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عيد سعيد ،،،، تقبل الله منا و منكم ،،،، و كل عام و انتم بخير...... . -{Selamat hari raya Idul Fitri-} -{1 Syawal 1438 H}- . Semoga kita semua sehat, dan bahagia... 👏😁🙌 . Lebaran yg k 5 d KBRI Cairo,,,,, alhamdulillah halal bihalalnya sedaaapp......with my bro...@naufalelkhalish ,,, berkah insyaAllah.. ... 😂 . #5years #eidmubarak #happyday #bestfriend #experience #selfie #action

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(di مدينة نصر الحى العاشر)

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اَجَهْلُ النَّاسِ مَنْ تَرَكَ يَقِيْنَ مَا عِنْدَهُ لِظَنِّ مَاعِنْدَ النَّاسِ ٠ "Adapun manusia yang paling bodoh, ialah orang yang suka mengabaikan keyakinan dirinya, karena mengikuti dugaan yang ada pada orang lain."

Syekh Ataillah

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اَلْمُؤْمِنُ اِذَا مُدِحَ اسْتَحْيَا مِنَ اللَّهِ تَعَالَى اَنْ يُثْنَى عَلَيْهِ بِوَصْفٍ لاَ يَشْهَدُهُ مِنْ نَفْسِهِ٠ “Orang beriman itu apabila mendapat pujian, maka ia merasa malu terhadap Allah swt atas pujian yang diterimanya, apabila sifat- sifat yang dimaksud tidak dimilikinya sama sekali."

Syekh Ahmad Ataillah

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Janganlah engkau merasa ada yang memberi nikmat selain dari Allah swt.

Khalifah Ali bin Abi Talib

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suatu kali saya berkunjung ke sebuah universitas di jawa untuk melanjutkan proses administrasi study di luar negri, proses ini memakan waktu yg cukup lama, sehingga mengharuskan saya mencari t4 penginapan, nah kebetulan hari itu saya bertemu teman semasa SMA yang sedang kuliah di universitas itu, dan akhirnya saya di ajak nginap di t4 kosannya.

kosannya tak terlalu besar namun cukup menampung 3-5 orang mahasiswa, banyak hal yang kami bicarakan, terkait pahit manis kehidupan mahasiswa.

setelah beberapa hari akhirnya semua urusan saya selesai, sayapun kembali pulang ke rumah, di rumah saya ceritakan pengalaman saya, dan ibu saya mengatakan "baa kaba kawan dil tu? lai dil tolong nyo?". ketika itu saya terdiam menafsirkan makna dari pertanyaan ibu, namun belum terjawab.

setelah lebih dari 3 tahun saya menyimpan pertanyaan itu akhirnya sekarang saya paham apa maksud dari pertanyaan ibu.

saya coba menyimpulkan, bahwa pertanyaan ibu akan sempurna dipahami ketika kita pernah merasakan living together under one roof and away from family, istilahnya itu household managemen (manajemen rumah tangga), dan tenyata kehidupan mahasiswa kosan itu tak hanya tentang memikirkan bagaiman lancar kuliah namun juga bagaimana memikirkan nyaman dalam belajar dan bertempat tinggal.

orang yang tak pernah mengalaminya saya rasa akan sulit juga memahaminya.

semenjak itu saya terus mengkaji dan berusaha mengamalkan etika mua'malah yang baik.

*sambil menhayayi dan mentadaburi Surat Adz Zariyat 26-27 dan Surat Al-Ahzab 53.

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Memang sudah fitrah manusia menyukai segala yang baik lagi enak, tanpa tercekuali, namun terkadang kebanyakan lebih suka pilih-pilih, puji sana kritik situ padahal subtansinya sama saja, sama-samaa baik dan enak. _ itu boleh, tak ada yang salah, namun alangkah baiknya rasa syukur lebih di kedepankan dan mengesampingkan kritikan. _ bukankah segala yg baik dan enak itu adalah sebuah ni'mat dari Allah, walaupun dalam bentuk yang beraneka ragam?. _ bukankah ayam itu berasal dari telur, dan telur itu dari ayam? kedua-duanya jika diolah kemudian dibumbui lalu di goreng, lalu diletakkan dalam kotak makan siang, juga akan jadi baik dan enak, maka itu adalah sebuah nikmat, dan harus disyukuri. _ قال الله تعالى : وإذ تأذن ربكم لئن شكرتم لأزيدنكم و لئن كفرتم إن عذابي لشديد

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Suku Kutianyie

Suku Kutianyie (Suku Kotoanyie) adalah salah satu suku di Minangkabau yang tergolong kedalam Kelarasan Bodi Caniago. Suku ini berkerabat dengan suku Jambak dan sukuPitopang.

