Hi Abby!!! So this is the first time I've ever stepped out and attempted to ask anyone, anything about crossdressing and I'm really nervous. I'm bi but have always wanted to be and dress like a girl for as long as I can remember. I want to start crossdressing but I just don't know where to start. I have bought several dresses and make up kits but just.... Don't know where to start. Any help you could offer would be amazing. Thank you for doing what you do :)
Thank you, I’m glad you’ve found the courage to message me :)
Starting is difficult and it’s hard to know where to begin. How ever you start I would suggest doing things slowly, look around in magazines and the internet.
Try and find styles and looks you like, I have to admit I’m terrible when it comes to clothes shopping, I just buy what I like the look of. My only advice is only buy things you really like, don’t buy things you think are okay, you won’t wear them.
Try and build together a look, look for shoes which will match a dress etc.
When comes to make-up I’m a little better, as I say I look for looks I like but I’ve also found some good YouTubers for inspiration and techniques.
I have written out a few small guides, I’ll link the ones you might find most useful.
Make-up routine - My routine, plus a few tips and links to useful videos and YouTubers to follow.
How to create cleavage
How I shave my legs
How to walk in heels
Shoe size guide
My thoughts on wigs
I hope that was of some help, feel free to ask me more questions if you have them :)














