lover gxrl

femme dyke any pronouns 22

[excalyptxs]

About Me !

Hi friends! I’m actually getting mutuals on here now so I figured I should do an about me post

I’m a 22 year old silly little (5’10) queer, femme dyke living in the PNW. I’m genderqueer and use any pronouns, but prefer “he,” “she,” and most generic neopronouns

I’ve had this blog since I was 12 so it has taken many different shapes and forms over the years. Was originally super into fandom culture but now I mostly interact with fellow dykes, specifically those in the OFOS FemmeButch community

Things I care about: gothic subculture and music, lesbian history/theory, Relationship Anarchy and alternative relationship design, ecology, and journalism. I also play roller derby 💋

I usually don’t reblog NSFW stuff but I certainly interact with blogs of that nature lmao

Please be mindful of the DNIs of who I reblog from. I’m cool if men interact with my blog but many of my mutuals and the people I follow are NOT

Feel free to message me, send asks, etc. Pretty much an open book and always open to connection :)

Land Back. Free Palestine. BLM.

[excalyptxs]

It’s been a while and this matches the feed too well for me not to post. Here’s me (a femme due for a fill) and my marked lover at our local Dyke March <3

[excalyptxs]

Thinking about holding a knife to a dyke’s throat while covering them in lipstick marks

[pleasure-victim]

I fucking love fetish sexuality. I love people with totally bizarre, highly conceptual, abstract fetishes. I love the way sex is not merely sex, it is a story played through our bodies. I love the way the urge to create is so deeply and profoundly unstoppable that it alchemizes within us and becomes freakish desires. I love fetishism.

[picketyvvitch]

sending polaroids of myself wearing my best lingerie to my lover via snail mail and signing it with a kiss and a spritz of my favorite perfume >>>>

[puppygirllaika]

You can lead a vampire to blood, but you can't make her-OH! Oh jesus, oh fuck, she's an eager little things isn't she? god damn.

[bunniebun-juice]

NO MORE ASSOCIATING THINGS WITH FEMMES ONLY BECAUSE THEY ARE PINK!HYPERFEM FEMMES ARE GREAT AND I LOVE YOU CAMPY FEMMES WHO EMBODY PINK BUT ALSO JESUS CHRIST CAN YOU GUYS NOT GO MORE THAN ONE DAY W/O TRYING TO SHOEHORN FEMMES INTO BEING ONLY PINK UWU BABIES. I AM FEMME AS IN GRASS AS IN DIRT AS IN TREE BARK AS IN WEEDS SPROUTING THROUGH THE SIDEWALK CEMENT. FEMME AS IN GENDER NONCONFORMITY AS IN FUCK YOU MY FEMININITY IS WHAT *I* SAY IT IS. FEMME AS IN DEPTH AND DARKNESS AND WARMTH AND TERROR. FEMME AS IN CAVES. FEMME AS IN LIGHTNING. FEMME AS IN AN AMALGAMATION OF TRAITS THAT I HAVE DECIDED ARE FEMININE REGARDLESS OF WHAT SOCIETY SAYS. FUCK IS IT THAT HARD TO UNDERSTAND?!???

[excalyptxs]

I am a campy femme who embodies pink, but I am also hairy and I like to climb trees and I enjoy putting my hand on my passenger princess/prince’s thigh. Femme-ness is about subversion. We were never meant to be palatable.

[vamplire]

i love u vampires. i love u gothic romance. i love u fangs in the neck. i love u coffin cuddles. i love u centuries-long yearning. i love u all consuming love. i love u hunger as desire. i love u monstrous intimacy

[vamplire]

the holy trinity: vampirism, lesbianism & homoeroticism

[anonyk1tty]

I am once again telling you to respect studs or perish

[glumshoe]

dandelions deserve more respect than they get

you say “weeds” I say “widespread non-native edible plant and early-blooming pollinator resource that is not considered invasive because it behaves politely and does not cause deleterious ecological consequences”

[mettic]

The dandelions aren’t gonna fuck you bro

[glumshoe]

they have and they will

[ouroboobos]

a butch is seriously life-changing butches i hope you know that. especially as a little kid.. seeing a butch out in the wild will change you forever. its like in old movies where they'd switch from black and white to color to signify transformation

[holyshitimalesbian]

I neeeeed people to stop conflating femme with “gender-conforming lesbian.” Both butch and femme are inherently gender nonconforming because they’re based in redefining masculinity and femininity in ways that don’t involve men. That’s like half the definition. Some of us have all of our body hair. Some of us have short hair. Some of us don’t wear a lot of makeup, or any at all. Some of us feel more comfortable in a suit than a dress. Some of us are loud, angry, and protective. Some of us aren’t women. Femmes are not a monolith of soft and delicate cis girls and I really need to see more recognition of that on this site before I go insane.

[prisonhannibal]

it’s so sad when cishet girls are like “I’m a feminist but I’m not a hairy lesbian” like don’t be so hard on yourself<3 I’m sure you have some good qualities too<3

[haematomanic]

yall are calling your mid boyfriend dressing up as ghostface and doing you doggystyle in the month of october “spooky sex 👻🕯🎃🕸🦇⛓🖤🕷🥀🪦🐈‍⬛💀🌙⚰🍁🕸️” if you saw the unhinged lesbian vampire orgy i’m planning you would hurl

[kissbruised]

“you attract what you fear” AAAAAHHHHH alt butches alt butches alt butches

[tina-rocket]

Uh oh it’s the problem women!