Suku Kutianyie maupun Suku Jambak mempunyai sebuah mitos yang dipercaya oleh warga sukunya yaitu apabila ada acara perkawinan anggota suku maka biasanya akan terjadi hujan.

Suku Kutianyia banyak ditemukan di daerah Batu Sangkar, Lima Puluh Kota (Payakumbuh) dan Solok.

Alkisah di zaman kerajaan Pagaruyuang, kepala suku Kutianyia di Payakumbuh (Limbanang) yang bernama Datuak Bagindo Sati merupakan sahabat dari Raja Adityawarman.

Suku ini terkenal punya harta pusaka berupa tanah yang sangat luas.

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A man is but the product of his thoughts, what he thinks, he becomes

Mahatma Gandhi

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Priority Balance: The Things That Matter

Conceptually, priorities are simple, even obvious. We should know what is important to us, and we should spend our time and our thoughts on the high priorities rather than the low ones.

But in reality, in the day-to-day, it is not so simple. There is often little correlation between how important things are to us and how much thought or effort we give to them. We constantly find ourselves wishing we had time for the really important things, wishing there were more hours in the day, wishing life were less complex and wishing we were better at juggling all the things we need to do. Priority balance is intended to help you stop wishing and start changing.

Simplification and Perspective Why do we let ourselves want so much but get so busy and burdened? When will we learn that the trade of time and freedom for things, money or excess involvement is a bad deal? And when will our society outgrow the rather juvenile notion that big and complex is better than small and simple? We admire the Gandhis of the world, who get rid of everything but their eyeglasses, scripture and loincloth so that they can focus on what is important. We admire them, but we don’t emulate them.

To know whether something is worth doing well, ask the three questions, “Will it matter in five years? Do I need it? Can I simplify it?” With the habit of these questions will come some new skills—the skill of discretionary neglect, the skill of selective prioritization, the skill of deciding what not to do, the skill of discerning which things are worth doing well, which things are just barely worth doing, and which things are not worth doing at all. “Adding on,” too often complicates our lives and contributes to the loss of self. “Casting off” simplifies our lives and helps us find ourselves.

Concentrate on What’s Important We took all of our children to Mexico one summer and spent six weeks in Ajijic, a little mountaintop fishing village high above Guadalajara. I (Linda) was in the midst of writing a book and needed background material and solitude, but the primary reason for our trip was to give the children perspective on the privileged lives they lead.

Because we had no car while we were there, we arranged for horseback transportation. A Mexican man would arrive every third day with eight horses (the smallest two children rode double) and peso signs gleaming in his eyes at such a large account. (It costs approximately $12 to rent eight horses for two hours).

Each time we rode along the beach, we saw the village women pounding their washing on the rocks, and when we clip-clopped through the village streets, we saw families with ten children in one room. With eyes wide, our children gazed into the eyes of the native children, whose eyes showed reciprocal amazement.

One little 9-year-old Mexican girl visited our condo every day. Too shy to venture in at first, she became braver each day as she watched the children play in the small front yard swimming pool. Neatly dressed in the same blue dress and no shoes, she was always smiling and happy and came day after day to interact with our children (who were not the least bit inhibited by the language barrier). But she turned down all our invitations to go swimming with us. On the last Wednesday before we left, she finally consented to swim. We were all amazed when she jumped into the pool in her blue dress. At that moment we realized that she had no swimming suit or shoes—nothing besides the clothes she wore.

Our leftover food went to her family on the day we left. When we delivered it, we found a happy family in a home with only three walls, and a muddy front yard, occupied by a cow, a pig, and two chickens. When we asked our own 9-year-old what she had learned from our time in Mexico, she said, “That you don’t need shoes to be happy.”

Unlike the problems of the people in Ajijic, Mexico, the problems of “fast track” Americans do not stem from scarcity or lack of options or challenges. Instead our challenge is whether we can sort out and balance the most important and meaningful things from among all the needs and demands that surround us.

We asked a seminar audience what needs or aspects of their lives they were trying to get in balance. It was like opening a dam. We were trying to make a list on the blackboard, but it was hard to write fast enough.

If we can reduce the things we are trying to balance to a small number, we can categorize the important things into a few key areas, and we can increase our chances of achieving balance.

Three Areas of Priority The easiest number of areas to balance is three. It’s relatively easy to juggle three balls, whereas four are many times more difficult. The mind can stay consistently conscious of three areas. With four or more, some are always overlooked or forgotten. A triangle has no opposite corners or side, each is connected to all. A three-legged stool is stable on any rough terrain.

