Have respect for others, always. You don't know what they're going through. Don't ask about that, just stay next to them, physically or mentally, don't let your pain kill other's mood, just do your best to cheer them up and make them feel lovable, nobody should be treat bad. It's human to have problems and It's also human to need to talk about that with someone but, learn from your own mistakes, stop yourself for a minute, you don't want to be that kind of person that is always complaining and crying about itself, it's just a period, then you have to fight to stand up again and do your best or not, you have the right to fail, you have the right to win, you have the right to fight as you have the right to just stay in peace and meditate. Your mind is overthinking and it's get in the way of your concentration, your life, your happiness, you don't have to be lovable to everybody because there will always be someone that hates you or don't understand you at all, the most important thing is you, then, the other ones that are important for you, old e new friends, parents and love ones. A new friend of mine @mstrumpeter once told me that "things use to happen when you stop looking for them so hard and desperately" and I have to say that she's absolutely right. This period is hard for anyone, it's a fact, the pandemic pulled lots of people in a circle of sad thoughts but we have to realize that we are more lucky then other people. Me too, I was complaining and crying about some things, then after a good chat with a friend I asked myself what I was doing. I realized that plaintive stupid wasn't the real me, I always used to be stronger then this and I have to listen to my own old lessons. My mother, which is also my best friend, because she is always next to me, she use to say that "just because you have some bad thoughts in your mind that doesn't mean they are true" they could be the result of our stress with our subconscious, but I don't want to psycanalize now. The important thing is this: try to clean your mind, clean your soul and your heart so you can give good vibes to yourself and to the others. Overthinking is not as healthy as they use to say, on the contrary, he make you feel sad... and when your life seems like it's too much, stop yourself for a minute, take a deep breath and repeat to yourself that it's just a period and then, you'll feel better. You can jump to a point to another without going through the other points, my grandma use to say that you have to go through a lot of sadness to find happiness but you can choose how to go through all of that, you can let sadness kill you or you can just going on and don't give a fuck about that bad thoughts in your mind because minds are complex machines and sometimes the more we try to enter the bad it could be. I found some good advices on a page called "Tiny Buddha" which are very nice, I should put them on my wall. Anyway, you...pretty human being, you deserve happiness and joy, calmness and serenity, stop listen to your mind, our mind is not always our best friend.
This little thought is dedicated to the myself that is listening and to the others which are suffering. Don't give up, people, don't give up and to those who help me with their words, thank you 🖤
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