, then it will eventually become intolerant

[ex-radqueer-tim]

Yess, that paradox is one of my favorite examples of moral issues.

You can't be tolerant of everything without being discriminatory to someone. It's a hard truth, but it's important to recognize.

[ex-radqueer-tim]

That one person who was reblogging every single post I had deleted all their stuff also I just realized they have a gore pfp

[ex-radqueer-tim]

haha "paraphiles under 18 only" thats fine. ur normal

I'mmmm not sure if your being sarcastic or not? Either way I'll explain this for you since you seem to be maybe sarcastic. Idk. Use tone tags mate.

It's more of a preference thing since I was taken advantage by paraphiles over the age of 18 multiple times in the past few years and I just don't want to put myself in that situation again, and while I think it's totally fine to be 18+ and a paraphile I just don't want them interacting with me as I am a kid who struggles with Teleiophilia (attraction to adults) and working on recovery.