Life balance is best pursued when we create three areas of priority. They are family, work and self. The deepest and truest priorities of life all fit somewhere within these three categories.

Most people quickly accept family as one of the top three priorities. And work is such a necessity for most of us that it is no argument. Women who choose to stay home with small children have the challenging and important career of domestic management as the second of their three “balancing points.”

But many people question the third area. Should self be one of the three points on which we balance our day? Doesn’t that imply a certain selfishness or self-centeredness? What about service to others? What about prayer or religious commitments? What about civic or community involvements or responsibilities? If viewed correctly, the prioritizing of self does not eliminate these things; it includes them.

Often the best way to serve others is by taking care of ourselves and by changing ourselves for the better. (Ultimately this is the only way, because water cannot be drawn from a dry well.) We don’t get to be better parents by changing our kids, or better friends by changing those around us. We become better parents and better friends to better serve others as we grow and develop within ourselves.

And just as we increase our ability to serve others by improving ourselves, so also we enhance ourselves by involving ourselves in service.

A Necessity for Balance When we ask ourselves, “What do I need today?” The answer, at least part of the time, should have to do with service—“I need to fulfill my civic or religious assignment.” “I need to help someone in need.” “I need to be needed.”

There is a necessity for balance within the third balance point of self. Some days we need something just for our outer or inner selves—such as a nap, some exercise, a little time to read, prayer or meditation. Remember that even very self-serving things can be done with others in mind—doing them will make you a better parent to your children and a better friend to your friends, a better member of the community. Other days our self-priority should be some kind of service, such as making a call to cheer someone up, doing a church assignment or working as a volunteer. Remember that this kind of thing, while aimed at others, is still an important factor.

With this clarification, most people are able to agree that the three priorities of life that require daily thought are “family,” “work” and “self.” The first step in obtaining life balance is to spend five minutes each day, before you write down any other plans or think about your schedule, deciding on the single most important thing you can do that day for your family, for your work and for yourself. List these three choose-to-dos before listing any have-to-dos.

Even if you do nothing each day except the three key priority items, in a year you will have accomplished more than 300 specific, clearly thought out things for your family, for self, and for work.

Remember that the key lies not in balancing our time equally between the three balance points (although each balance point does need some time each day) but in balancing our mental effort. And thinking hard enough to establish one single priority for each day will cause yourmind to stay aware of all three areas all day long. By narrowing down and naming the three balance points, we begin to gain control.

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Tidurlah jika kamu ngantuk!

Menjalani berbagai macam aktivitas dan rutinitas itu sangatlah meletihkan, terlepas dari segala bentuknya, apakah besar atupun kecil, semua akan membuat kinerja otak dan otot tidak berjalan normal, sehingga tak mengherankan jika kita temukan seseorang dalam kondisi seperti ini kecendrungannya untuk meluapkan emosi lebih tinggi di bandingkan kondisi fress, maka jika kamu ngantuk, tidurlah! maka inilah solusi terbaik ketika itu, dan lihatlah hasilnya ketika kamu bangun, akan kamu temukan pertanyaan-pertanyaan yang akan menjawab kenapa kamu harus istirahat.  

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Belajar Dari Kehidupan...

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"طريق الإسلام" هو مشروع إسلامي يأمل في المساهمة بقوة في الإعلام الإسلامي، ومجاراة التقدم التكنولوجي الهائل في العالم من حولنا

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Islam

By U.H.Zulfi Akmal Lc MA, (DC)

Islam ini bukanlah agama yang didirikan di atas figuritas ketokohan seseorang. Islam ini adalah agama yang berjalan di atas manhaj yang jelas. Siapapun yang menjalankannya tidak ada masalah.

Matinya tokoh merupakan hal biasa, pertanda estafet perjuangan sudah harus digantikan oleh generasi berikutnya, supaya mereka juga mendapatkan kesempatan mencapai kemuliaan di sisi Allah. Kalaupun tidak mati di tangan para musuh dakwah, mereka akan meninggal juga sesuai ajal yang telah ditentukan Allah.

Hal ini mengingatkan kita kepada perkataan Abu Bakar yang amat bersejarah di saat Rasulullah baru kembali keharibaan Yang Maha Pencipta: “Siapa yang menyembah Muhammad maka Muhammad sudah mati, tapi siapa yang menyembah Allah, sesungguhnya Allah Maha Hidup, tidak akan mati”.

Itulah hakikat agama ini. Sandarannya hanya kepada Allah, bukan kepada tokoh atau figur.

