How do you know you love yourself?
You have an internal locus of control
You're an active participant in your life.
You put yourself, and your needs first, understanding that you canât pour from an empty cup
You take accountability for your failures, mistakes, and short comings
You do nice things for yourself
You don't minimize yourself, or make yourself small
You listen to your inner voice, and let it be your guiding light.
You donât allow or keep the wrong people around you
You donât take impulsive actions, you think before you act.
Youâre not overly vulnerable, or overly available
You donât wear your heart on your sleeve, understanding that your love is valuable and should be guarded and protected.
You have goals, dreams, and aspirations, and you work towards them
You donât let people play you more than once
You donât live in the past
You donât play about yourself
The action part of loving yourself
If someone asks you to do something ,and you donât want to you say no
If you're tired you rest.
If your sick, you are kind to yourself and focus on getting better
If you have anyone around you who is abusive, you cut them off
If you're at a job that you hate, you start looking for another job
If your in a bad relationship you leave it
If the universe presents you with kinda-sorta what you want, you decline it
If your unhappy with something or your circumstances you change it
If you make a promise to yourself you keep it
If you're unhappy with how things are going, you work at changing it
If you have a problem, you look for solutions
When you make a mistake, you go inward, and see what part you played, and where you went wrong
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