وما محمد إلا رسول قد خلت من قبله الرسل أفان مات أو قتل انقلبتم على أعقابكم ومن ينقلب على عقبيه فلن يضر الله شيئا وسيجزي الله الشاكرين

“Dan Muhammad hanyalah seorang rasul; sebelumnya telah berlalu beberapa rasul. Apakah jika dia wafat atau dibunuh, kalian berbalik ke belakang (murtad)? Barangsiapa berpaling ke belakang, maka ia tidak akan merugikan Allah sedikit pun. Allah akan memberi balasan kepada orang yang bersyukur”. (Ali Imran: 144)

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They think Islam is going backwards with leaders killed or death. They do not take heed of the fact. The death of the Prophet did not make this religion destroyed or exhausted, let alone with the death of Ahmad Yasin, Abdul Aziz Al Rantisi, Yahya 'Ayyash, Ahmad Nizar, Ahmad Al Ja'bary and others. It is precisely their blood into soil conditioner struggle, became the inspiration for the next generation and further inflame the spirit of heroism. So that these people always bear the knights, figures and new fighter that is not less great than their predecessors.

-:(Zulfi Akmal Lc MA Doctoral Candidates of Al Azhar University, Egypt)

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Kedunguan Yahudi

By U.H.Zulfi Akmal Lc,MA (DC)

Ternyata hobi membunuhi para aktifis, ulama dan orang shaleh itu bukan lah kedunguan Yahudi sekarang saja, tapi merupakan warisan dari nenek moyang mereka dulu.

Ibnu Katsir di dalam tafsirnya mengutip sebuah hadits yang diriwayatkan oleh Ibnu Abi Hatim yang berasal dari Abu ‘Ubaidah bin al Jarrah RA, ia berkata: Aku bertanya kepada Rasulullah: wahai Rasulullah, siapa manusia yang paling dahsyat azabnya nanti di hari kiamat? Lalu Rasul menjawab:

“Orang yang membunuh seorang nabi, atau membunuh orang yang memerintahkan berbuat ma’ruf dan mencegah perbuatan munkar”.

Kemudian Rasulullah membaca firman Allah Ta’ala:

إِنَّ الَّذِينَ يَكْفُرُونَ بِآيَاتِ اللَّهِ وَيَقْتُلُونَ النَّبِيِّينَ بِغَيْرِ حَقٍّ وَيَقْتُلُونَ الَّذِينَ يَأْمُرُونَ بِالْقِسْطِ مِنَ النَّاسِ فَبَشِّرْهُمْ بِعَذَابٍ أَلِيمٍ

“Sesungguhnya orang-orang yang kafir kepada ayat-ayat Allah dan membunuh para nabi yang memang tidak dibenarkan dan membunuh orang-orang yang menyuruh manusia berbuat adil, maka gembirakanlah mereka bahwa mereka akan menerima siksa yang pedih”. (Ali Imran: 21)

Selanjutnya Rasulullah bersabda:

“Wahai Abu ‘Ubaidah, Bani Israil telah membunuh 43 orang nabi sekaligus di pagi hari, maka tampillah 170 orang da’I memberi peringatan supaya mereka berbuat kebaikan dan menghendikan perbuatan jahat. Lantas Bani Israil pun membunuh mereka semua di waktu sore di hari itu juga. Maka merekalah orang yang dimaksudkan Allah ‘Azza wa Jalla dalam ayat itu”.

Dalam riwayat lain yang disampaikan oleh Ibnu Mas’ud, Bani Israil membunuh 300 orang nabi yang diutus oleh Allah untuk memberi peringatan kepada mereka.

Makanya kita tidak perlu heran kenapa mereka hobi sekali mengadakan operasi pembunuhan, karena itu sudah menjadi tabiat warisan dari leluhur mereka. Sedangkan nabi saja dibantai, apalagi orang biasa, anak kecil dan wanita.

Kalau kita telusuri ayat al Qur’an kita menemukan ayat yang berulang-ulang menyebutkan pembunuhan Bani Israil terhadap para nabi.

أفكلما جاءكم رسول بما لا تهوى أنفسكم استكبرتم ففريقا كذبتم وفريقا تقتلون

“…….Mengapa setiap rasul yang datang kepadamu membawa suatu pelajaran yang tidak kamu inginkan, kamu menyombongkan diri, lalu sebagian kamu dustakan dan sebagian lagi kamu bunuh?”. (al Baqarah: 87)

Silahkan tadabburi ayat-ayat berikut: al Baqarah: 61 dan 91, Ali Imran: 112 dan an Nisa’: 155.

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Cristiano Ronaldo poses with team mates during a ceremony at Santiago Bernabeu stadium in Madrid, Spain on October 2, 2015.